Yesterday Night
So recap, in case you don't know.....
I'm dating a Gemini 23-year old; we met in June 2005 and started dating when I raped him at his parents' house 10-11-2005

The circumstances were odd because I had just got out of a relationship with my ex for 2 weeks--and we'd been together for 5 1/2 years (since I was 17 and he was 15, yes I prefer younger men). Also, the guy who introduced us had a big crush on me. We kept ourselves as secret as along as possible.
BF's a literal genius and a computer nerd. He smokes, is messy, and some more complaints I have...but we love each other dearly and are totally sexually compatible. We're both animated, talkative, friendly people, although he is more sporadically social, and I am constantly wanting to go places and do things. He likes to sleep

I like to run--our lifestyles are totally different.
We lived together from March 2006-July 2007. From about May-July 2007 we argued A LOT. In August we moved out--me to Soquel, him back with his mom in Big Basin. We still fought when we saw each other, because I wanted more time with him and he wanted time away from me, among other things, and our issues were NOT resolved. We did a trial break-up for 2 weeks late August, but one week into it, he got drunk and tried to hunt me down, leaving a teary message on my phone--I wasn't home!
Ever since we got back together after those 2 weeks, I've been adjusting to not putting so much of my importance on the relationship blah blah blah.....basically we haven't fought since. He has some interesting views on fidelity and let's just say there are allowances made. But all in all, this is working, and yesterday I went to his parents' house for dinner and to spend the night.
He bought and cooked halibut with a special sauce he invented, and mac nuts and pecans. I made potatoes. He surprised me with chocolate! We had a great time hanging with his mom. I surprised him with my Catholic Shoolgirl outfit when we went to bed. We slept soundly before he left for work.
I'm satisfied and pleased at his behavior--I sure do love him!
But I ate too much yesterday, which leads to my next post.....