Thank you ladies, it's the seemingly little things that make the difference.
Sorry about the lady of the flies.
I shared that title with my wife, I can't say she laughed, but she certainly appreciated the humor.
Weekend went worse than planned, but better than expected. I stuck to my drinking plan on Friday night, but they didn't offer salads, so we split a platter of nachos, and I focused on the deposits of chicken and vegetables. Saturday was a veggie-jammed omelet, moderate snacking throughout the day, but that night was the proverbial shit show I expected at our friends' house. I ate a lot of carrots, but I really just ate a lot of everything. Sunday was pretty good, a reasonable balanced breakfast, good snacks all day, and drank lots of water.
I finally tried Yoga by Adrienne, and I like her. It seems that a "strength yoga" day and a "stretch yoga" day for the week work well for me. I did my rowing on Friday, yoga on Saturday, lifted and yard work on Sunday. I'm up to 30 decent push ups now - pretty good when you're 3 and a half bills - followed by bench pressing and flyes. Followed by then trying not to get sick carrying a laundry basket up stairs cuz I'm so quivery.