Okay ive determined it was most definatly deliberate nastyness. I gave her $100 cash for her birthday (she was going overseas and didnt have much cash) and she rang me 2 days after mine with 'oh i forgot'. She also 'forgot' several presents for the kids this year, said she would make up xmas pressies.
Well my 9yo son got a $2 rubber ball which broke within 2 mins, 10yo got a home made tutu (read: one layer see through net skirt), the older daughter got a white top of some sort (probably worth more than the rest combined and still under $10), i got a box of chocolates. Sort of makes me glad i got her a $10 calender and $2 keyring now.
So off the bitter bitchyness that apparently is my mother.
I met my sister at the airport who, thanks to aforementioned bitchy mother, knew ALL about my weight loss (id planned to keep it secret and surprise her).
We greeted and went home, yacked till 2.30am (we got home at 1am). She slept in that morning till lunch to get over jet lagg, spent the day and had dinner and spent a second night here (Much to the annoyance of the mother lol - though unless you hadnt noticed im really not giving a shit about her currently)
It was a real surprise to know that my little sister, who was always the skinny one, had gained a little (not a huge amount) and im now 1 size smaller than her! It was awesome to catch up with her.
Had a large breaky yesterday, skipped lunch because of it, then had a nice roast with pudding afterwards for dinner. Today had a large breakfast, then decent sized lunch, and im not really hungry for dinner because of previously huge eats. Got a couple boxes of chocolates now in the fridge, time to re-wrap them to give to others i think
