Thank you for the well wishes ladies. I will say this is the first time in my life that the stress is so bad that I actually have no appetite.
Even when my mother was sick in the hospital for weeks on end, I never felt like this. Its a whole different ball game when its your kids.
I love him so much, he is such a sweet kid...he is kind and doesn't have a malice bone in his body. I just hope we can reduce the charges...the world is such a different place since 9/11. Things that were once just "boys being boys" or prank now hold life altering consequences.
I truly believe he should be punished for his actions, what I don't believe is that a first time offender, honor roll student, capt of sports teams and never been in trouble kid should have his whole future in jeopardy over one moment of bad judgement.
Thanks again for the well wishes...and a place to vent it is great appreciated.