ups and downs and shifting around

I would say to hold onto him if you get financial benefits from it--but as soon as you can support yourself--give him the boot and don't look back. How old is he?
 
SoSel said:

This is so sad. My daughter is perfectly at ease with him leaving. She just wants to know if she'll ever see him again. I assured her and she let it drop. I know she'll be sad when he goes. I really think her mind understands as much of the situation as she can see. Bless their hearts. My kids need better.
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I can tell you from experience... she knows and understands more than you probably could ever imagine. Growing up through my situations they always treated me like I couldn't understand or I shouldn't knwo and I knew soo much more than they thought... and probably more than them at some points! I've always resented how they just treated me like a little idiot. Its great that you assured your daughter and aren't ignoring how she feels.
Your doing soo great ... your happiness will come ...we'll make sure of it... we'll help you along!:hug2: :hug2:
 
27, as moody as 3 yr old, as neat as a 5 yr old [he sometimes picks his toys up], as needy as a newborn and about matches those numbers for sex drive

To sum it up, he got tall, but he never grew up.

Oh, btw, that is the master plan. Which is why I'm getting a tech degree in 2 years while he's gone and not going for a 4 yr and being forced to commit.
 
SoSel said:
27, as moody as 3 yr old, as neat as a 5 yr old [he sometimes picks his toys up], as needy as a newborn and about matches those numbers for sex drive

To sum it up, he got tall, but he never grew up.

Oh, btw, that is the master plan. Which is why I'm getting a tech degree in 2 years while he's gone and not going for a 4 yr and being forced to commit.
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Too bad most guys never grow up... my father is a prime example... however, they don't all act like immature self centered assholes... who don't appreciate a wonderful wife and children!

You're going to be able to do soo much more for you and your children independently once you get your degree:)
 
::sighs:: I don't know why I bother. But he told me all about his fantasy baseball team while helping me clean up the kitchen a little, so fair trade.

Food Today
bf- 90 cal granola bar, coffee, milk, splenda
l- healthy choice ziti dish- 320 cals
s- small bowl of Whales [ghetto Goldfish crackers]
d- pork chops with egg, water and bread crumb coating [thin] cooked in the skillet with stewed tomatoes and served over brown rice
s- raisins [need to shop for fruit soon!]

ex- Does 'swimming' with kids count? I didn't let them drown, carried them all around the pool, and played bounce-the-beach-ball-off-my-head with them for a good 30 minutes or more.
How about pacing around angrily during a 15 minute phone call with my mother-in-law? ;]
Ok, it's hard to ex when my hubby works [and when he's not working]. School is going to change that for me. Mon-Thurs classes start at 11. Fri the kids do their thing and I have time for myself. So I'm garaunteed 5 days to take fitness seriously. And don't worry, I'm studious enough to get my work done and have time to work out. I don't do things last minute.

Only down side is that I didn't drink enough water today and I know it. :/ Tomorrow I try harder. I got an August goal.
 
Swimming in the pool definitly counts. Its great low impact exercise!!!

School is going to change sooo sooo sooo many wonderful things for you!

You do need to go fruit shopping... fresh fruits are soo yummily and I thinks lightly more nutritious than raisins... or at least brings variety ;)
 
Boam46 said:
You do need to go fruit shopping... fresh fruits are soo yummily and I thinks lightly more nutritious than raisins... or at least brings variety ;)
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Although the raisins will keep her regular. Groan..don't blame me--Rena started it this time..lmbo!

I think you did well today--and pacing angrily while on the phone with your mother-in-law definitely counts as exercise..lol
 
bikinibound said:
I don't know if it's love, but I'm spreading something...get out your wading boots...I could go on all night....:rotflmao:
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:rotflmao: OMG!!! You are soo foul HaHaHa!!!

Poor Selena .... this is the last thing she expects when she wakes up is this Crap!!!!!:rotflmao:
 
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Do you think it will put her in a shitty mood?:confused: :jump:
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Ha! Y'all don't know me! I'm some little Southern girl from a hick town. I grew up across the road from a farm. My grandpa sold used cars that my uncle "fixed'. My dad was a part-time mechanic too ['cept he has a real job]. Behind our house was/is a junk yard full of cars in various states of disrepair, from Chevy Novas to a Porsche to Studebakers to doom buggys. You can find it all. That's where I fell in love with cars. My colorful background may or may not begin to explain me. I've always been around guys and their jokes and the white trash kids that I lived near. Go ahead, try to surprise me. ;] Oh, and add to that that I have kids.... I hear the word "poop" on a 80 second basis- it's just part of life!
 
My hubby told me something strange last night. It was weird because I've thought this for a long time.

He said, "If I started treating you as good as I treat my patients, I might keep you around a little longer."

He's a EMT-B or a medic in the Army. He works in the ER. And it is distressing how bad he treats me when I'm sick or otherwise. So, um, will he mean it? I just don't know...
 
SoSel said:
Ha! Y'all don't know me! I'm some little Southern girl from a hick town. I grew up across the road from a farm. My grandpa sold used cars that my uncle "fixed'. My dad was a part-time mechanic too ['cept he has a real job]. Behind our house was/is a junk yard full of cars in various states of disrepair, from Chevy Novas to a Porsche to Studebakers to doom buggys. You can find it all. That's where I fell in love with cars. My colorful background may or may not begin to explain me. I've always been around guys and their jokes and the white trash kids that I lived near. Go ahead, try to surprise me. ;] Oh, and add to that that I have kids.... I hear the word "poop" on a 80 second basis- it's just part of life!
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Good Morning Girly:hug2:

Well I'm glad we didn't make your morning shitty... i hope we gave you some laughs thouh:rotflmao:
I love cars too... well the asthetics ... I wish I knew more of the mechanics!

I hope you enjoy this bright sun shiny day!:hug2:
 
Mid-Sunday check in

bf- 3 small pancakes [whole wheat pancake mix, old fashioned rolled oats, egg, milk, water, & low-fat yogurt for taste- it's this recipe my diabetic dad invented, supposed to be healthier], coffee, milk, splenda
l- 6 nuggets [store bought, not that great]. bbq sauce, carrots [can]

ex- 45 minute walk with the kids. It was awful! The last half of it my son threw a tantrum and cried almost non-stop. We were on a path in a somewhat wooded area and it echoed so bad. We walked at least 2 miles, probably more. The kids are fine. That's not over-doing it for them. They're used to it. :]
 
That would be wonderful if your hubby decided to pull his head out of his ass and start treating you the way he should be!!! But we'll see. From past behavior, I'm not holding my breath, but I certainly hope that he does, for your sake, dear.

Good job on the eating and exercise so far. Screaming children--you have my sympathy.

Have a great day!
 
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