What a night tonight...so my oldest had a falling out with friends, called me to pick her up right away and she was in tears...something silly but her feelings were hurt so I guess it is justified...
I told her I would pick her up on my way to get the youngest cuz i needed to go anway and I go right by where she was...poor thing was in tears and telling me what happenned...so then we get to the sitters place...My friend does in home care and watches my youngest for me...we get there and dont ya figure, her damn dog bites Kaylea's ass...yes you read that right...fucking dog...this is the second time it happenned...it has also bitten my youngest...
this is a hard situation for me as she is one of my best friends...we are talking, crying on the shoulder, buying me groceries when i couldnt afford to feed the kids, taking care of me after surgery and holding my hand when I was scared...she served my X even thought it scared her and made her sick to see him, she was by my side in court when I was so nervous and scared and almost puking and fainting...*SIGH*
she was my biggest rock when I was going through my seperation...
Her dogs really bother me and I get a little upset and defensive when they start biting and hurting my kids...she doesnt think it is that big of a deal and it is...Oh well the dog this and the dog that...yes but these are my kids and I dont feel that it is ok and who cares, the dog cant just bite everyone all the time cuz he is scared or he is this or that...
Thanx for reading my vent...what my plan to do is potty train Taneesha during Xmas, I have a week off, and when she hits 30 months find a licensed center to put her in...one with more rules and scruture and stability...to top this off my best friend, the other one, LOL...they are kinda tied but the other one has been my best firend for hte longest time before I met Karen the one that cares for Taneesha...
Anyway Deanna, my best firend, not Karen who watches Taneesha...LOL...wants to start taking Taneesha in January or February well...LOL...I dont like her child care abilities even though she is ECE, we have never seen eye to eye on our "teaching" styles...and I honestly dont think she could hanle Taneesha...she has an 8 month old...IEIEIEIEIE...