nataliejo's diary: Moving, flowing, grooving forward... change is coming...

heathercb04 said:
Oh my, doesn't sound like a good day for you at all. Rest up and hopefully your mind and body will feel better by tomorrow. I sincerely hope that Peter gets in touch with you soon!! Blah. Being stood up is crap, he better have a good reason. :rant:
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Hey Heather,
I broke up with Peter. What can you say, sometimes its not meant to be ..u know

ttylater
always
natalie jo :seeya:
 
Ya I agree it is shitty and setting an ideal for it to happen agian unless there was a legit excuse but he should have gotten ahold of you...have you spoken to him since ?
 
Hey there girly. So sorry to hear about Peter, but you sound like you made the right choice. Hope you're not feeling too down about the decision! And the fact that he still hasn't gotten in contact with you is just lame. Ugh. Boys. Can't live with them, can't shoot them. :biggrinjester:

Hope you're doing ok amidst the roller coaster ride! Enjoy the lovely weather!!
 
cinderelly said:
Ya I agree it is shitty and setting an ideal for it to happen agian unless there was a legit excuse but he should have gotten ahold of you...have you spoken to him since ?
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no, He is not responding in any way shape or form. I deleted him from my yahoo messenger. Time to move on :)
Oh well..
but I saw this guys profile on plentyoffish and he loves karaoke ...so you never know.. Ive been writing to gents today lol

so you live, you love, you move on ..
I guess thats what I live by now... although it is a hard lesson to learn really .. u know

ttylater
love yas
always
natalie jo :seeya:
 
heathercb04 said:
Hey there girly. So sorry to hear about Peter, but you sound like you made the right choice. Hope you're not feeling too down about the decision! And the fact that he still hasn't gotten in contact with you is just lame. Ugh. Boys. Can't live with them, can't shoot them. :biggrinjester:

Hope you're doing ok amidst the roller coaster ride! Enjoy the lovely weather!!
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Hey Heather,
I havent gone walking, ugh. I am just not looking forward to the part of walking when you think and reflect on your life lol and than I will cry. So I figure I will go tomorrow. Tomorrow is another beginning, who needs the crap from Peter .. I can find better .. I know there has to be better, who would stand you up and never contact you ever again .. oy vey ...

I am a special one, but really you can be a little kind hearted with a lovely reply. At least tell me to take a walk of a short pier, something, but nope, nada from the man, who cant really be called a man in all the words.. lol

So I am moving on and figuring this as a lesson
you live, you learn, you love, you move on ...

well ttylater hun
love yas
natalie jo :seeya:
 
So the scale was strange today everyone..
It read ..

268.6 pounds

If Peter cant respond, how can I scale be trusted lmao ... maybe I should pull out my ex ray vision lol jk

Anyway yes Peter is on my mind, but the scale just set me going, but still it has not cheered me up, which is amazing, seeing as according to it ..today anyway I am out of the 270s ... but please dont congratulate me.. if it stands all week at that or under 270 anyway, than I will accept what the scale says, if its just a flucuation in weight ..icks ..liar! lol is all I have to say to the scale! lol jk again

I guess I still have some humor left after my dateless and shattered day yesterday .. Walking is in order for tomorrow, none of the wallowing in the mud, must move on!

love yas
always
natalie jo :seeya:
 
*Non congratulates you on the weightloss.* :p

Sorry to hear about the whole Peter thing... I won't even pretend to know how you feel and such, because I've never really had any strong feeling for a guy.

Hope you'll feel better soon though, and while you start to heal I'll send bad karma towards the Peter guy. What goes around comes around right? :)

Take care now.
 
Hikari said:
*Non congratulates you on the weightloss.* :p

Sorry to hear about the whole Peter thing... I won't even pretend to know how you feel and such, because I've never really had any strong feeling for a guy.

Hope you'll feel better soon though, and while you start to heal I'll send bad karma towards the Peter guy. What goes around comes around right? :)

Take care now.
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Thanks Hikari lol
Much appreciated..
I hope your doing well
I shall go check out your diary, its showing up that you wrote
thanks hun
tttylater
natalie jo :auto:
 
i've been reading your diary for awhile, i'm not sure i posted a msg before, but i had to today to...

CONGRATULATE YOU FOR NO LONGER BEING IN THE 270s!!

keep up the good work- it's workin'!!
 
laureelee07 said:
i've been reading your diary for awhile, i'm not sure i posted a msg before, but i had to today to...

CONGRATULATE YOU FOR NO LONGER BEING IN THE 270s!!

keep up the good work- it's workin'!!
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Thanks laureelee,
but I actually weighed in today at 269-271 pounds. I am close. Thanks very much. I am happy to finally be so close or just about out of the 270s .. kind of thrilling ..

thanks hun

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natalie jo :auto:
 
it IS thrilling

it's okay with a little bit fluctation, as long as you "dipped" into the 260s, i say you're considered to be in that range now!!
 
laureelee07 said:
it IS thrilling

it's okay with a little bit fluctation, as long as you "dipped" into the 260s, i say you're considered to be in that range now!!
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I am really excited actually, I weighed 268 yesterday, so I know I am dropping ...

yea!!
lol I am so thrilled!

I love losing weight and feeling healthy, its so wonderful!
sixteen pounds to go and I will be back to what I was four years ago. Its incredible!

ttylater
natalie jo :seeya:
 
Hi NJ,

Sorry to hear that you and Peter broke up - You deserve someone that will treat you right =)

Well done with the recent weight loss! You can Kiss the 270's goodbye now. Good luck!
 
iLikeMyUserName said:
Hi NJ,

Sorry to hear that you and Peter broke up - You deserve someone that will treat you right =)

Well done with the recent weight loss! You can Kiss the 270's goodbye now. Good luck!
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Im actually back with Peter, he actually never considered us over. I just reacted fast and he didnt call, but he said he wasnt splitting up with me, he just didnt have the gas to come up and visit

but thanks hun about the weight loss..
I am really happy!

ttylater
always
natalie jo :seeya:
 
so gas in the car affected the phone lines? :D

you have to do what's right for you... and you should be with someone who treats you the way you want to be treated... and deserve to be treated -

Don't settle for less than what you want or deserve.. because you think you can't do any better.
 
maleficent said:
so gas in the car affected the phone lines? :D

you have to do what's right for you... and you should be with someone who treats you the way you want to be treated... and deserve to be treated -

Don't settle for less than what you want or deserve.. because you think you can't do any better.
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He has one of those phones you have to put minutes into, not like a regular cell phone. So he has no minutes, because he doesnt have enough money, because he is searching for job. He only has his associates and it doesnt seem to land him much for jobs, but he is continuing with his next two years starting in September
yo no se

I am just letting it slide this time, but I am on other dating sites looking around

I swear there are a ton of guys who think overweight women are an easy target to reap the benefits of a one night stand.. I had one guy asking if I like to kiss when we maybe friends, I told him I only kiss my dates and bfs and I dont see either with him lol

oh well ...
I hate trying to ward off these guys ...
ugh

ttylater
natalie jo :seeya:
 
I'm almost done...

Stop seeing yourself as a overweight woman - as the object of a fetish...

you are a woman...

who happens to be fat for the moment but is doing somethig about it...

Again - Do not settle - people should treat you the way yo want to be treated with respect - if they can't handle that - then they shouldn't be allowed in your life...


And don't make excuses for the people who dont treat you with respect -you've got all sorts of excuses for Alex.. and now you're making them for peter...

What does Natalie want and how does Natalie want to be treated?

Why are you putting up with anythig less than that
 
:) You go Mal...

Wether you want to hear it or not it is the truth hun...I never really believed you would be done with him anyway...however my 2 cents is , he should have let you know if he wasn't coming over, money or not , you guys have other modes of communication besides the phone and you are allowing him to start walking all over you already...

I never put up with any of that crap when I dated...first signs of disrespect he was gone...

However it is your life and your decisions...you do what you want to do...

I am with Mal - I wish you veiwed yourself as being worth more...
 
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