rjm
New member
Hi everyone,
I have been trying to stay out of the great weighing debate, but thought I should just drop in to put in my two bobs worth. As everyone knows, I am a compulsive weigher and always have been and always will be, and yes I have suffered from many different eating disorders (many of which still plague me). The main thing I wanted to say was that on a previous forum we had (before this one), we had a couple of people who continually came on "voicing" their opinions and shouting down anyone who didn't agree with them. The forum became quite heated, and it wasn't long before the moderators intervened and shut down the forum. When I started this forum, I wanted to create a calm and enthusiastic place for people to come and motivate one another and help one another. At the end of the day, does it REALLY MATTER if we weigh every day, or once a week, or once a month, WHO CARES. I certainly don't and I'm sure most people on here couldn't give two hoots what the next person does, so why don't we all agree to disagree and drop the whole subject of how often people weigh.
Also I'm sure if you don't want to read someones posts, you can block them and then (hopefully) you won't have to see what they have written.
Hopefully we can get this forum back to the great place that it should be and if we all don't respond to any posts that are negative, then hopefully no one will post negative things.
Have a great day all.
Take care
I have been trying to stay out of the great weighing debate, but thought I should just drop in to put in my two bobs worth. As everyone knows, I am a compulsive weigher and always have been and always will be, and yes I have suffered from many different eating disorders (many of which still plague me). The main thing I wanted to say was that on a previous forum we had (before this one), we had a couple of people who continually came on "voicing" their opinions and shouting down anyone who didn't agree with them. The forum became quite heated, and it wasn't long before the moderators intervened and shut down the forum. When I started this forum, I wanted to create a calm and enthusiastic place for people to come and motivate one another and help one another. At the end of the day, does it REALLY MATTER if we weigh every day, or once a week, or once a month, WHO CARES. I certainly don't and I'm sure most people on here couldn't give two hoots what the next person does, so why don't we all agree to disagree and drop the whole subject of how often people weigh.
Also I'm sure if you don't want to read someones posts, you can block them and then (hopefully) you won't have to see what they have written.
Hopefully we can get this forum back to the great place that it should be and if we all don't respond to any posts that are negative, then hopefully no one will post negative things.
Have a great day all.
Take care