twolilangels - a journal of a tired mommy...LOL

Thank you Daye I dont view it as lecturing and I myself have a bck ground of workign with childrena nd dealing with behaviours adn special needs and what have you...I needed that thanx and I know it is also a wake up call to me to be more availble and listen more or pay closer attention...I thought I already was...
 
Don't get down on yourself...there's only so much time in a day and you have to work hard to feed them and give them what they need and want. You're doing a great job. It's hard doing it alone, I understand, but I believe she needs to talk to someone....and I'm sure you do too.
 
Good afternoon 2LA,
Ohappy had some really good words!
I would't beat yourself up kids will do bad good crazy uncalled
for things and we as parents have to be ready to handle it with
our best parenting skills.
I can't blames my parents for anything because I made a promise to myself
I would never ever be anything like my (REAL) father whom isn't here anymore but he was the most physical abuseing person I have ever met and the things he did a man like him would be spending lots of jail time he would punch me in the gut face ect punch holes in the wall he hit me so hard 1 time I needed stitches but my mom was too scared to take me cuz she would have to explain.
So I have actually lived and learned and I rarley even spank their hiny
moreless be abuseive.As far as your daughter GROUNDED for life lol and the police talk would definatley open up her eyes I would think.Well have a gr8 day and goodluck,Tammy:)
 
Thank you ladies...Well i am finally ready for xmas, I had to wait till yesturday, payday, to finish it up and I am done!!! Inspite of money my kids are getting a great xmas, the best one in the last couple of years and I am so excited...I cant wait till they open their gifts...my youngest is gettin all Dora stuff, lol...and the oldest got soem pretty cool gifts as well...I managed to pull it off!!!

I also got a $200.00 bonus from my boss...I am so happy that pretty much finished my shoppin, so we can afford to eat and go to the island and have a good xmas...LOL...life is good...Funny how the little things excite you...
 
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I'm so glad things are going well, Christmas-wise. As to the other, I have no advice; I hope you and she can talk things out.
 
Thanx Dari, we will deal with it all after Xmas...she realizes she screwed up and feels awful tha tis a good thing...
 
It sounds like you are going to have a great X-mas! i am happy for you!! I think you should make a movie out of your life! You might get rich!! LOL But since it was my idea I get a 20% out of the money!!!!:D :D :D That's what I tell my hubby all the time. I say, hey we should make a movie out of this drama in our lives! Anyway HAPPY HOLIDAYS!!!!!:)
 
Heyas 2LA,
YAY for bouns and xmas shopping,I bought a few
dora dolls for my nieces! My daughters are into the disney stuff
like cheatah girls high school musical oh and that baby alive doll I paid an
xtra $20 for 2 months ago for my oldest she begged santa for that doll
and my 1 daughter wanted bella dancerella pop diva lol and my son anything
video game but we got him an air hockey table plus they have lots of
little things to open my little guy got a few Backyardagains!
It is so fun but when it is all over it's back to catching up bills and back to
work "BLAHHHHHHH"!
Anyway girl thanks for being there for me Have a Merry Christmas,Tammy
 
Tammy I love the backyardagins...sadly both my girls are into Dora...Santa brought them a couple of dual gifts...they also get absolutly spoined from my Aunt nad my Grandma on my dads side...today we are going there...appearantly there are alot of presents over there...

It has just been so long since Ive been able to give the kids a good xmas the first one yet for Taneesha, when Taneesha came was when the X left and we have been struggling since then...slowly gettin better though...
 
Oh I almost forgot the most exciting news!!!My youngest peed in the potty twice yesturday !!! YES!!! We were so proud and hte second time she had a pull up on and told me she had to pee first before we sat her on the potty...Im so glad and excited, my goal is to get her potty trianed when I am on my break from work, we will see how that goes...

OH and I havent heard from my X, in months in fact but I havent heard from him due to xmas either and that is great I am so happy, it trully is turning into a great Xmas!!!
 
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Hey there congrats on your lil one pottying thats a biggie,
lol I always awarded mine with taking them to buy new panties
and let them, pick out their favorite character.
I hope your holidays were fun have a gr8 day,Tammy:)
 
Hey Cinderelly! Congrats on the potty accomplishment! My 2 1/2 year old is working on his potty skillz too! He's lovin it. Not quite in pullups yet..but we're letting him go at his own pace... no need to rush him! Hope you had a marvelous christmas! Have a great day!
 
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