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finally back on track

After weeks of slip ups I've had my 1st day back on track.
The Old Me - you know why I've done so well today. Thank you so much. Will do the same tomorrow. I have some more quotes here for any who find them motivational:

What you do today can't change the past, but it may change the future

Don't let the fear of the time it will take to accomplish something stand in the way of your doing it. The time will pass anyway, you might as well put that passing time to the best possible use.

The block of granite which was an obstacle in the path of the weak, becomes a stepping stone in the path of the strong

Always move toward a positive goal, never away from a negative one.

Keeping motivated over a long period of time needs constant attention

An incredible amount of power lies in your hands when it comes to directing your life
 
WELL DONE L-Jay

I am proud of you. Now stick to it!!!!! Grrr. Lol
I loved your quotes and liked the one about not wasting time worrying about how long it will take, so much, that I have adopted it as my theme song.
I AM pleased with my progress and I AM pleased with my weight and I DO intend to keep going but sometimes the next few months seem to stretch endlessly ahead and I wonder about my capacity to sustain it for that long. So this quote really really helps. Thanks and lets both plan on making it! No more pigging out and lots more motivation and sticking to the plan.
Cheers
Jen
 
2nd week down

Yay - total of 5kg lost and 22cm gone!! Its such a motivation to see it coming off - keeps me going even when i'm on a shift extension or when I'm in the pub for my partners birthday and everyone is eating chicken parmiganas!!!!

keep up the motivational posts girls - we're all on the way!! :D
 
Keep on going...

My motivation was really low yesterday... with everybody talking about eating steak egg and chips for dinner. then going to the video store and my best mate said here try some of the beef stogonoff i made then "oops i'm sorry". It's like they don't want me to loose weight but her and her mother are like "Don't you every put yourself down i saw such and such and they are bigger than you". How dare they say that it just puts you in a low straight away. So that ladies is my motivation that keeps me going!!! and plus i have said to hubby that i am going to buy the most beautiful skinny wedding dress and we're going to do our wedding agian so i don't look like the fat frumpy one!!!

Anyway i have had my bitch now and gosh i feel so much better.

If any of you gals out there are having the same issues as me please let me know! Hate to think i was the only one around these sorts of people :eek:

Tam
 
The Old Me thanks heaps for you encouragement. It's made all the difference. You don't really have that far to go in your journey. It will go quickly especially with no deviations:)

Tasm82 It's good to have a whinge & get it out of your system. I've some quotes which deal specifically with helping us cope with other people and negativity my favourite is this one

we survive our critics by knowing that their agendas at heart may have little to do with us - this is usually the case, because when people are being critical, its usually because they have issues of their own, and this is the root of it.
Anyway here are some others:

putting other peoples feelings before your own priorities can lead to major consumption & a guilty feeling the next day

Care less about others opinion of you. Live life how you want. Risk rejection by saying "no"

Learn not to be a sponge for other peoples problems

the only opinion of you that really counts is yours

what other people think of you is none of your business. There is nothing you can do about it anyway., so you may as well focus on yourself rather than trying to say or do things that please others

When you believe in yourself, you'll find you're no longer preoccupied with obtaining other peoples approval

Don't live your life or make you decisions based on getting approval from others

"no" is a sentence , you are not obliged to provide an explanation

No one can make you feel inferior without your permission. Learn not to grant that permission, for you'll always encounter people who try to put you down whether through thoughtlessness, tactlessness, competitiveness, bad manners or just plain rudeness

Preserve your dignity & self-respect & walk away from others who treat you in a demeaning manner

We can't control what others think, so it's a waste of time worrying about it

anxiety about others reactions can cripple you

Obviously not all of these are applicable, but I reckon they give pretty interesting food for thought when you really think about them.

 
Hang in there..

Tasm82: I know what you mean, people offer me things all the time, even my kids - and I almost have taken some before remembering. Just keep thinking how great you will look and feel in that wonderful wedding dress!! I just had my 10th year anniversary and wanted to get married again. I put it off coz I hated being fat!!

I feel better today after actually getting sleep. I too are still cooking "normal" meals for my family, it just seemed easier to make them all something different and faster! I have laminated the "One Mistake = One Week" page close to my fridge. I figure this is just for a moment in time and I will feel better for it. I have eaten the cake, pigged out on chocolate and had my chips all before - it only ever made me feel good while I was doing it, then I felt bad, so I am determinded to stick to it 100% - then it won't take as long!!!

All the best!

Mitmary7

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I can't believe it is saturday already! The last 7 days have flown by!

Today marks the end of week 9 for me.... So my unofficial weigh in and measure. Dropped a full kilo last week, and about 5cms. I'm rapt! After my 0.5kg losses every week last month, a 1kg loss ia a 100% improvement (literally!). If I can keep at least the 1kg loss up for the next few weeks, I'll be starting refeed finally in about 4 weeks! Gosh - I hope so! This has taken me longer than I had anticipated already! Got to move my ticker today though - that's always a good way to start the day!

I was thinking yesterday about the program and the things I miss etc, and I really don't mind the food at all now. I'm never hungry, and I honestly enjoy my yoghurt for brekkie, eggs on the weekend as a "treat", salad for lunch, and my trusty steak, spinich & veg for dinner. What I really do miss, is being able to go to the pub after work on a Friday and having a drink. I really miss the social life that comes with eating and drinking out. I think that's a really important realisation - I don't miss the fancy food, or the taste of alcohol - I miss the social interaction that comes with it. Another proof that I will control food (not visa versa) when I've finished the program. It may not seem like much to most of you, but that is a massive step in the right direction for me.

Well, have a great Saturday everyone! And don't forget to drink that water!
Bella

PS - Kim - I hope you are doing okay. You haven't posted much since your accident. I hope everything is fine.
 
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Day six

Good morning lovely ladies

It is day six of the program, and I have begun to realize how much I nibble, when I don't even realize I am eating. This was scary. I woke up this morning, half asleep, walked to the kettle and flicked it on, then walked to the fridge and put my hand into the grapes and nearly grabbed a handful. Luckily, I stopped, but I had the realization that I do things like that without even realizing I am eating. No wonder I became overweight hey!

Yesterday wasn't a great day. I am pre menstrual and starving. I was grumpy and lethargic and self involved. I know it's bad, but I ate an extra FOUR Paradise lites. naughty I know, and I am kicking myself today, but I now have to deal with it. Today I hate that saying about one mistake, one week. Doh!

Ridiculous - well done to you.... yoou're doing so well and nearly there. Well done. And keep being strong.

Tam82 - My gorgeous husband came home from footy training the other night with a Magnum for himself and a Frosty Fruit for me. He was encouraging me to eat it, as it was a 'good' icy pole and not fatty. I loved him for the thought, but could of killed him. I did not succumb, but it did look delicious. I know he wants me to feel good about myself, but I think if I get to my 'pre kids' weight again, then he has to be accountable for his own body then, and I think that scares him.

Juzzy - welcome. I too am new, so no tips from me. Apparantly the first week is the hardest though, so you need to power through the first week, and then apparantly it gets easier. Actually - one tip - i weighed bags of meat/chicken etc and put them in the freezer and marked what weight they were on it, so I can pull out a bag per meal.

Keep up the good work ladies.

Cheers, Tania
 
Morning all!!
Yea I hope that you are alright too kim. Thoughts are with you. Big hugs to you in your sick bed.

ridiculous: I really resonate with what you are saying. The food on this program is great if you take the time to put some effort and variety into it. Add in a bit more, take out the rules and the weighing, and allow for some treats and I am happy. The going out with friends and going away overnight or for a few nights .... the ease of that is what I miss. It's still possible but it is not the same as being able to just chill with friends and know you can join them in food. Mine are really good but it restricts them too. The enjoyment factor isn't the same and the places you go to are restricted. It is not about the indulgence of unhealthy foods, it is simply about the ease of socialising and the normalisation. Really looking forward to that again.

My loss was only 0.5 again this week. Very disappointing. But it was 7.2cms so I can't complain. From now on I realise the cms lost should be good because the places I need to lose from are all the places that we measure! Sometimes in the past I was aware the biggest losses were in the places I wasn't officially measuring. (I do have about 6 other places I measure, but don't 'officially' record.)

L-Jay: So glad you are back on track. Am hangin' on wanting to know if it is still OK for you. I'm sure you can do it!

the old me: Stick with it and the time will fly. I am doing a massive countdown to motivate and inspire myself through the last part. Someone gave me a free calendar and I have devised a method of recording all my expectations and the possibilities of losing at various rates, and am doing countdowns - weeks, days, rates of loss, etc!! I know it seems a bit obsessive, but it really gives me focus. And I am feeling very positive. I can even keep changing the ETA (estimated time of arrival) each week so I know exactly which track I am on and what to expect. With measurements I worked out how many cms I need to lose from bust waist and hips to be a standard size 12 - and therefore what I can anticipate each week - which is about 4.5cms on average. I am carrying all my excess in those places! Well enough of my obsessing!! I'm off to do other things - not related to Cohens ( I really do have a balanced life!)

To everyone else, have a good day,
lizzi
 
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Going great guns

Well we are all doing so well again at present. Congrats everyone.
Thanks for your encouragement Lizzi, every bit of motivation that is beamed my way helps. You always sounds so together and your weight loss is superb . I am impressed. I know what you mean about the charting. I chart weight every day and love to see the graph changing. I am not efficient enough to work out a system to calculate future losses but do write a projected loss on the calendar for each week and then hope for the best. I have lost 58cm all up which never sounds all that much compared to what some of you say but its still much better off than on and its over 1/2 a meter!!!!!! I guess I was lucky I was always a shapely obese person and still had a waist etc so perhaps thats why the loss doesn't seem as great as for some other people. Or maybe I just measure the wrong bits! LOL I think that a lot came off wrists, ankles and around my internal organs too and I can't measure that of course.

Confession time.
I was starving yesterday. I wanted to eat all day. I was sorely tempted by some junk food but decided that I had to eat and it may as well be healthy so I had an extra vita wheat and an orange which stopped the pangs enough that I could survive. I know I shouldn't really have had it but I felt that if I didn't I'd really pig out.. again. It hasnt affected my loss and I am down on the scales today so although I won't do it all the time it seemed worth doing yesterday to avert a bigger disaster like non stop junk food.
That's the trouble once I break I feel like I may as well go the whole hog. Hog being the optimal word! I also drank and drank and drank water which probably helped but I could hardly take a step without needing to go to the toot again! Anyway, so far today I am not absolutely starving and so I don't think it will be an issue again.

L- Jay how are you doing?

Jen
 
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Good Afternoon Ladies

You are all doing so well even those of you who have broken have only done so with a bit of extra food than what you are allowed to have , me not so good today :eek:

I have been really struggling for the last week I think because I have been at home all week sick and have been surrounded by food which normally I wouldn't see so much cause I am at work. Also I have been reading everyone's posts and it seems that everyone is loosing so much quicker than what I am. Today I got up and made my husband and son bacon and eggs and really struggled with not being able to have any of it but didnt break, the what do you know went to a friends birthday which was a bbq and ate two sausages in bread. :eek: I have spent the rest of the afternoon feeling sick and really guilty I just want to cry. :(

I haven't felt this bad since before I started the program, I have been on this for 6 weeks so far so I wont have another weigh in for two weeks but because I only lost 5.3kilos in the first month I dont think my loss will be that good.

Sorry guys to get on here and whinge I just feel so down and stupid and weak for eating the damn sausages.

I'm going to go and drink some more water sorry again for being on here whinging when I only have myself to blame....
 
Carissa

Carissa - It's ok hun, just pick up from that lapse & move forward :) You mustn't get to down on yourself, what is done is done, nothing can change that....but you can control & change your future from here on in :) I know you can do it, if you didn't care about the hiccup you wouldn't have felt so guilty. Guilt can play a major part in re-focusing your priorities, so guilt can sometimes have a very positive effect.:)

Keep on posting & never apologise for "whinging"!!!! We are all entitled to vent!! :)

XXXOOOOXXX

Thinking of you all, will post a bigger note next time. Have been looking at all your weight stats guys...VERY IMPRESSIVE.....KEEP GOING, not far now!! XXXX

:)
 
Well Done!!!!!


i CaN i WiLL ... I just read the Life After forum.

And You DiD ! ! !​

I am so proud of you. That is a stupendous effort. This is what you have been working towards. It is FANTASTIC!!

I will so much look forward to hearing about how you go now - but there is no way I will post on the other forum until I have my goal.

You RoCK i CaN i WiLL!!!
lizzi
 
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Hi from London town!

Dear all you wonderful Cohenettes!

Well I am up to Day 7 on the refeed and thank goodness have not put on weight! :) Bizarrely I appear to have lost weight, about .5kg! How is that possible? To eat more food and lose weight! Strange! :confused:

The refeed has been fine, if a little complicated. I keep realising I have more food to eat. Loving the pineapple though, this morning I had french toast made with an egg, cinnamon, sweetener and a bit of water instead of milk, fried in olive oil spray and served with grilled pineapple! Yum!

Don't know how I am going to get through 3 pieces of bread on Monday though!

I managed to get through a bbq today, hard though, just ate prawns and salad. However I did eat a bite of sponge cake, then threw the rest in the bin! Managed to resist a table groaning with goodies, my friend Cath had her 30th and she kind of had a kids party theme. Fairy cakes, choccie bikkies, pavlova, oh my gosh!! And there were chips and sausages and bread and then she gave us a party bag as we left! With chocolate and other lollies! I have thrown it up on the highest shelf in the pantry for after refeed!

However going there after a big brekkie made it easier, I was not starving!

I agree with people that the hardest thing about Cohens is the social thing, I have had to literally avoid social situations so I don't deviate, I think that the people who came up with this diet must have been geeks who never go out and have no friends!!! It really requires a lot of sacrifice! Especially for a young single girl who loves entertaining and going out to eat with friends!!!

Juzzy - Well done on joining this program, it really is effective! You just have to follow it 100%. Some tips for you.... I found that shopping for food once a week and then doing all my weighing when i get it home and putting everything in the freezer really helps, that way you are making life easier for yourself. And it is best not to be in the supermarket every few days. Avoiding temptation is my other tip, I know it is hard but you are going have to be a bit of a hermit and saying 'no' more to things. Come up with alternative ways of meeting up with friends, coffees and stuff, it can work, and it is worth it. I also found this forum helpful, reading the posts everyday really helped keep me on track. All the best! Let me know how you go!

Lizzi - Like your planning! Sounds very organised! It does really help to visualise the future, in detail!! I found that really motivating, and once you realise how much longer it is going to take if you stuff up it really motivates you!

Old Me - I know what you mean about a small mistake making you feel like you may as well go crazy. But the thing is, you can minimise the damage! One mouthful of cake is so much less worse than five pieces! And just focus on one day at a time, you have control over the future, not the past, so just work on the day you have in front of you.

Carissa - Know what you mean about bbqs! THe snags today smelt soo good! But just think of how many other situations you have already dealt with well, like the bacon and eggs! You keep doing that more often than not and you will get there!

Ridiculous - Well done on reaching a size 14, must be nice to have people noticing your loss.

ICIW - Thanks for staying on the forum and sending motivational messages. Can you send me the link for the 'post cohens' thread? Can't remember what page it is on! THink it will be really important to keep on one of these forums to keep me motivated. I don't want to regain the weight and have to diet ever again!

Dilfizzle - Good luck ! I find having fruit and bikkies between meals really helped with hunger, and also drinking lots of water

Netski - Well done on sticking with it, sorry you are having a hard week, sometimes it is just like that

Tam - Be patient, the weight will come off, try to resist the temptation to weigh yourself all the time, it messes with your motivation, trust in the program to work. Just keep dreaming of that skinny wedding dress!

MitMary - Glad you are sleeping better, loved the sign on the fridge, that saying really kept me motivated!

Ready to lose - Oh my gosh! Chicken parmagiana! I love that meal at the pub, with lots of yummy hot chips! I have just started drooling! Well done on your loss so far, and your willpower!

Tania - First week is hard, I was so tired, just keep it up. It does get better. BTW, laughed at your story about cheese and bacon roll on the dash, and just eating the bacon!! I love those things....I used to work at Brumby's and ate loads of them - much to the detriment of my waistline!

And the rest of you, how are you doing? Myshy, Lisa - how are you all?

Hope you all have a great week. Only one week for me and I will be done with my refeed. Yeah! Wish me strength and no weight gain!!

Thanks for all your support!

Kathy
 
Hi all.

Lizzi and The Old Me - had a great day Friday. Husband had been away for a few days, which I think gave me time to chill.
He told me when he got back he wanted to go on a health kick. Anyway we went to the pub for tea that night. The way I've been feeling lately, I normally would have let that ruin the whole of next week for me, but I was straight back on the wagon yesterday. That was our last supper so to speak. I am in such a different head space now. Feeling so positive. I was getting worried that I was falling into big depression. I struggled with that for a long time, but havent had it for years, so I'm relieved to have bounced back. Sometimes its just a need to have time out and do your own thing. So I'm firing on all cylinders now. Each day is the first day of the rest of my life.

The Old Me I know what you mean about needing a bit extra to eat. It can sometimes make the difference between blowing it or not, or even getting a decent sleep. My view is for what its worth is once you get past the early days and you are getting into weeks, it gets easier as your body gets used to it. You are doing well anyway so just keep going.
Lizzi its true, you always do sound really together. I had a thought the other day. Not that I do it but I wonder if anyone has done scrapbooking of their Cohens journey. I reckon there could be a lot of interesting stuff eg photos, measurements, triumphs, hard times etc.
Anyway everyone have a great Cohens day xxx
 
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Good Morning

A big thankyou to start with to I can I will and Miss KathI felt so much better after reading your messages to me. :)

Okay so I have decided to forget all about yesterday and take comfort in the fact that although I did crack and eat two sausages with bread before starting cohens I would have also eaten the chips, cake, lollies and everything else that was there. :rolleyes:

Where are you Kim I am worried that we havent heard from you since the accident ? Are you doing okay ? :confused:

To all of you I hope you have a great day and cant thank u guys enough for the support and motivation you give me..:D
 
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Hey Girls,

Hope everyone is feeling good today! Is it the weather change or what but all i think about is food, and i mean all the time! I spose i've been sad too because my bestest friend who is also in cohens is moving to melbourne this week, we'd meet up a few times a week and have tea . Now i won't be able to see her for at least 2 months!! oh well !
I've had a stomach issue the past few days, been visiting the toilet a lot! i hope it goes away becuase even though i haven't deviated at all, i've put on weight!!!!!!!! PLEASE EXPLAIN. My water is up to help flush out whatever is causing me this issue The weird thing is my whole body is going nuts! I'm not a sickly person and i've had the vomits and the runs in the space of a week!WTF?

Tasm82
i find scales a funny thing because i can weigh myself 3 times one time after another and thre be 2kg difference, and these are digital scales!
I'm wondering if they need to be re-calibrated!


Carissa
well done for moving on, i think the strength of character shows through when you need to pick yourself up not when you've fallen. keep going!

Karol
Looks like you've sped ahead i'm only just into the 70's but its hard to say with this stomach issue??? I hope metacaps have assisted you a little. i take 2 in the moring and 1-2 at night.



Can someone just confirm that we are only meant to drink caffeine free diet coke, we can't have the normal diet coke, whats the difference( except the obvious caffeine content)?

Ok sweet peas. Hope you all have wonderful success through the days to come

Netski
 
Hi Netski,
I live down here in Singapore where we are not able to get the caffeine free diet coke so we are allowed to drink the normal diet coke so I think it should be allowed on the program. =)
 
Hi there,
hope you are all going well. We were at the football today watching Brisbane have a big win! I was worried that I'd be really tempted by the hot chips etc. But no-I just ate the food I took for myself and didn't stray once! I am really amazing myself, usually i have no willpower at all, and any excuse I'll take to eat what i want.

Netski, I asked about the diet coke and they said caffeine can make you hungry, but I drink it when I can't get the other, and I am still losing! Am having 4 week blood test on Friday, so will let you know if it comes up as a deviation.

Those of you taking the metamucil, does it make you go every day? Does it give you the runs or is the movement normal? Sorry to ask such questions, but I seem to get the runs with the durolax that the clinic said would be ok to take - I'd much prefer something in between!

Well guys, stay strong - have a great week!

chiko
 
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