Sweat4health25
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Hey girlie I agree with above poster, it's well worth the wait. Just look at all the tv/movies where the guys are totally freaked out about how to propose.
My favorite example is FRIENDS-Chandler bing and Monica made it and he was totally scared of commitment.
Of course I know so little on relationships, but my two cents.
A scary thought indeed....but what if you get married and he decideds he doesnt want those things anymore. Better to find out before you get married if you want the same things - maybe you need to talk to him about what he wants and think about if it jibes with what you want...? Also-maybe waiting prior to engagement will make him feel more secure that he does really want those things. Are there things he is trying to get done first, like save money or finish his education? Anyways, all I know is - Love is a risk you take to make your life better....there are no rules or guarantees. It sounds like he really cares for you, try not to worry
My favorite example is FRIENDS-Chandler bing and Monica made it and he was totally scared of commitment.
Of course I know so little on relationships, but my two cents.
Patience is something i do not have alot of... i need to work on that. I think my secret fear is that i am waiting around for him... and 'what if' he decides he doesnt want those things anymore.... am i wasting my time???
A scary thought indeed....but what if you get married and he decideds he doesnt want those things anymore. Better to find out before you get married if you want the same things - maybe you need to talk to him about what he wants and think about if it jibes with what you want...? Also-maybe waiting prior to engagement will make him feel more secure that he does really want those things. Are there things he is trying to get done first, like save money or finish his education? Anyways, all I know is - Love is a risk you take to make your life better....there are no rules or guarantees. It sounds like he really cares for you, try not to worry

Gotta stay in that deficit!!!
Hopefully I am going to be down below 125… not back up to 127 like I keep bobbing up and down from… driving me NUTS. Absolutely crazy…. 125… then 127… then 125… then 128. Drives me absolustely NUTS.

I want your body!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! You look Fantastic!!!
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