ups and downs and shifting around
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SoSel
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Meaning what he said and acting on it are 2 different things. His sincerity level has proved to be, well, worse than shallow for the most part. I don't think this changes anything. Time will tell, but I'm pretty sure it's the reeling me in part of his controlling nature that led him to say that. I don't actually care right now. [a] He's pulling a 12 hr shift at the moment and I'm planning time out with my friends. I can only do so much. Right now I feel like doing nothing.
SoSel
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Rest of Sunday check-in
s- a handful of tortilla chips
d- lasagna [homemade in the crock pot & I used whole wheat lasagna noodles}
s- honey wheat pretzel sticks
ex- Heh... oh my... I have this 10 minute pilates video, so I did the 10 minute ab section... ow!!!! My hubby was surprised I was able to do some of the stuff. And in the back of my mind, I was too.
No fruit. It slipped my mind. I'll just eat twice as much tomorrow [today, really].
s- a handful of tortilla chips
d- lasagna [homemade in the crock pot & I used whole wheat lasagna noodles}
s- honey wheat pretzel sticks
ex- Heh... oh my... I have this 10 minute pilates video, so I did the 10 minute ab section... ow!!!! My hubby was surprised I was able to do some of the stuff. And in the back of my mind, I was too.
No fruit. It slipped my mind. I'll just eat twice as much tomorrow [today, really].
bikinibound
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Good job on the ab video and the eating. Go for the fresh fruit today--yum yum. Big hug 
Boam46
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Rest of Sunday check-in
s- a handful of tortilla chips
d- lasagna [homemade in the crock pot & I used whole wheat lasagna noodles}
s- honey wheat pretzel sticks
ex- Heh... oh my... I have this 10 minute pilates video, so I did the 10 minute ab section... ow!!!! My hubby was surprised I was able to do some of the stuff. And in the back of my mind, I was too.
No fruit. It slipped my mind. I'll just eat twice as much tomorrow [today, really].
Great job today Selena!!
You'll get that fruit in tomorrow... fresh fruit if you can.. if not any fruit is good
WTG on that exercise!!!
cinderelly
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Ok girl - I had to laugh at the - the kids are ok comment - LOL...abt the walk...as far as hubby well ya one would think he could treat hs wife and mother of his kids better...but alot of ppl are like that treat the ones wthey work with - with more respect and compassion than those at home that matter the most...
Good girl on you noticing that it is probually his controllign nature reelin you in...more than likely it is ...knowledge is power hun Im glad your becoming more powerful!!!
I want that lazange reciepe for the crock pot
Good girl on you noticing that it is probually his controllign nature reelin you in...more than likely it is ...knowledge is power hun
Im glad your becoming more powerful!!!I want that lazange reciepe for the crock pot
SoSel
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I worked my booty off this morning. Ha ha! Well, there's no chance of that. I'm a white girl with a ghetto booty. Anyway, I rode my bike on that trail again, and unless the county council did the map wrong, I did the 14 miles I was hoping to work up to. Add that to the ab exercises last night, and I am beat. Plus I think it's almost my time. [ladies say "tom" here, right?] I have a good feeling that my weigh-in on the 10th will show some improvement. :]
My hubby is no different. No worse, no better, but we had a little fun last night. ::wink wink:: He even gave me permission to buy some bike shorts. [I mean, I'd buy them anyway. I ask b/c that's the respect I want returned to me.]
Tomorrow is looking really busy too. I'm meeting a friend at the school for a tour and a late lunch. He's been my best friend since I was 9 and he was 10. We're going to be taking Algebra 102 together. I think it's really exciting! I feel like I'm almost a free woman. School, time away from the kids, and a chance to be myself while bettering myself. What could be better?
My hubby is no different. No worse, no better, but we had a little fun last night. ::wink wink:: He even gave me permission to buy some bike shorts. [I mean, I'd buy them anyway. I ask b/c that's the respect I want returned to me.]
Tomorrow is looking really busy too. I'm meeting a friend at the school for a tour and a late lunch. He's been my best friend since I was 9 and he was 10. We're going to be taking Algebra 102 together. I think it's really exciting! I feel like I'm almost a free woman. School, time away from the kids, and a chance to be myself while bettering myself. What could be better?
bikinibound
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Nice job on the bike ride! Hope you enjoyed your "horseback riding" last night.
Glad to hear you are looking forward to school. It will liberate you!!
Don't forget your fresh fruit today! lol
Boam46
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o0oo join the club girl we've been talking about bootiess in some of the other threads!! You don't wanna work that off anyway... just everything around it
WTG on your workout... you are doing friggin awesome!! 14 miles damn
SoSel
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I got in the both fruits and veggies yesterday. I also drank an insane amount of water [but I sweat really bad]. I did not do well on the eating at all. I ended up with a killer headache last night too. Couple Benadryl and a Smirnoff Ice and I slept like I haven't in months. I'm going to have to lay off the exercise today, or just take a walk, because my abs are incredibly sore. After my ride yesterday, they seem to hurt more. Not sure why. ~ponders~ I really want to get back out on my bike.
cinderelly
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Excellent on the fruit adn veggies adn water...and YUM - I love smirnoff ice!!!
If ya wanna get back on your bike than pop a bunch of pain pills and go that is what I do...
SoSel
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lmbo! I can see me out there, swerving around, and taking out unsuspecting squirrels.
cinderelly
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SoSel
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the hubby strikes again
That idiot and I talked 50 minutes ago and he was supposed to be on his way home. I'm meeting a friend today for a campus tour and lunch and my hubby knows that. When we last talked, my hubby knew what was going on and said he'd be on his way home. It takes between 20-30 minutes to get back and he is PURPOSELY late. I don't ask for much. This was something simple I had scheduled with my friend over the weekend and my hubby has known about this for days.
He must have known I was writing about him. He's on the phone telling me he had to meet with someone. BS! If he had just left when he was supposed to... No, he stays around talking and flirting and whatever he pleases. It's so unfair to me. [If I'm whining, I'm sorry. I am so considerate of him. It hurts me that he doesn't try for me. He's nicer to random strangers.]
I see that there is nothing I can do besides pick a fight. And lie. "Sure, I'm ok. It's alright." He offered to pick up lunch. Does he not listen!? IDIOT!
That idiot and I talked 50 minutes ago and he was supposed to be on his way home. I'm meeting a friend today for a campus tour and lunch and my hubby knows that. When we last talked, my hubby knew what was going on and said he'd be on his way home. It takes between 20-30 minutes to get back and he is PURPOSELY late. I don't ask for much. This was something simple I had scheduled with my friend over the weekend and my hubby has known about this for days.
He must have known I was writing about him. He's on the phone telling me he had to meet with someone. BS! If he had just left when he was supposed to... No, he stays around talking and flirting and whatever he pleases. It's so unfair to me. [If I'm whining, I'm sorry. I am so considerate of him. It hurts me that he doesn't try for me. He's nicer to random strangers.]
I see that there is nothing I can do besides pick a fight. And lie. "Sure, I'm ok. It's alright." He offered to pick up lunch. Does he not listen!? IDIOT!
Boam46
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WTG 6 days down... You're doing sooo great! Benadryl and some alcohol never hurt just makes for peaceful slumber
If your body is telling you it needs a break listen to it... or do what Cerella suggested and pop some pain pills... that's the way I would go
If the squirrels were smart at all theyw ould moving out of the way.... its called survival of the fittest.As for your hubby he's just continuing his controlling ways and being an asshole. Don't let him bring your day down...a soon as he gets home run off to school and have the best time you can!!
::HUGS::
cinderelly
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Selena tell him to take his controling attitude and behaviour and go to hell...
What a fuckin jerk he is - ya know Ive been through all this and I hate seign you go through it it is even worse when there are children invovled and we had 3 of them ieieie - your not whining plus it is your diary say and do as you wish...
He is an asshole...and he is trying to continuly break you down - stop beign considerate to him...
What a fuckin jerk he is - ya know Ive been through all this and I hate seign you go through it it is even worse when there are children invovled and we had 3 of them ieieie - your not whining plus it is your diary say and do as you wish...
He is an asshole...and he is trying to continuly break you down - stop beign considerate to him...
Boam46
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^^^^^^ I second that statement!!!!
SoSel
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Ok, ok. I'll pull my primitive bitch side out of the closet. ;]
I did make a run for it as soon as he got back. And I'll be out by myself later today too. The kids are going to my mom and dad's and I will be with my friend and his friends. We're getting a group together to go drink and have fun. [vs drink and get drunk] I'm going to use my dad's treadmill for a little work out and jump in the pool tomorrow too.
I will be taking care of me and my kids, no one else. And I'm going to give the hubby a little to-do list before I leave. hehe
Thanks ladies! I really do love you!
I did make a run for it as soon as he got back. And I'll be out by myself later today too. The kids are going to my mom and dad's and I will be with my friend and his friends. We're getting a group together to go drink and have fun. [vs drink and get drunk] I'm going to use my dad's treadmill for a little work out and jump in the pool tomorrow too.
I will be taking care of me and my kids, no one else. And I'm going to give the hubby a little to-do list before I leave. hehe
Thanks ladies! I really do love you!
cinderelly
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You deserve the best Selena you really do - think of all those great positive things oyu have said to me and relay them back to yourself
Enjoy your night out chicky!!!