Lisa's Final Countdown, The Good Days, the Bad, & the Ugly

Honey! I'm so sorry that happend to you. <3 People can be sooo cruel. In middle school this one boy would call me Miss Piggy for no other reason than to hurt me. I know what you are saying about some people just being cruel and others just not thinking about what they are saying. Family is the worst for just NOT thinking! I've had so many comments from family, while well intentioned, they end up being just plain hurtful. Last summer (right before I joined this site and started trying to lose weight) my sister-in-law asked me if I had trouble getting on the floor to play with my son. The same week my family had gotten together for a pool party at my dad's and my Grandmother asked me if I felt left out since all of my sisters look so good in bathing suits. I started to cry when she said that and then she asked me if I wanted to live to see my grandchildren one day. It was just a few days after that I joined this site and used all of that as a motivator to get myself into gear.

Well, I'm so sorry that happend to you. Try not to let that guy the best of you. That's what he wanted! BIG HUGS!!!
 
douknowjello said:
So from last night until today, after already having some stuff so stressful I could have cried, here's the terrific topper.

I'm walking out with one of the girls I work with from Rite Aid. We're both in dresses cuz of a wedding we were going later. As we come out of the building and walk to my car, this guy comes through the intersection and passes Rite Aid. From the intersection until all the way after I hear him yelling at me.

SHAMU THE WHALE! YOU FAT FUCKING BITCH!!

I'm sure they even hear him in the store, and the hostility was as bad as what he said. I called a friend in tears and she asked what did I do to the guy....did I cut him off or something.

I said NO, I was in the store for ten minutes and walked out. I walked out fat, that's what I did.

I know we live in a society that I cannot change but, excuse my language, I'm fucking sick of it. All of it. Every time I'm treated like shit because of how I look, whether I even know that's why or not.
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I think you should have yelled back at him:

FUCK YOU, YOU UNLOVEABLE, DISGUSTING PIECE OF SHIT! AT LEAST I HAVE PEOPLE THAT LOVE ME! YOU OBVIOUSLY DON'T,YOU WORTHLESS SON OF A BITCH!
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He'll never have anyone in his life who truly loves and respects him as long as he acts like a fucking ass hole. Laugh at the fact that no one will ever love him completely, that no one will ever be able to respect him because of his arrogance and ignorance.
You will always have people who love and respect you for who you are. You have your wonderful husband, you have your friends... you have us too. He will never be able to comprehend the kind of love you receive on a daily basis. He is an ass hole. You are an amazing, generous, loving, caring, generally all-around fabulous person. Don't let ignorant shitheads get under your skin. You have all you need, all the love, respect, and admiration, right there in your little world.

I think, while it would be good motivation to get fit enough to beat the living shit out of people like him, you still need to do this on your terms. Don't let this throw you off track, but don't make your routine super-strict to try to lose faster. That will just make it harder when you slip up. Don't be hard on yourself, either. Just think about yourself, and let fuckers like him live their own shallow lives.

I agree with txsqlchick. If someone's there today to make you feel like shit for being overweight, once you hit your goal weight and feel great in your skin, there will be another person there tomorrow to try to make you feel like shit for something else. Don't let it bother you, don't let it get you down. Ass holes like that will always be there. Some will think they're smarter, some will think they're prettier, and some will think they're more important. But keep in mind that there never has been, and never will be, anyone more special than you. You are better than all of them for one reason: You don't think you're better than anyone.

:)
Cheer up dear!
Come back soon, I hope you haven't thrown in the towel... you are such a nice person, and you deserve to reach your goals.

<3Annie:beating:
 
I LOVE YOU!

I LOVE YOU!

You are a beautiful person from out encounters on here. I haven't met you, but I'm sure your inner beauty radiates out. Don't let anyone demean your true worth. Obviously that person is going to try and seek something that makes them happy, but they don't know how to be happy themselves. You are working your ass off (AND IT SHOWS!) to make your inner beauty shown to people who don't know you, but let me tell you something, the people who DO KNOW YOU know that you are worth a billion of that guy. He isn't even worth your tears. I just want you to know that you are beautiful and loved.

Off soap box....
 
Leeeeeeeesiiiieeeee, where are you??? I haven't been around much myself, so do you go on facebook? Maybe we can keep in touch there if you're not into WLF. Dont wanna lose touch!
 
Hey Lisa how are you doing?? I have been missing in action for a minute but I wanted to stop by and say HI!!! Hope all is well... Don't worry about stupid people and there comments. Negativity is hard to endure but it should make you stronger.. Your on your way to your goal and you will make it.. I have noticed that people who talk shit are so angry with there own lives they have nothing better to do.. Anger comes from within and your much better than that.. Take care girly.. stay on track.. you are doing this and you will do this....:cheers2:
 
Sorry guys :) I know I've been MIA but wasn't because of that. It's been super busy and also I didn't have my computer for a bit...it was in the shop. I also have some extra responsibilities on my plate now though so I don't think I'll be able to get on here every day anymore and that's going to make it really hard to get by everyone's journals. I might end up doing what some have and just shut my journal down and join a challenge. Just don't want anyone upset with me but what little time I do have now needs to be spent moving my butt, not sitting on it at the computer. I haven't been eating super unhealthy but I know I've been over eating alot and not focusing on my weight loss. No excuses....just had other things that took over my focus. Weather is getting very nice so I'm going to up my exercise here soon and start watching calories again. Anyway just wanted to check in and let everyone know I'm ok.
 
Hiya Lisa,

Been MIA for a month now, just got back. I'm sorry to hear what happened to you- there are people out there that... Just has a sad life, that they must waste time thinking and uttering harsh opinions. That guy was an asshole.

Personally, when someone says something negative to me, I tend to wisecrack right back. I've have told that asswipe "Yeah, wanna a ride on my blowhole?" Or, "Well, am I a whale or a bitch? Choose one." That would have shut him up right there and make him look foolish in front of his friends.

Anyhow, it's OK to fall off the bicycle, just as long as you get right back on. :) Don't let that asshole win. You've got much more going for ya, hang in there!! :)

George
 
Hey now!!! No one is going to get mad at you for not posting!!!!


we just wanted you to know that we missed you and like hearing from you!!!!

:coolgleamA::seeya:
 
hey girl :D:D

Thanx for the messages you left when i had my own wee MIA episode :) Much appreciated! Looks like we're back at the same time! Go us:hurray: i know you wont have much time to message now but hopefully you'll check in here once in a while :D

Having just read through your diray i cant believe what o missed. That dickhead who shouted at you isnt worth your time and obv had nothing better to do than shout random abuse at people. He'll get his one day...karma, karma always comes round. I can und that it upset you - i think all o us curvy gals have had a few comments from strangers and ur right that we are judged all the goddamn time. But at least we know that fat can be worked off but a bad attitude and an ugly personality are lifetime diseases!!!!

I have been a total pig and im mightily ashamed of myself. I'll plead stress and a bit of a depressing time but ultimately it was all my own wee greedy fault! But im back on the wagon and i have 12 weeks to shift 24lbs before my hols :) St Lucia will be a nightmare if i feel awful in my bikini so im doing it for my holiday...again!

keep posting when you can and lets see if we can stick around until summer :) Im here for you if you need me :biggrinjester: xxx
 
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:Angel_anim:Hey lisa how are you doing?? Hope all is well you have been mia for a month now... Keep in touch at least once a week girly... Damn everyones going mia..:leaving::leaving: Did you forget to telll me something... I'm confused...:ack2: Well keep in touch chickee... :party::Angel_anim:
 
Hi Lisa...I have been reading back...I am just going to hug you really really big ((((LISA)))) and say Karma is a bitch..that guy will pay for his assybehavior in some way...fuk him! He isnt even worth another thought..so i am zipping it about the whole incident.

I just got back here being more active in the journals. I am still doing good...and I would hate to see you leave and not keep up with your journal...you arent thinking about hiding in your "cave" are you??? I do that sometimes..

anyway...hope to see you around my place soon....

Love
Me
 
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