Rox, I think you are right - it's the changes to my body that has hubby so interested again. Although his behaviour yesterday was more like something from his late teens or early 20s, not 30s (he's going to be 49 in a couple of months). He had to have reconstructive bladder surgery done in his mid 20s, which he says completely changed how sex felt for him. Because it didn't feel as good any more, he became less interested in it. We married when I was 18 and he was 30, and after the first week of what I considered to be normal, typical newly married honeymoon behaviour he said he was sorry, but I was gonna kill him. He couldn't handle sex every day like that. For the last 19 years I guess we've just dealt with it and we've gotten used to me always wanting it more than him. Sure there have been some frustrating and disappointing days for me, but it hasn't been THAT bad. He tries at least. I just take it when I can get it!
Yesterday was a LOOOONG day. I worked in the city, then had a ton of shopping and errands to do, then the 70+ mile drive home on super icey roads last night had my nerves frazzled and I was exhausted. I was tempted to bail on the work out, but then hubby came up to me and was admiring my new outfit and asked if I was sure I wasn't down to the size I was as a freshman in college? I said I didn't think so - not quite yet. So he comes up to me and runs his hands over my back, waist, ribs, hips and says "Hmmm... I knew the sexy little wife I married was still in there somewhere!"
It made me feel so good, and gave me just the boost I needed! So I changed into work out clothes and did my lower body weight training as per my exercise plan, then did the bodyweight challenge as well.
Then I sat down to read some journals and post, but nodded off on the couch! I gave up and just went to bed.
OH! Almost forgot! Something a bit weird happened to me yesterday at work. I was in the bathroom and was just washing my hands when a coworker came in. She said "I just can't get over how skinny you've gotten!" and as she walked past me she put her hand on my hip and ran it up to just under my boob! Then she kept walking and went into the bathroom stall. I was going to thank her for the compliment, but her rubbing her hand on me really threw me - I was speechless - so I ended up just walking out and going back to work without saying a word. It just felt so awkward for some reason.
I'm SO glad today is Friday. We have a busy weekend ahead though. Hubby is on the volunteer fire department and they are throwing a Valentines ball on Saturday night. We have to help set up and I have been told that if I don't make my famous pasta salad to bring for the supper, people will never forgive me! LOL! Then on Sunday morning we'll have to help clean up from the dance in the morning, and in the afternoon the kids have a 4-H meeting.
I am bound and determined not to let the busy schedule get in the way of my work outs though!
We'll see how that actually goes though of course!