Cate
Long term member
Fat Suit Going- Welcome to the forum & Cohen's. It is possible to lose 20-25kg in 4 months if you stick to the program. I find it too hard to go out for meals but often take my food with me, even if going away for the week-end. No-one has to know that you are "dieting" to lose weight. Most men don't want to know any details about anything to do with "women's problems" so think of something along those lines, in a light-hearted way. Another alternative is to post-phone dating & emerge slim in the spring, raring to go! That, in itself would be a damned good incentive to sticking to the plan, but as Lukey says "if Mr Right should come along........." Cheers to all, Cate.