funny U comment on "social pressure" eating out & U R also so right - it's NOT eAsy RESisting yummy foods !!
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...resisting things I like , especially when they are RIGHT in FRONT of me...is tuff
- that garlic-toast RIGHT on my plate on Tues.nite supper was tuff - (see - I still remember it ....sheesh... ) but I am finding it's getting easier than it used to be ... I had set my mind ahead of heading-out that nite - I would NOT have bread... so having the Garlic-toast that came with my dish was
NOT an option...and while my eyes did "eye" the garlic-bread a few times... it was less often than I would have looked at it in the past...and before U knew it - my hubby had stolen my garlic toast from my plate -
"R U having it hun?... " ...no , I'm full , U can have it (thank goodness he did take it...not sure I'd have made it thru the whole meal...) - I know some books I've read say to tell the waiter NOT to bring it in the first place- but I'm just too self-concious to be that bold...
... I also feel self-concious that
people will "notice" I'm making healthy choices ....ie-
"oh sure-the chubby lady is eating vegetables.."
- last nite was just with the in-laws... and they think I'm a bit crazy anyways...so when I made a big-production of "How Much i LUV broccoli- " ...and proceeded to "scoop" the broccoli from most of the dishes... I'm pretty sure they were thinking ...that's our daughter-in-law- ....the veggie-lover... nice gal-but bit nutty....( but it did work - I managed to get pretty-full of broccoli- then was better able to resist the deep-fried stuff-) ...
~ & yup - I often feel "rude" when visiting at someones' home & if I don't eat someone's hard-worked-upon cooking - ie. they worked hard and long , especially if they made a special dish they know I like(d)... so , for now, I try to have "some" ( limited serving) to be polite... but am trying to take every opportunity to let folks know, while I luv the treats, they really are Not good for My body ...and am trying to turn a new (veggie) "leaf"... ( no pun intended)...