NOOOO, do NOT get Depo! I gained weight and had so many problems as a result...even though the doctor tried to say it was unrelated.

As for the IUD, I've been considering that. There's a new plastic one out that's supposed to be so much safer than the ones our mothers had. Starts with an "M", but I can't remember right now. One of my girlfriends is getting it soon, I'm letting her be the guinea pig....I'll see how her experience is and make a decision.
I wanted to get my tubes tied after I had my daughter but my dad had a fit! So...I didn't. I'm a daddy's girl, what can I say?