*Stacy's One Life to Live*

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Hi ya sweet Val.. :beating:

Yep..Exactly....You will see more of an example of this shortly in my reply..
:rolleyes:

Thanks Paul! :hug2:

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Ok...

Haven't visited my parents in a long while.. I was actually excited to go visit.

Stephy was off work and I was hoping I'd catch bubba there to.

I was in the garage smokin' a cigg with dad and catchin' up..

I'm in the middle of telling him how bad hubby's mom is health wise with her Hept. C (contracted through blood she received years ago after things went wrong havin' Daves sister) I'm explaining that hubby has been so torn up of course and how his sister just called and informed us the doctors do not think she'll be here much longer. She's 4'6 and is now 80 lbs.
So terrible.. Her motor skills have just went as of a few weeks ago.

All of a sudden Bubba pulls up and Dad just ignores what I'm tellin' him so he can jump up in a panic and start cussin' my bubba bc his truck was screwed up.. Dad was throwin' a wall-eyed-fit in the middle of street.

Bubba's bumper was in the back of his truck and above the back rear tire was a huge dent. {It's an old used chevy}

Of course my bubba doesn't want to be cussed in the middle of the street and ignores my dad and goes inside.

I go inside and dad follows.

For 25 mins. bubba beats around the bush not tellin' the truth bc my dad is actin' like a complete ass and you can't get a word in..

Finally bubba told us all what happened.

At 4am this morning while drinkin' w/friends he decides to get in his truck and let his friend Justin also bombed out of his mind drive them in a field so they can be true rednecks doin' donuts. Justin lost control and they slammed into a fence.

At this point my dad is ranting and raving about ins. - money - and so on.

I've had enough and holler... HUSH - For cryin' out loud...What is wrong w/you people.

Now, Hush...I have some things to say....

I then sit bubba down and first explain that I'm so glad he is ok.

I then start the scolding of how freakin' dumb it is to get in a car if you've been drinking..That's so NOT COOL!
But then to put yer life in another drunks hands is even more dumb.

I told him about the poor kids that have been on the news from our area that are still in critical condition in the hospital and they have yet to find out that their parents died in the car accident which was caused by a drunk driver.

3 kids now have NO PARENTS.

I asked him if he would like to be one of those pple robbin' a family of their loved ones?

I also asked him how we would feel to lose him.

I asked him has he forgotten Zachs horriffic death already? It's only been a freakin' year this May!!

(Zach was the most precious young man and was a family friend to us all and my bubba's BF.) He put his life in a drunk friends hands and this is what happened...



This was 4 mins. from my home! We heard all the noise and drove up and saw Zach bein' covered up with a sheet.

Here he is..



2 weeks before his death he recived his high school diploma..

Here he is with my MaeMae.



Here is the other Zack{the drunk driver that also died. He was cut in half folks.)



Bubba got very teary eyed..

I said...I'm not trying to hurt you--I'm trying to save you..

Don't end up like Zach..

Don't take someone else away from their families either.

Dad butted in of course and begin throwing a fit again.

They said they were dropping bubba off their ins. which my sister Steph pays and he can work more to pay the high dollar ins. or drive w/o it..

I then began throwing a freakin' fit..

I said...

OooO dad, that's a super great idea. Let's give the OK for him to break the law everyday. What if he has another fender bender (He has had 4 in almost 2 years) That's real fair to the person he hits/injures..

What is wrong w/you ppl??????

PARENT THESE KIDS!

Jimmy, if you were my son I'd have hold of your keys right now and yer ass would be grounded. {he laughed...I'm 21...blah...blah...)

I said...

Whelp...You'd either follow the rules or pack yer shit and get out.

That's how it'll be for my son.

I don't care if he's still at home at 25 -- He's in OUR HOUSE and what we say goes! PERIOD - END OF STORY.

I'm very disappointed in you and you need to lay off the drinking - grow up - and get some life goals set up for yourself.

Dave and I have always told you that we will be more than happy to help you find the right community college - show you how to handle and run a savings acoount/checking account and so on.

You need to quit acting like your 16 and act like a 21-yr.-old that is together and responsible. Play time is over.

You have once chance to make your mark in this world. Make a good one.

Learn from my mistakes and don't end up with No education or skills.
(I'm a 10th G. drop-out...caused by family issues and always bein' on the run. After havin' Cory I self-educated myself the best I could.)

Mom and dad were pissed bc I was makin' them look like idiots but I don't care.

My gawd, someone has to try and let the kids know a future is out there and it can be taken away! Also in this day in time you need to get serious.

Yes, youth is wonderful but there comes a time when party time has to take the back seat and you grow up to be an adult. Especially with our freakin' family and all of the issues with health/money.

Anyway, I gave some more heartfelt wisdom and left it at that.

Did mom or dad ever try to continue the convo re: my precious hubby's precious mom?

Uhhh...NO...

I was so freakin' mad about that as well and just wanted to rip their heads off!

RE: fence - It was a run-down vacant space in field that looked like someone was trying to get it all torn down but gave up..

If it would have been a home/business my dad would have made sure they went to offer ins. info.. (just so ya know.)

Great visit huh?
 
Food has totally sucked today and to be quite frank..

I don't give a damn..

Usual Coffee
B- Egg 'N Cheese Pita - 1 c. SF/Tang

L- Slimfast Snack Bar - Water

S- Kashi Protein Bar - Diet DP

32 oz. water

D- Bologna Sammie on WW-MG brd - 2 tsp. hellm. light mayo-
1 oz. of cheddar cz - 1 dill pickle - 2 oz. Lays chips - 2 c. milk
slimfast snack bar

Total Cals:1,740

Exercise:

- 25 min. brisk walk w/Ms. ZuZu
 
OMG! That is horrible what happened to Bubba's friend. You were right to bring that up. I have no patience with drunk drivers. I'm sorry your parents are so insensitive, and I'm sorry to hear about your MIL. That is very sad.

Having one slightly bad eating day is no biggie. You're right not to fret about it. It really wasn't that bad anyway. :)

I'm sorry you had such a rotten visit today. :( Hopefully tomorrow will be better. :)

Sending lots of hugs your way!
 
Awww! Stacy, sorry to hear everything went horrible at your parents' house. :hug2: But good on ya for talking with your brother- and least you got the point across- i can talk with my brother about his issues for hours on end, and all i get is "yeah... yeah... yeah..." and he stares at me, but doesn't really pay attention. Oh well, it's expected i guess (he has an attachment disorder)

you're such a good sister!

hope your weekend gets better and send my thoughts and prayers to DH's mama.
 
Hi everyone. :grouphug:

Thanks for your support.

As Anne of Green Gables would say, Today is fresh with no mistakes in it yet. :)

Thanks Kimberly..:hug2:
Re: food.. I know I didn't go over cals, but I do get upset when my fuel isn't the best of choices. :) I had to fight off other cravings the junk set off..
lol

Thanks Star.. :hug2:

Welcome to my journal cinderelly! :biggrinjester:
Thanks so much! :hug2:
 
~Sunday~

Hubby is off just 1 day..(today)

I will not be around much.... :hug2:

For the most part, today will be a kickback and relax day.. :)

I will exercise though.. ;)

I have a walk planned and later tonight I'll do pilates.

**Have A Goal Reachin' Sunday Everyone**

:party:
 
Hi Stacy

I hope that you are having a wonderful day - spending a relaxing time with your husband. I suspect that you are both ready for some quality relaxation.

I have just gone over the last few days of your diary - and seen what was said while I was away.

I too am sorry about your mother in law. Quite aside from the fact that she clearly is a nice person - anything that affects your husband is going to affect you quite dramatically. And of course Cory.

People do stupid things - and drink driving is one of the really stupid things that people do. Your brother is not alone in this. Thankfully he has survived one experience and been given guidance by you as to the stupidity of doing this. You are a great sister and he is lucky to have you.

I think that it is fair to say that most of us did something when we were young that we can look back on and say - that was not my finest hour.

It is sad that he doesnt seem to get the same quality of guidance from his parents - but as long as he gets it from somewhere I am sure that he will turn out fine.

Just like you learnt much from your grandparents and was influenced by them - he can learn much from and be influenced by you.

As for your food - ok - it wasnt as balanced as it might have been but the calories were ok and you had had a really stressful time. Many people would have picked any combination of alcohol and chocolate and had a binge.

As for your education level - you are a capable, intelligent young woman. Frankly I am often commenting on how little I use most things that I learnt in secondary school. I honestly believe that there are many career opportunities that can come your way. Sometimes people pass qualifications because they have a good memory for facts and figures - but have great difficulty filling a role in the workplace. Some people find it difficult to relate to others and build a network of contacts - I am convinced that you are very good at these skills, and a prospective employer would think so too.

Take care
Love
Margaret
 
Hey Baby,

I just read that whole family ordeal. As for Zach's death... yah, been there. Seen all of that crap before. It's just a damn shame to see youngins leave before their time. I just lost one of my close friends the beginning of October, because the driver of the vehicle was shitfaced. My KC suffered a week prior before finally passing away. The driver is a moron and I want to fly to San Fran to beat his dumb ass. He's alive and well. Ain't that a bitch?

Anyways, I hope you enjoyed your "relax day," supermom.

-Sheryl
 
Howdy Stacy......Just stumbling by to say howdy,still sick
so I will go HUGG my vaporizer now lol Have a great relax day Tammy
 
Just watching Sue Johanson's sex talk show. It's a repeat of last week with the sex toy expert talking about sex toy safety. He just handed sue a dildo and had her smell it--and they're doing this with a straight face. I am giggling like a teenager. Uh oh--cock rings now...I just learned something--if you can't boil your sex toy in water, you shouldn't use it..lmao. :smilielol5::smilielol5:

Have a happy Monday, Sugar Lips!! :D
 
LOL Kimberly!
Thanks for the AM laugh! :hug2:
For your support as well sweetie. :)

>>>>>

Sheryl:
So sorry to hear about about yer loss as well.
It does suck!
Thanks for your support sweetie. :hug2:

Margaret:
Thanks so much. :hug2:
Yes, it is so hard to watch Dave's mom wilt away like she is.
She was just a lil ball of fire. So cute.. It was so funny bc when Cory was in 4th G. he was already taller than his Granma..lol
She has always been tiny. Bein' so sick though has made her look even more fragile.

At one time she was doin' so much better and in remission. All of a sudden after only a few mo. the hept. c started attacking her again.

Tammy:

I hope you'll be 100% soon! Keepin' up with food/exercise is twice as hard sick!
Especially when ya have a house to run and kids to tend to!
:hug2:
 
Yesterday Recap:

WOW...The first time I didn't log food! :willy_nilly:

HeeHee..I was too busy with it bein' hubby's only day off.

Food was on target, just a lil too much in my opinion.

Total Cals: 1,738

No exercise..That will now be my "rest day."

Time ta get back to business! :)

Even though it was short, hubby and I enjoyed his day off.

This may be TMI but it's my diary and I can talk about what I want...LOL :D

Man, hubby and I really connected last night.. I love those times when you're just so in tune w/each other the sex just knocks yer socks off.
It was one of those nights. :D I know I burned a lot of cals! LMBO!

Don't get me wrong, it's always awesome, but you gals know what I'm talkin' about. ;)

It's just the kinda thing that I can only explain as just so in tune and connected.

Makes us fall in love w/each other like the first time again.

OK...Nuff of that... :D
>>>>>>>>>

~*Monday*~ 11/12

Just gotta pick up the house here and there and finish up some laundry.

The rest of the day will be spent on exercise/focus- with planning meals for the week and makin' sure I step up the exercise.

I also have to run a few errands. Time ta pick up a few more things grocery wise.
Not Super*Target, just odds and ends.

Have A Goal Reachin' Day!! :hug2:

~Wish Me Luck!~ Circuit Training will kick my butt today bc it's been so long since I've done it!

lol
 
Okay, was it do your man night or what??? LOL LOL yeah, I know EXACTLY what's your talking about, and I'm going to let it be that! LOL :hurray::hurray: It's ALL GOOD!! HAHAHAHAHA

Sorry to read the past few pages and the problems at your dads, WOW what a very sad time in deed!! HUGS TO YOU!!

Have fun with the circuit training girlfriend, your going to LOVE IT!!!

LUB YA!
Sneeker Poo
 
*TeeHee* :waving:

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Thanks sweetie!

Been tons of drama as always! :rolleyes:

I swear, I ought ta start writing this stuff down as a manuscript and send it to the soap opera people!

I could end up RICH! LMAO! :biggrinjester:
 
Bah... wtf? It seems everyone's been either getting laid or getting sick. I'm getting neither. hahaaaa!! Hey, angel butt.. wanted to drop in to say good for you for having "awesome sex" last night and well, getting to spend quality time with the H. Love yas, doll.

-Sheryl
 
Fixin' ta start dindin..

*If any thing changes with amounts @ dinner I'll update..*
Should be fine though.. :)

Food Today:

B- Usual Coffee - Kashi Pumpkin Spice Flax Bar

L- Ham Wrap - 1 carb control tortilla stuffed with: 1 oz. shaved deli ham - romaine lettuce - chopped toms - 1 tsp. drizzled ranch dressing - S&P
Triscuit Nachos - 8 RF Triscuits with cheddar cz and Jalp. peppers {1 oz. cheese} Toasted for cheese to melt.
Diet DP

S- 2 SnackWells DFood cookies - 3 oz. skim milk {lol - just enough for cookies}

D- My Parmesan Chicken {7 oz./boneless-skinless CK Breasts} >In Recipe Section< - Mixed Veggies {6 oz.} - 1/2 C. Lipton/Knorr Rice {Chick-Flav.}
Ice Water w/lemon

32 oz. water {still going}

Dessert/Choc. Fix - Slimfast Peanut Butter Snack Bar
:flame: {RHC must be about ta visit!} Been cravin' choc.

Total Cals: 1,442

Exercise:

- Pilates - 40 mins! {2X back ta back}

No circuit training.. Kinda havin' a strange RA day.. The pilates helped!
 
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