MGB's Diary: "Clean Your Plate," they said.

you look far from being a tomboy!!! Wish we all lived close so we could hang out!!! It would be a blast!!!
I know what you mean about the supportive husband.... mine keeps buying me stuff...mp3 player, 2 new pairs of tennis shoes, workout clothes...a ton of stuff!! So then one day he looks at me and says " you know , im adding everything i buy you up, and if you dont lose the weight, you're paying me back.." i laughed soooo hard....silly men...lol
Anyways wait till he realizes i have to buy a whole new wardrobe when i lose the weight!!!
Its hot here too... i spent all day at my sisters pool with the kids. I cant believe im still awake after last night, but no time to sleep with the kids!!

im debating on buying the turbo jam dvd....you've almost convinced me!! only problem.... when i do videos at home my son feels the need to attack my legs and latch on!!!! I spend half the time tring to kick him off!!lmao

Rena
 
Weird, but oh so sad....

So I've been talking to a girlfriend of mine who I've known for a few years and she said the weirdest thing to me. We were talking about sex (because I was bragging about all the "Fake Orgasms" I had a couple hours ago) and she says, "You know... until this day, I never allow my boyfriend to see me naked?" "What? Are you serious?" "Yah... I just can't. I'm just too obese!" Okay... now let me tell you, this bitch is only about 130 lbs and she's been with this bf for almost a year. "Have you lost your damn mind? Girl, don't talk to me about being obese. You're lucky you're on the other side of this phone, because if you were here in person, I'd bitchslap you." She continues by saying that she doesn't like her body and that she and her bf have this understanding. I can't imagine that. What does she do? Tell him to close his eyes, undress then toss herself under the sheets while keeping "downstairs" open for business then screaming at him, "Go ahead.... have a go at it!" It made her laugh, but I was being serious.

I knew there was more to the story. She then said, "My boyfriend thinks my cellulite is nasty, so he's okay with not seeing me naked." Okay... stop! Hold the press! Did she just say what I think she said? I have come to the conclusion that her boyfriend is nothing but a worthless douche. Obviously, he's made her insecure and THAT pisses me off. I don't care if he's handsome or if he drives a nice car or if he spends 5 hours a night in a gym. So I calmly explained to her that she's pretty and she doesn't deserve that type of treatment. "Sheryl, I'm fat. I just need to lose 30 lbs by the end of September. I'm going to buy Trim Spa tomorrow." Egads......

Anyways, I'm going to post my accomplishments now, so that I can come up with a master plan to stop my girlfriend.

Workout:
- Power Sculpt 1-2 (30 min)
- Cardio Party #2 (43 min)
- 30 min walk

(It was tooooo damn hot and I didn't feel like passing out. haha)

Meals:

Breakfast:
- poached egg
- 1 c blueberries in oatmeal
- fresh diced strawberries and kiwi with cottage cheese (480 cal)

Snack:
- 1c 1% milk
- English muffin with turkey breast (280 cal)

Lunch:
-Turkey Hoagie (lettuce, onion, tomatoes, mustard) (330 cal)

Snack:
-Infamous Ghetto Banana Burrito with 2 tbs peanut butter (420 cal)

Dinner:
- homemade whole wheat pasta salad (Light italian dressing, green bell peppers, red onions, and olives) with diced chicken breast
- 1c 1% milk
- 1/4 c mashed potatoes (stole from Sean's plate.. haha)
- No sugar added fudgsicle (dessert) (625 cal)

Total Calories: 2,150 calories (1990-2340)
President's Challenge Points Earned: 769 pts

Notes: I am really happy to have found this site. You all have been so helpful, friendly, and downright funny. I have so many of you to thank for being such an inspiration. Here's to our health, party peeps!

-Sheryl
 
I was seriously disturbed by what I read because i had a boyfriend just like that on and off in high school. I don't know if any of you read Dan Savage but I have four letters DTMA (Dump the MotherF**ker already). Those are serious signs of controlling and abusive behavior :cry: I hope its really not that bad and you can help her realize what an ass he is. He shouldn't treat her like that... she HAS to lose 30 pounds before the end of september... ughhh!
 
Ugh, some people. Just because I am overweight doesn't mean you get a "talk trash on me card"- and me not say anything. I feel sorry for your friend, I wish I could give her a big hug. I know how it is to be put down by a guy , who you love. It's one of the hardest things to hear, just because of who it is coming from. I would be furious also. :[


I am one of the nicest people you will meet. I really am, I hardly ever argue with anyone. Unless someone talks about my weight, or my family/friends :mad: ..

Ok here is an example. My sister and I went to wal-mart the other day to buy this dish set my mom wanted for something. Well, my sister dresses in low cut shirts, just like most other woman. Even I do it sometimes. We were checking out and some chick walked by she had to be 20ish, she had her kid with her now and her mother. She looked at my sister and looked back at her mom and as they started walking she said really loudly, " I don't know whats worse, the girl in the mini skirt- or the girl with her boobs hanging out.".. My sister and I just looked at each other like WTF. Now.. my sister weighs about 140, she is 5'9 has D bewbs( they are fake.) If she had a size B cup and wore the SAME shirt in her size with it low cut. Do you ever think that woman would say anything to her at all??? I gave her a mouth full. It was just uncalled for! We didn't even say anything to her :mad: .. We are not the one to talk about people, or criticize them. It just makes me mad when people think its ok to just go around spewing crap at anyone they want. -_- One day they will say the wrong thing to someone who wouldn't have been as generous as I was.

I never hear anyone say anything about my low cut shirts though:] I think its because I am overweight- if anything they talk about that.

Oh, well. I can't change how some people are. They will get what they deserve though- karma is a bitch :D


You are doing so well, I had a few mishaps with my food this week :[
 
i have a girlfriend who is the same way. Shes been with her bf for 5 years and she wont be naked in front of him. During sex she wears a shirt!!! Im like wtf...thats crazy.....when im home i am basically naked half the time. I mean....if you are with someone they have to accept you the way you are...if they like it or not. I am sure my husband would prefer me with less fat but he never tells me im not attractive or makes me feel insecure. In fact he always goes out of his way to make me feel beautiful( even if i know i could improve). Im sorry but if you arent comfortable with him you shouldnt be with him....thats what you need to tell her!!! And how could you possible enjoy sex if you are worried about your body???? I mean....what?...they only do missionary or something???? WEIRD!!!!
And....just cause she loses weight doesnt mean she'll get rid of the cellulite....hellooooo some skinny people have it and some fat people dont....i dont THANK GOD!!
ohhhhh wellllllll....
your day sounded awesome even though you pretend like you took it easy on the exercise!!!!lol Your food is awesome as usual.
have fun...sweet dreams

Rena

PS at what point does one have to stop being naked in front of their kids???? My husband and I are dreading putting our clothes on!!!lol And whats even more funny is when i go out everything in covered!!!

PPS Islam teaches that a wife should be like a slut for her husband...so basically----get your freak on!!!lol:jump: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Rena
 
Hi Sheryl,
Just wanted to stop by and say wassup! Thanks for dropping by my diary today with the inspiring post.
I've been reading through yours and YOU are a F*'n Riot! I love it . Great sense of humor you have along with a great set of ............eyes . Although I see what bikini was talkin about now! :eek: No seriously I'm a complete sucker for brown eyes .






















and boobs :rotflmao:


Keep up the great work with your weightloss!
Paul
 
Now, now, back on off Sheryl's boobs, she's already got herself a man!!

Sheryl, why fake an orgasm or ten? Just round that man up and get yourself some real ones. Much, much more fun!!! Your friend sounds like she definately has some issues...even more so, her boyfriend does. My husband would rather me be naked all the time at the weight I am now, than to be 130 and refuse to strip off!!!

Aleeluh, I don't want any, thanks....I am glad they are shrinking. All the really cute bras come in smaller sizes!! I think in time, my husband will come to appreciate that fact!

Rena, there is no set in stone age, but I would say 4. By then, they will start telling people about your boobies and "hair down there" etc. Better for everyone that they stop seeing you naked by then!
 
Your friend needs to find a new guy darlin'.

Somewhere between him being okay with not seeing her, and she thinking she's fat....it got all sorts of f'd up.

Your girl needs to find one of those guys (and there are plenty out there) that think she is WAY out of their league, and will do anything to make her happy...simply because they can't believe their good fortune in having such an amazing person around them.

Anyway, my 2 cents....

Speaking of 2 cents...shouldn't it be 4 cents...I mean come on, inflation people!

Solon
 
ummhusayn said:
iAnd....just cause she loses weight doesnt mean she'll get rid of the cellulite....hellooooo some skinny people have it and some fat people dont....i dont THANK GOD!!
ohhhhh wellllllll....

Rena

PS at what point does one have to stop being naked in front of their kids???? My husband and I are dreading putting our clothes on!!!lol And whats even more funny is when i go out everything in covered!!!

PPS Islam teaches that a wife should be like a slut for her husband...so basically----get your freak on!!!lol:jump: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Rena
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LOL!!! Rena you crack me up! I don't have cellulite, either--thank god. That is one less thing for me to worry about..lol

Get your freak on girl! you are too funny.

That sucks about your friend Sheryl, but you said it in a hilarious way as usual. My hubby is 5'10-11" and weighs between 165-185 pounds (fluctuates) When we met he only weighed about 135--total bean pole. I fattened him up. Anyway--he has always weighed less than me, and he never made me feel un-sexy b/c of it. He has always found me attractive--even when I weighed 100lbs more than he did. Got to give him props for that--even if he has his other faults...lol You should tell your friend that! haha
 
Morning Sheryl :)
Don't be acting like you took it easy yesterday or you're gonna get bitchslapped! Give yourself all the credit you deserve. You kicked ass!
 
Hey - I wanted to drop in and say hi! I see you in the same places I go and I love what you say and how you say it!!! You tell it like it is and speak your mind - I love that quality in ppl...you seem like a great supporter!!!
 
MidGaGuy said:
Hi Sheryl,

I've been reading through yours and YOU are a F*'n Riot! I love it . Great sense of humor you have along with a great set of ............eyes . Although I see what bikini was talkin about now! :eek: No seriously I'm a complete sucker for brown eyes .




and boobs :rotflmao:


Paul
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Now who's talking about boobs? Looks like we got him started girls...lmbo Guess we're contagious. But, Paul you better be careful--Sheryl's married--and happily, unlike me..lmbo:rotflmao:
 
MidGaGuy said:
Hi Sheryl,
Just wanted to stop by and say wassup! Thanks for dropping by my diary today with the inspiring post.
I've been reading through yours and YOU are a F*'n Riot! I love it . Great sense of humor you have along with a great set of ............eyes . Although I see what bikini was talkin about now! :eek: No seriously I'm a complete sucker for brown eyes .




and boobs :rotflmao:
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:rotflmao: We're sucking everyone in... its all about big brown eyes.... well and big boobs and butts of course:rolleyes: :rotflmao:
 
bikinibound said:
Well I've got the big boobs, but not the big butt, and my eyes are blue--but I've been told they are very nice..lol
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You just need one of the three;):rotflmao:

Jeremy: What about the big brown or blue eyes.... or will your pervy butt not be looking that high?:rolleyes:
 
Boam46 said:
You just need one of the three;):rotflmao:

Jeremy: What about the big brown or blue eyes.... or will your pervy butt not be looking that high?:rolleyes:
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That's good to know--that I only need one of the three..lol

Jeremy doesn't care what color her eyes are--as long as she can carry on an interesting conversation...lmbo
 
First off, I want to thank ALL of you for giving me advice inregards to my girlfriend and her "situation." (Jenna, Alee-damn-ah, Rena Girl, AmbaLove, Solon, and BikiniBound)
 :hug2: I really had a difficult time sleeping, trying to figure out what to tell her. Unfortunately, she hasn't gotten back to me just yet, but when I do talk to her, I'm sure I can turn things around. I have the gift of persuasion aka the "get your head out of your ass before I tell your older brother how he's been treating you" threat. (Yah... that's the plan: get her older brother, whom I adore, involved because he'll go ape shit when he finds out. Nanner nanner... ) However, I will still talk to her.

Boam46 said:
Those are serious signs of controlling and abusive behavior I hope its really not that bad and you can help her realize what an ass he is.
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Girl, been there. Done that. I dated a guy from NYC who was a personal trainer and ummm duh, I was chunky when he met me. Did he think that I was going to turn skinny in a week? He would nag, nag, nag and it finally got on my last damn nerve. He said, "You know, you'll never lose weight if you keep crap around you! (aka junk foods)" My reply, "You're absolutely right. Get the hell out of my house." In an instant, I lost 180lbs of worthless "crap." :D

Aleeluh said:



I am one of the nicest people you will meet. I really am, I hardly ever argue with anyone. Unless someone talks about my weight, or my family/friends ..


Oh, well. I can't change how some people are. They will get what they deserve though- karma is a bitch :D


You are doing so well, I had a few mishaps with my food this week :[
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Aleeeeee... (I just love saying that.. haha) First off, I think you're an absolute doll and I believe you. You're the same way I am. I don't cause trouble, but you mess with my family/ friends and I'll be the first one down your throat.

I'm sorry to hear about the mishap at Walmart. Funny enough, I got called a "fat ass" by a 300+ plus woman a few weeks back at my local Walmart. hahaaaa! I see it this way, there are some people that have nothing better to do than to judge others. It makes them feel like big shits. IMO, it shows how downright stupid/ childish they are. C'mon... since when has Walmart turned in to Rodeo Drive?

As for the food mishap, dust yourself and start anew, hun. You're only a few away from Onederland and I'm cheering you on! :hug2:

ummhusayn said:
i have a girlfriend who is the same way. Shes been with her bf for 5 years and she wont be naked in front of him. During sex she wears a shirt!!! Im like wtf...thats crazy.....

PPS Islam teaches that a wife should be like a slut for her husband...so basically----get your freak on!!!lol:jump: :rotflmao: :rotflmao:

Rena
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I mean to each their own, but once my bedroom door closes, the clothes are off. It's like turning on a light switch. hahaaaa! I hear you there though, sometimes clothes can be a bit too restrictive.. says the broad who wears corsets. LMAO!!!

So in other words, you're telling me that I'm actually trapped in a Muslim woman's body? LMAO Girl, believe me... I wrote this on another thread, but I was looking for "calories burned during sex" on all these calculators and they never list sex as an exercise. So guess what I choose... "horseback riding" or "gardening"... LMFAO!! Depends on my mood, ya know, mama? LMAO!!

MidGaGuy said:
Thanks for dropping by my diary today with the inspiring post.
I've been reading through yours and YOU are a F*'n Riot! I love it .
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It was my pleasure. You're doing so well, Paul. :D As for being a riot, I'm sure you can tell that my main purpose in life is to make sure everyone is laughing/ having a good time. If I'm going to lose weight on one of these online communities, you damn right I'm going to do it around funny people who enjoy a bit of laughter. :D

AmbaLove said:
Sheryl, why fake an orgasm or ten? Just round that man up and get yourself some real ones. Much, much more fun!!!
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There's a thread that me, Mal, Jenna, and Kimberly (BikiniBound) were cracking up about. http://weight-loss.fitness.com/topic/14366-dont-fake-orgasms.html Hence the "fake orgasm" comment. :D Oh and don't worry about me... I just got out of the shower. :marks an hour of "gardening" in my calories burned book: LMAO!

-Sheryl
 
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