thanks everyone for the input! I just went to walmart today with my dad. I am 13... please dont say ur 13 dont worry about ur shape. I just dont like the shape im in. I have more muscle than kids my age. When i flex my abs i can feel them/ see a faint outline. My dad said that i only need to lose that extra fat i have. I picked up some food today at walmart. What do you all think of this diet? Every morning i will eat about a bowl of cereal and a carton of milk(from school). For lunch i will pack a cheese and turkey sandwhich on wheat, about 10-15 red grapes, 10-20 baby carrots,a bottle of water and for a snack during the day i will take an extra bottle of water and 5-10 medium sized strwberries. Every few days i will replace the grapes or strawberries with a bannana. I used to eat the same sandwhich, a bag of chips, and a soda. I felt so unhealthy eating it. And i will eat whatever homecooked meal my dad makes. He is from the middle East and the mediterranean diet, i heard was one of the healthiest out there. What do you think of this new diet? I will eat this all while doing the activities i listed earlier regularly. I dont want to build alot of muscle now, other than what we do in Taekwondo, but i am taking weightlifting next year.