Jaclyn's diary

Hi Funnky, looks like your really kickin butt! I'm so proud of you. what an inspiration you are!! You've probalby mentioned it before and I missed it, but how much weight have you lost so far? You look like your doing soooo good!

I didn't see your post earlier about flirting, lol. What worked for me, was (and yes this sounds incrediably dumb, but it works!) I used to act really innocent and a bit shy. The guys loved it! Maybe b/c I was still in HS I could pull it off (better than I could now) but it drove the guys nuts, lol.

Anyways, on a more serious note, I wanna tell you something. I know exactly how it feels to want to have a serious boyfriend/fiance/husband, ect. I know how it felt. But now that I"m married, I realized a mistake I made and I just want to make sure you don't make the same mistake. When I was dating, looking for a hubby at that point. I was just so much wanting a nice guy and a good dad for my girl (she was only a baby at that time). I married my husband, and I love him, but I realized now, that I never really thought about what I wanted in a man, outside of being nice. You know, does he make me laugh, will we go out and do things together (or will he sit at home while i run out by myself) are my needs important to him, ect. Its sooo important girl, really think about it!!

Oh,and lastly, but maybe most important, you have to find someone who's flaw's you can live with! Thats sooo important. anyone can live together who are both in good moods, find out what he's like if he's in a really bad mood, how does he respond? THen ask yourself if you can stand to live with him when he's like that.
 
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Aww, thanks for the long post Newbride, makes me feel important! I've lost about 57 pounds...I'm inching towards the 60 pound mark! It's so exciting. I keep going to stores and trying on clothes and not despising the way I look--it's so great! I'm spending too much money though, because I keep buying clothes. Agh! I guess there's no way to win. Although this way is way better than the other way.

I loved your paragraph on being afraid I'll look for too nice a guy. It was too sweet because one of my problems is that I'm not attracted to nice guys at all! I wish that was one of my requirements. Ugh, I'm attracted to the kinds of guys who argue with me, try to move too fast, and make crude jokes. I don't know why! People always say you're supposed to be attracted to men who are like your dad, but my dad isn't like that at all, he's the nicest guy in the world. I like the troublemakers though. One of the reasons the guy I went out with the other night annoyed me so much, besides his annoying voice, walk, and conversation skills, was the fact that he didn't even so much as try to make a move on me. I don't like that! I like aggressive guys. But I know in the end they always end up giving me problems. I want to find a healthy medium, a guy who is aggressive and will give me enough trouble to keep me on my toes, but not one who is so bad that he's not nice to me, like my last boyfriend. Not that he hurt me physically or anything, he would just confuse me, tell me he loved me then not answer my calls for weeks, that sort of thing. It was ridiculous. Anyway, I know I'll find someone eventually. Right now I kind of just want to have fun, I'm not even really looking for a husband or father to my kids, just a companion. I'm busy, I work, I go to school, I have stuff to do, but I'd like to roll around with someone on my free time. :) Thank you so much for your advice though Newbride, it was very well thought out and sweet. :)
 
Breakfast:
Berry Kix in skim (150)

Snack:
Special K Bar (90)

Lunch:
Peanut Butter, Banana, and Honey on Wheat (360)
Cheddar Goldfish (140)

Snack:
Peach (40)

Dinner:
Lean Cuisine Penne Pasta (270)

Snack:
Leftover Seasame "Chicken" with broccoli and rice (200)
Watermelon (70)
 
Sesame chicken and rice sounds yummy. Your doing great, :eek: wow honey 57 pounds how dose it feel to say that, you must be so proud of yourself :D . God girl don’t we all love the bad boys lol, I found one and married him and divorced him 4 years later :eek: . Funny thing is I don’t regret the time but I sure learnt a lot ;) .
 
Ohhh man Rosered, that gives me some hope. I don't regret anything that happened with my ex, except for the way it ended. I wish I didn't get so attatched to him, because if I didn't maybe we could still have some fun together. But oh well, time to move on. I do need a slightly bad boy. Nice guys don't do it for me.

I had a majorly boring day. I slept in, went to the pool, then my best friend got sick and I had to pick her up from the doctor and then I hung around the house all day in case she needed me. But I'm back to work tomorrow. Of course.

Breakfast:
Egg Beaters (60)
2 Slices Veggie Bacon (60)
Orange Juice (50)

Lunch:
Parmesan Ranch Chik Patty (180)
Peach (40)
Original Goldfish (140)

Dinner:
Lean Cuisine Pizza (320)
Salad with baby tomatoes and Honey Baslamic Dressing (150)

Snack:
Healthy Pop Apple Cinammon Popcorn (100)

Dessert:
1/2 Cup Edys Light Chocolate Fudge Ice Cream (120)
 
Oh mate how true lol, my hubby now is so different from my first, he’s gentle, kind and loving but if he really wants something his way he gets it. I think what it all comes down to is we want a man, a real man who can be strong enough to look after us and be as loyal as a pit-bull lol. I hope you find that special someone one day soon.
 
Breakfast:
Corn Pops in Skim (150)
Orange Juice (50)

Snack:
Special K Bar (90)

Lunch:
Sweet and Sour Tofu with Brown Rice and Veggies (400)

Dinner:
Veggie Corn Dog (160)
Raspberries (50)

Dessert:
WW Cheesecake (150)
 
Breakfast:
Frosted Flakes in skim with banana (260)
Orange Juice (50)

Sack:
Light Fat Free Yogurt (100)

Lunch:
1 Slice Tomato Pizza (250)
Salad with oil and vinegar (200)
Garlic knot (150)

Dinner:
Apple Jacks (120)
Raspberries (50)
 
fuunky, I just had to get in the conversation about men.
There is no such thinkg as the "Perfect" one. They all have their flaws as so do we.
I used to chat online in the chicago-burbs chat room. I must have met about 15 people from there. I always got a pic first, I dont care who you are, looks matter to some point! Then I would chat for a few days online, If I liked them and they liked me, we would talk on the phone a few times. If it still seems to go good, make a date in a public place like a mall or something.
To be flirty or sexy you need to feel flirty or sexy. And this you should, because you are a very very attractive female! LOL For real! No wonder you got guys always smiling at you! USE IT! TO your advantage. Do you read cosmo? I get alot of tips in there.
I found Allysons biological creep online, he was a miss.
I found My fiance Phil online, he was a major hit.
I thank the god everytime he comes home, he is all mine.
I know what you mean about not being attracted to the "nice ones". I had a teacher once tell me I must be an "a$$-hole magnet" and she was right.

Once you do get into the swings of things, just enjoy the dating life, dont be in such a hurry to hook up with one guy. Trust me, it's super fun to have at least 3 guys, it helps if they work different shifts. Then you're set for all times of the day.
LOL And you'll be so busy, you wont hve time to eat.

Okay maybe I dont give the best advice, but it was fun!
 
Haha, aww, Christina your post was so funny/true. I'm glad you found Phil. I need to fine me a Phil. But you're totally right, I don't need to find a boyfriend, I just need to find some guys to have a good time with, and if there was more than one for awhile I'd be okay with that. I'm thinner now than I was with any of my ex boyfriends, and I'm much more comfortable with my body. I need to start showing it off!

Tha being said, I did kind of eat a lot today. I went to a yoga class in the morning and it was really nice. I'm glad I went. Then my best friend and I went to see Charlie and the Chocolate Factory, which made us really hungry! Then we went to California Pizza Kitchen, and I had some pizza, but I just said no to the bread!

Breakfast:
Honey Smacks in Skim (150)
1/2 Cup Cranberry Juice (60)

Snack:
100 Cal Pack of Pringles
Apple with Peanut Butter (240)

Lunch:
CPK Veggie Pizza, with Corn, Japanese Eggplant, Broccoli, Sundried Tomatoes, and Mushrooms (500?)

Dinner:
Morningstar Veggie Corn Dog (160)
Salad with baby tomatoes and 2 tbsp honey balsamic vinegarette (150)

Dessert:
Strawberry Shortcake Bar (170)
 
Charlie and the Chocolate Factory would make me hungry too! That pizza sounds /really/ good. It doesn't look like you did too bad, food-wise.
 
57 lbs!!! congrats fuunky thats awesome!!! :) love reading your diary! your food is so yummy looking :D and the men talk is fun too lol heck yeah have a few on the go..... ;)
 
your young, single, and looking good. You have all the advantages. Take advantage of the men!
You're doing so good. How was the movie? heard it was not as good as the first.
 
jessicalyn80 said:
Charlie and the chocolate factory was terrible, it was like michael jackson as willie wonka. VERY CREEPY! lol.
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:eek: Yuck I could think of nothing worse lol.

It sounds like your having a good time getting out and about, you go girl. :D
 
Aww, thanks for the compliments everyone! You're all so great. The movie wasn't so hot. I don't like the first one, I didn't think this one was better or worse, just different. Johnny Depp was definitely MJ weird in it--it was very Tim Burton, if that tells you anything. It was cool looking, but definitely weird. It still made me hungry.

Breakfast:
Apple Jacks in Skim (150)
Orange Juice (50)

Lunch:
Orange (80)
Lean Cuisine Ravioli (250)

Dinner:
Veggie Patty (120)
Tomato and Lentil Cous Cous (200)
Peach and Raspberries (90)

Snack:
Homemade Trail Mix (Honey Roasted Peanuts, Macadamia nuts, Cashews, Almonds, Semi Sweet Chocolate Chips, dried Cherries, and Raisins.) It's soooo good, high in calories, but good for protein. (350)
 
Ughhhhhhhhhhhhh

I have a stomach bug/flu/food poisoning...something. I got bad heartburn yesterday, and then I left work early and slept it off, then stupidly went out with friends for Mexican food. I have never regretted anything more in my life. I threw up five times this morning. Ughhhh. It hurts so bad. That's all for now.
 
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