I have the most retarded relatives because even though I have lost 16kgs one dumb ass even asked if I had gained weight...
Hello Bek - and everyone else struggling with negative relatives!
Well, I got told I am 'too skinny, don't lose any more weight' but I resisted the temptation to make any retort!
Generally, from twelve months ago to today, I am down 25 kilos and holding. Down from size 16 - 18 to size 8 - 10. But most definitely 'up' with self respect, self esteem, health and happiness!
By next year this new weight will be considered as 'normal' for me and no-one will take the slightest notice.
For those of you with toxic relatives, some other sort of Christmas Day celebrations sounds like the way to go! However, we cannot choose our relatives and if they are not the sharpest knives in the drawer then just avoid being in a one-on-one conversation with them.
Bek - and all of us - we have done phenominally well. We can take real pride in our progress and real satisfaction in changing our lives for the better. Bah, humbug, to those who cannot deal with change and who would rather criticise than help or (gasp!) praise!
I had a lavish Christmas lunch and tea and am just back in from an indulgent Boxing Day lunch. Each day I have had my usual yoghurt and kiwi fruit breakfast and kept up with the water. Tomorrow I shall have some of the leftovers (turkey) and know with all certainty that on Saturday the scales will give me a reading of 60 kilos.
Please understand that this program will give you the results you are looking for and I am now past 6 months completion (24th June 60 kilos, 24th December 60 kilos) and this is now my 'natural' weight.
Keep weighing, keep up the water, by Christmas 2007 there is not one of you reading this today who will not have reached goal weight, stabilised, and be confident of your new body weight.
Well done to all and a Happy New Year
Regards
Chelsea