I know how you feel about the baby thing. Although, it's just me and my younger sister (she's 2 years younger) and she got married 3 days after she turned 18 and had her first baby a month and a half before she turned 19. Then got divorced, and had her 2nd child (thanks to a one night stand) 2 days after she turned 22. Now she's remarried (for the 3rd time) and between the two of them they have 3 kids, all under 10. Um...how do you figure to support them ALL and yourselves???
I never was worried about the fact that she had them first - I don't want any of my own, but it did kinda bug me that she was married first. And again. And AGAIN. LOL. Especially since the man I call my "hubby" isn't technically. We're not legally married, but we might as well be. However, we've been together (shoot, we've been living together!) longer than all 3 of her marriages combined have lasted so far.
Congrats on the big family! My mom is the oldest of 8.