Lots of problems.....
lukewarm - yeap. thankfully not all.
sirant - Heh. I suppose u have a fan club in SZ?
That's a wise thing to do. Fleeing from that gal. Foreigner... meaning from the west? She sounds young.. is she? But i guess it's becoming a global epidemic... infidelity and such irresponsible behavior. Sad. That wld be common in China too? Esp when HK men go there often for working trips. Or at least that's what being potrayed many times in HK tv dramas.
There's a chinese saying about being big and strong as a bull. Guess they must like this particular foreign bull very much.
They do like BIG ones here. Even the grandmas all pat my belly and tell me in chinese they wish their sons or grandsons looked like me. Big means you eat well. Eating well means strong, strong means hard working and hard working means lots of money to take care of againg parents....
Plus Budhha was no skinny minny either, and who doesn't like him?
There is an area nearby my office that is right next to the border with hong kong that is famous for "kept women". Girlfriends for HK men. Lots of VERY rich looking but generally nasty women always flocking around that area.... Probably the storyline of many a hong kong soap!
The "bad girl" is Russian actually and very VENOMOUSLY denies any similarity to westerners. Why she so agressively chases me I have no idea....
And infidelity is a HUGE problem here. I can, in all honesty, say I am one of perhaps 3 men here, foreign or otherwise, who I know of who do NOT cheat on their wives or girlfriends. Especially the foreigners. TOo many young girls wanting to practice english and willing to do whatever it takes to land a boyfriend. I have had offers here from girls who know full well I am married, but dont mind being the "other woman". Luckily for me the entire concept of infidelity is lost on me. Not so much for purely moral reasons, though that comes into it of course, but simply for the work involved.
First you need to start lying to the wife, then to the girlfriend, then to the friends who saw you and either one of them on the street or in a restaurant, then to your coworkers, then... and then.... and then..... Seems an awful lot of work to remember all the lies and counter lies. Seems like WAY too much effort to me. I would rather just have one good one and not need to lie to anyone. When people ask me who that hot chick was on my arm walking down the street I can tell them every time, with no hesitation, that was my wife. Though I fear someday people might get the wrong impressions about my daughter.... Lots of "dirty old men" here who come to china looking for sexy YOUNG wives. And by golly they get them. My daughter is going to be gorgeous and a BIG problem for this over protective daddy. But not only will I be chasing away the young boys who come knocking at my door, but I am afraid I may knock out the first dirty old man who comes to congratualte me on my sexy girlfriend..... Oh well, I will cross that bridge when I come to it. For now she is just a super cute little 8 year old. Once she turns 18 though I plan on being back in wrestling shape so I can make all the young suiters think twice....
I plan on sitting in the living room wearing workout gear and lifting BIG barbells any time a young feller comes by.... Heh....
She doesn't understand what that means yet when I tell her, but soon enough she will....
Such a mean old daddy!!!
sirant
