Changing the way i feel

thanks girls so much!!!I am just hoping the scales stay that way and dont go up again!
I put on this dress to drive my girlfriend home,cause she stayed over last night,and my husband called out to me so he can take a look at me.He said that i have shrunk!!!yes thats the word he used!!I said not to over do it but he was going on all day that the dress i was wearing used to be so tight and full of "stuff"!!!:leaving:and now it looks great!
To be honest i dont remember much about that dress but felt good that FINALLY he noticed some change.He said its not easy for him to see the difference cause he sees me every day, but he noticed from the dress,they way it was on me and the way it is now!So thats great to get the spirits even higher!!!
Food now was ok today.I dont think ive had enough though
BR Coffee
Lunch A small bowl of rice with veggies and ...2 thick slices of bread ....with...margarine....i was really hungry though , thats why i had that,i didnt have anything else in the fridge...
Dinner a greek salad with feta cheese...I was really craving the feta cheese.I used to eat it like crazy and for 3 months now im having such a little,nearlly nothing!
Diet coke and some licks of my boys icecream

so its my birthday august 1st,i share the day with my best friend's husband,Only he (they) were born in 1985 and i in 1981~So we having a mutual party at their house with our friends and family invited.We did the same last year too.
Only that i want to look really stunning this year,after all i am saying goodbye to the twenties!!!im gonna be thirty!!!:coolgleamA:
I am thinking of getting something new to wear.I am planning to go on friday to marks and spencers(i love the quality,the clothes are kind of boring but sometimes i can find some great dresses) and try on some stuff,i'll also check out what size i am now.
Well thats , that for today,Hope my little one gets to bed,he's really bad behaved the last week.SOmeone told me its probably cause we've stoped his dummy.Hope its that and not his future attitude.
 
..its so nice when the hubbys notice with out it being preyed out of them. My hubby always tells me he is proud of me...but I like when its a specific compliment better..lol..I know beggars cant be picky!! lol.

Your joint party sounds fun..I am sure you are going to find something sassy and sizzling...and O' to be 30 again..lol...you are going into your thirty's the right way..the way I wish I would have entered them!! Be proud of that..its a big deal!!!
 
Long time no see, Jasper :)

Looks like you have been doing well! Glad to see you're almost going to take on that 3rd goal of yours! :)

Nice for your hubby to notice too - I will have to agree with him that seeing someone everyday makes it much harder to see change though! I'm on his side for that one! Funny, I was just having a similar conversation about seeing weight change on a person you see all the time just 2 minutes ago!!
 
well im having a really crappy day.
I havent had lunch like a normal plate,sit sown and eat.
I;ve been munching from the morning
i started of with a koulouri a always have but then ate another 2 total 3 of them/
I had a few bites of cheese.a slice of bread.Leftover omellette.
A baked potatoe,and some bites of a steak.
I dont know whats the matter .....
I feel bloated,have no idea about the calories,
I am very tired(got up really early),its hot,i am moody,and bored.
I hope i havent ruined my work, the last days.
I WILL stop eating today.I wont have anything else,but whats gone done,has gone down...
Oh and yesterday i ate so little,i think i have ruined it.Damn.....
 
Oh no, I hope my miserable-ness hasn't rubbed off on you! I will eat superhealthy food from now on, just in case!

Everyone eats worse when they're tired, you haven't done too badly. Its only one day! But behave yourself tomorrow :) So you can fit into your fabulous dress :D

I had a joint birthday party once, it was fun.
 
oh no dont be silly rainbow!!!The only thing i blame is my bit mouth!and feeling to tired to make an effort today!!
Well at least i didnt have anything else afte my last post here.oh no sorry i had 100 cals worth of diet youghurt.So i went on the scales just now(its nearly 2 am!!!!!) just cause its eating me up inside~~~86....I havent gone to the loo or anything I know that its so not right but i just wanted to get it out my head.I thought i had 2 kilos of food , but i didnt!
So well ill be exellent tomorow!maybe even get some exercise in!!!
I am waching E!investigates:Serial Killers on the Loose!really scary,and both my men are sleeping,just locked the door , left the key in!omg!
:nopity::nopity::nopity:
I ll catch up on all you friends diary tomorow!Kisses and hugs!
 
Hey jasper, it's only one day as ruthie said. It doesn't sound -too- bad either.

We all have our bad days..just got to know you'll be back on track ASAP!
 
Whats done is done, no point looking back and in the bigger scheme of things 1 day is insignificant. We all slip from time to time, its no big deal if you consistently eat right most of the time.
 
Morning sweetie
Just think about hot sexy you are going to look for your birthday!!! That should keep you going on track for the next few days......Oh, and being 30 is great!! i felt so much more confindent in myself when i was 30. I have quite enjoyed my 30's way better than my 20's. You can officially be a yummy mummy at 30 tee hee.
Have a great day. Xx
 
hi!I did good today,no bad stuff!!!\

BR Coffee
Lunch Eggplants with tomatoe and onion cooked in the oven
i didnt have the whole plate,i didnt really like it cause i was out of salt.
Snack Coffee and grape cookie
Dinner Pasta salad (2 small bowls)

I am really tired again and grumpy.Its my kid,he's driving me mad.I just cant stand his behaviour anymore.I know its a difficult age (2) he just wont listen to me.He moans and crys all day cause he dosent get what he want,he slams doors and things on the floor.....i do the 2 minute time out i see on the nannys tv episodes but it doesnt work...i just wait all day for bedtime to come....

So i;ll be back later on ,when he falls asleep to catch up on you guys!and put up the food pics
 
oh!!!the ebay dress is nearlly mine !The bid is ending soon and i'm the only one that wants it~~~~(well that does make me wonder,maybe the dress is too much with all those sequins????)
If i lived in the uk it would cost me nearly nothing the dress!but im paying postage but still its only like 10 euros all together!!!
I m mostly exited cause its my first bid ever!!!i usually buy things right away!!!!
 
Heya sweetie.
I know what you mean about 2 year old boys. Jack was really hyperactive at that age (some people thought he might have had ADHD) and he was really really hard work. Everything was 100 miles an hour.
I do have a few bits of advice, everyone gives advice, i know, but it really worked for me and my little whirlwind. Be strong and consistant. You are in charge and he needs to know that. I found that if i stuck to what i said he eventually figured that he wasn't gonna walk all over me or be rude and get away with it. It is hard but stick with it and he will learn. I also found that really really praising good behaviour and try to ignore (to a point) negative behaviour really works. All kids want attention and will do anything to get your attention even if it's not good attention. Ok, i'll shut up now lol I could go on forever about dealing with little boys. Jack has grown up into a lovely, Respectful, caring little lad (well, not so little, he is nearly as tall as me now). Yes, we have moments of 'It's so unfair' but that isn't often.
Don't worry sweetie, it passes. They do get better lol. Mine even does the dishes now and makes tea, Badly, but he makes it lol.
 
won the dress from another bidder!!!im really pathetic thinking this was really fun!!!!

Ok here is the pics...Really embaressed to day i just had another little bowl , just minutes ago....bad....its 12:25...
 
Ooooh, that dress is fabulous! And DEFINATELY not too much! I could see it with pink shoes :) And its a great bargain as well.

I have to agree with how much fun ebay is :) Its such an adrenaline rush in those final seconds :D And then you've got the excitement of opening up the parcel!

My daughter is 2 1/2 now, and I haven't even tried time out on her yet (as it failed miserably with her brother), what I do is count to three sternly. I very rarely make it to three, but if I do I give some sort of punishment, usually taking her away from whatever activity she is doing, but if thats not appropriate I say "You have made me really angry, I am going away now", and I go to the other side of the door and hold it closed for 30 seconds. She bangs on it and says "I'm sorry mummy, come back". Then gives me cuddles and is as good as gold again.

But different things work with different kids, for my son, bribery is my most used co-operation technique (naughty mummy!), but its the only thing that will work, seriously! Even his school did it, a few times they asked me to buy him a chocolate on the way home because they said he could have one if he behaved himself :rolleyes:
 
Thanks girls!All advice is needed really it is!
I try not to shout when hw does things, but end up screaming for him to stop....
I noticed when i say in a sad voice "oh you do that to mummy that loves you so much?im so sad now" he changes ,gives me kisses and strokes me!
Like last night before bed time,he refused to put his nappy on.I started out like "well you're putting it on like it or not",,,then continued "if you put your nappy on we'll go to the park tomorow" ...situation stayed the same...so finally i felt like just grabing him and puting the nappy on but sad "ooo mummy is so sad when you act like this,i am going to cry" and he put the nappy on...I speak in a sweet voice but really i feel im boiling in the inside!!!

So How nice to start the day with a 84,8 reading????I dont feel it today at all,no hip bone feeling,shrunk tummy,skinny attitude,nothing so i got on to see the damage!!!instead i got a nice suprise.So maybe ill be 84 by august 1st.That would be 12 kg in 3 month making it a kg a week.
I ve got to get on my bike today ot try out a dvd workout i got....I really would love to be one of those gorls that exercise is a PART of their life and just cant live without!
 
Jasper....I don't know what to tell you about your little one...kids suck at all ages!! haha....we are always wishing for the next stage or the stage in the past...but I don't know when it becomes easy...My mom said never!! and I believe her. You'll find what works for you...we all do and some how manage to keep our kids alive and somewhat happy..lol :)

Congrats on the super reading....what a nice surprise :)
 
Well done on the loss, you might not be feeling it now, but you will be feeling skinnier than ever soon! How have you done today?

If a nappy-type situation came up with lily when she wore them, and she said that she didn't want to put one on. I'd say something like, "Okay, no nappy, you can do dirty smelly wee-wees all over your bed tonight and sleep in the wet. I'm putting the nappy in the bin now, no more nappies". Then just walk away. Maybe you should try it and see if he suddenly becomes desperate to put his nappy on. :)
 
i didnt log in its seems like forever!!!!i was really running around like mad...
Yesterday i ate spaggetti with cheese.That was the only thing i had....And i felt a bit bad about out,even though i know i didnt eat enough...
Then today i had
BR Coffee and 2 koulouri and half a Mars bar....(i was feeling really nervous,i'll explain further on...:smash:)
Lunch a little of tometoe salad with 2 slices of bread////Yes i dipped it in the little oliveoil the salad had.
Dinner mini meatballs (probably equals 2 normal sized) and tomatoe salad....

Thing is i havent gone to the loo from yesterday morning...i fell bloated (2 days food and no loo!)i went on the scales tonight and i saw 85,0kg.....???i am bit nervous ... its not normal....it should show more...not that i am complaining its just strange...
Just a little gossip now,,,i really felt stupid today.
I had this idea in my silly head that my husband was flirting with this lawyer he runs around with , for our companies legal documents.So i actually told him what i think and told him that when he meets her again , i am going with him to see her.I thought she was really pretty in my mind.i never had met her...So my husband gor mad at me...had a bit of an argument...So today he had an appointment with her early in the morning.I woke my kid up,got dressed and of we all went !!!!!I felt really stupid.I mean REALLY stupid!So i met her...well she was nothing like what i thought.she was actually a little ugle,big nose big eyes and ears...a little chubby as well:sifone::sifone::sifone: and a really bad breath....
So i felt really bad...I think i have trust issues from stuff in the past...
 
Now about little people!!!i too wait for the NEXT stage hoping for better days and then think the past as better!!!My one just doesnt want to be told in a harsh way what to do , i can get my way , if i speak softly and sweet...its soo difficult to do that when i am angry at him!!!
Oh and about wee wees and stinky poop it doesnt work , he seems to just love his poop!cant seperate from it!!!and cryies when i clean him up!o well just going to have to keep trying!!
 
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