I couldn't imagine having two THAT close in age! I wanted mine close together and they are pretty close in age. 21.5 months apart and that's hard enough! It's not bad for the most part but my toddler has been HORRIBLE when it comes to naptime and bedtime. It's a HUGE battle. So we got strict and it was hard the first 2 days, (like over an hour screaming and crying at naptime and bedtime) but yesterday went well! Almost no screaming and crying, it was great! Of course she got up a few time with excuses but we put her back to bed easily. So hopefully today goes well again too.
And yes, stay positive!!!