They say this is a good idea???

Hey Smiley!!
I met my fiance off the net.....I lived in Arkansas and he lived in Los Angeles!!!...Just be careful.....Also..I was one of those people who never hardly broke out....but since I moved here to California...it seems like I always have a least one pimple!!!...And I am 33!!!.....And believe me being 310 lbs with a zit on your face is not really in style here in la......lol
 
lmao! thank you guys lol didnt know so many ladies still got break outs after there teen yrs(sickning isnt it)mine are monsters too dunno i think stress might be the reason behind these mountains :eek:
weight ummmm still at 148(dang it all to heck!)
lol its the sneeky cookies!!
thats very cool you guys are meeting your mates of the net!i hear of so many relationships too, i think its awesome, im very happy for you guys :)
ive been talking to ppl on the net for awhile too, and alot of them are pretty cool ppl,all over the world!!i still get a kick out of that. i have a friend from italy, who wants me to visit there someday(cant wait win the loto im there lol)england,Australia,lots in the us and cananda, but this will be the first time i meet someone like this lol...im excited cant wait. its weird but i felt this intense connection from the first time we chatted...very weird lol
anyways jeans and a cute top its! :) **yup found some dark jeans and a nice white top..if its cold ill wear a diffrent one but i think im cutsey looking in it?? lol**

food
cereal+fruit+yogurt+flax
**edit food today omg im a bad bad girl....to the corner with me!***
i love graham wafers big mistake buying them i ate a whole sleeve of them(almost all to my self kids helped a little)yogurtxs2/health barx2s/salad with meat....from this point on ill try and make better choices :eek:

exercise shoulders/bis cardio i shall try!!!(exercise none tomorow were building a garage so i should get plenty of exercise then)
**oh yes and to follow in Newbrides,Jennifers and fuunky's new pics footsteps.....i put me back on, i agree with Christina its nice to see who were interacting with everyday**
 
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Nice new pic Smiley... your so...ummm smiley... :-D LOL ok..im a donkey..cant help myself!
Good to hear you or read you seeming a bit more upbeat today....
I dont think you get spanked for graham wafers...but if you do let me know...cuz im gonna get some!
 
Good luck on the date! I've always been pestered with bad skin. Lately my doctor has me trying using antibacterial soap, which seems to be helping some. I'm 34.
 
Hi girl, i'm going to jump in here...whats the deal with us? We are all having ttotm at the same time!! so funny. I met my hubby online too! I told him to bug off at first cause all he wanted to do is talk sex :p
 
Omg honey im sorry to hear about your mum im sorry I wasn’t here to support you. How cool to be meeting someone you have been chatting to, I wonder if we all met how many of us would be weirded out by each other lol. I have read over some of the things I have wrote and I sound like a 2 year old, I promise im not like that face to face lol.(sticks thumb back in mouth) :D
 
Some people are weirded out by internet dating...but I say its 2005......Yes. there are sickos, liars, etc roaming the net......but you can meet those kind of people in your own back yard ......My family was not happy about me meeting my now fiance on the net,,,but now..they love him ...he is the exact opposite of my ex boyfriend who I was with for 13 years!!!....
I cant wait to hear how your date went!!!!
do they make your favorite cookie sugar free??
 
K lol thanks hahaha my son took the pic and told me to smile(i hate smiling in pics lol but how could i say no to a cute little 6 yr :p )
Wow guess alot of us fall on ttotm at the same time lol dont they have studies that show that women who are close get it at the same time...weird lol
i use a topical stuff the dermatologist recomended,works pretty well, except at this time lol
Thanks Rose :) i would love to get the chance to meet some of you ladies(and men although they are few and far between lol) on here! i think it would be great to get to know all of you :)
Kcruz thats awesome!im glad you met someone whos really nice. :)
my freind was awesome, our kids got along great! we have to get together again real soon, it was really relaxing to talk to someone you have so much in comon with.

dunno how this week will go. i think stress will be sky high. my H and i are still having problems. ive told him that im not sure how i feel about him, he was shocked and i feel like a total ass for being so mean by telling him this but what else could i do. i need some time for me to see how i feel about things and i think he finnaly gets it. anyways my life is a soap opera!should be the new reality show lol...but with my mom having a heart attack and stuuf it opened my eyes to the fact that life is way to short...so yeah where i go from here i have no clue :confused: but i hope happiness is part of it?

(ill be back later, gotta get ready for school)
 
Smiley! you are so beautiful. I'm glad you put your pic back up, and a cute one at that. Your son is a great photographer!

It would be awesome if we all found a midpoint meeting place. We would all have to fly and meet up somewhere and totally party! Listen to me... terrible, what a bad influence! tee hee and we'll all bring something to share, like pictures, and recipes and chocolate penises.... ooooh sorry got carried away with those things again.

I'm glad your meeting went so well.... was just wondering. Was it just a friendly meeting? Was it a man or a lady? Sorry for getting so personal, but I found myself wondering these things over the weekend....
Yeah I think of all of you over the weekend, and every day!

Hope you find the right path girl, and stay strong, as you are! Yer too sweet...
I did not know you went to school. What are you studying?
Do you work too? and a Mom?
 
Lol thanks Christina :) my son actually loves taking pics. a camera came with a box of miniwheats so he going through film like crazy right now,but hes not bad at it if i must say so my self(proud mama lol can you tell :p )

id love to meet you guys someday and party!(chocolate penises included :p )that would be so awesome lol we could have quite a time :)

No problem!i wonder stuff about you guys too lol im so curious its unreal lol the meeting was great! yeah it was just a friendly meeting and it was a guy(didnt say it before bc i didnt want the whole messing with fire speach....lol)but its not like that, were just so comfortable and have similar intrests its just easy to talk to him....but its like a brother sister thing. i just find i have an easier time talking to guys, on here you gals are cool i like all of you :) but i often wonder if we did meet in real life what we would think of each other then....i soooo have no lady friends in my everyday life (theyre nutty the ones around her lol)...well my mom but thats about it as far as ladies go...

lol no i dont go to school, my son does thats what i meant ;) he had me waiting curbside 15 min before the bus was due to get there hes was so excited! (nope no job either thats a big issue between the H and me right now...stay tuned i think theres a job in the near future for me :D )
 
LOL.. you know L..im the same way w/ woman and men..I have or have had more men friends...unfortunately men and woman have a terrible time just being friends ... oh yes When Harry met Sally was sooo right!
I would love to meet you someday...ill bring the caramel condoms for the choc penises...we dont want to get into any trouble aye!
I love my kids...its cool to hear you talk about your son, mine isnt into anything particular except for soccer..he loves that. Sometimes i think if i can just mold him into a great guy maybe his wife will have an easier time than the rest of us women out there!
Im glad to hear the job thing might be up and coming! very exciting!
I hope you had a good one!
kat
 
Lmao!!!!caramel condoms K you crack me up :p i would love to meet you too, i think youd have me laughing the whole time!
Yeah Funnky thats what i thought MmmMmm good :p
I love my kids so much(even more now that ones in school :p )my son is just into so much, hes growing up so fast its unreal. he loves taking pictures says he wants to do animation and stuff like George Lucas, loves to draw too,we havent done soccer with him yet i dunno if hes ready for that but we did do swimming(went up 3 levels in 2 summers :D)he can ride his bike (no training wheels look mom i can do it! lol) and tie his own shoes woohoo its been a great summer for him hes learned so much. oh and grade 1 sucks bc theres no play time...My daughter is almost 3(well will be in feb)shes my little dare devil, shes the one that will try anything shes riding a bike now too and doing great at it!(training wheels on of course lol) oh and shes a big girl but will be a big boy later lol(so cute what she says to me all the time)..ok now im just boasting lol but i do love em to pieces...... heres a pic of them
 
TOO CUTE!!!

Oh and it made me laugh...nice to hear about the internet dating thing. I'm not alone anymore! hahaha! :) I met my boyfriend on the internet. It wasn't with the intention of meeting or anything though, it was years ago back with I was in 9th grade. Haha! Anyway! We've been together almost 4 years now. It's perfect! Hope everyone else's experience has been too.

Sorry Smiley didn't mean to take over your diary there. :)
 
Hey Smiley!....
You have some sweet looking children!...I cant wait to have a child!...I have 3 nieces and one nephew and they are my heart and soul!....When is your daughters bday? Mine is Feb. 11.......
It would be so nice for us all to meet....I think we would all get along great...I have NO friends since moving here in April...and I dont work..so it makes it even harder...
Okay well good luck for the next 2 weeks!!!......5lbs to lose we can do it!
 
Thanks guys!! i love the kids and yeah theyre sweet when they want to be...
Kc her birthday is feb 11 too!! how wild is that! i would like to meet all you lovely ladies too someday, alot of my friends have dissapeared into thin air lol i think life happens and then they move on or loose touch or something :confused: Amanda im so glad you have somebody and that your experiance is perfect :)

**big news for all who have been following the soap opera that is my life :rolleyes: my H and i have decided to seperate, we have talked about it and we really think its for the best. the weird part is i feel so at peace with it. i feel like im making the right decision for once in my life and he says he wants me to be happy...so im gonna try :) i really want us to be friends though and he says he wants to too..which is good(unless this hasnt all caught up with him yet, i so dont want him or his familly to hate me )anyways we have alot to decide in the next little while but i really feel like its all gonna work out......and then someday someone who makes me truely happy will come along...i might even meet him off the net who knows??? but im so not rushing out to find one just yet, i need to find sometime for me first**

all right now back to the dieting!!!5lbs in 2 weeks huh? well i didnt join the club but im gonna try to do it with you guys anyways :) so weight 148 goal anything under 148 lol(143 would be nice)
 
Sorry to hear that Smiley :( I've almost left my husband a few times, so I totally understand the peaceful feeling your talking about. I just never had what it takes to go through with it...more than just overnight. Nothing provides more motivation for loosing weight huh? GOod luck in the time ahead of you. We all will be here for you!
 
YOUR CHILDREN ARE ADORABLE!!!!!!!

I had one female friend in high school. Otherwise I stayed away from females. They were bothersome to me, got in my way, annoyed me, too many cat fights. I was a tom-boy that wanted the boys to myself, LOL emales posed a threat to me. Now I am starting to get more friends and its nice. I have no friends where I live but thats ok, I'm too busy anyway, with all you guys! LOL You all are the closest to me right now.

Ok, sorry I'm taking up your diary too! LOL

KC my sisters bday is feb 11,

caramel condoms! LOL
 
hey i was just peeking, didnt get a chance to read a lot in here but saw something about your meeting a man from online? and i see a few of you have done the same thing lol. i met one too but it was a guy i was gonna cheat on hubby with - he was too stuffy tho. dam guys sound so much more interesting online than they do in person!

oh and join the 5 pound club anyway! i know i cant lose 5 in 2 weeks but i still joined in hopes that i will lose 2 or 3 :D
 
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Aww Smiley, I'm sorry for the breakup, but so proud of you for being strong. So many women just let themselves be unhappy and it is so sad. I'm really happy for you that you're ready to move on and have positive experiences. You and I can trade online dating stories too! I feel better knowing other people are trying it too.
 
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