Yeah, sometimes the bullies have to be told that you're not going to stand for their nonsense anymore. Maybe talking to the nasty man is the solution here.

Em. G does not as he thinks he will be even worse, but I don't see how he can be nastier than he is already. We would have no choice if he got worse.

Our older son, D, arrived last night for dinner & said a ewe & lamb had come down our driveway & skirted around our cattle grid & was up in our garden. We went & had a quick look & saw it was a horned ewe, with a long tail, which is very unusual. We decided not to worry about them until after dinner. D headed off & G went for a walk to see what they were up to. He heard bleating, but couldn't see anything. He then found the lamb trapped underneath our cattle grid & the ewe was not in sight. He came & got me & between us we worked the lamb into a corner & extricated it. I rang D & asked him if he had seen the sheep on his way out, but he said no. I rang a neighbour & asked him if he knew anyone with horned sheep, but he said no. G & I wrapped the lamb up in a blanket so it didn't poo all over him & we then went calling on most of our near neighbours. We drove around for about an hour. It was fun actually as it took our minds off the golf club. A little newborn lamb is way more important!
Eventually, we decided to put the lamb out in the paddock in the hope that it's Mum would hear it bleating & return. We were inside only 5 minutes & then headed off for 8-ball practice. As we drove down the driveway we saw the ewe on one side of the fence & the lamb on the other. G climbed the fence & lifted the lamb over to it's Mum. The lamb latched on to Mum's teat for a while & then they took off down the road, went down our drive & headed off into the bush. We have no idea who they belong to, but we're very happy that they were reunited. It felt mean putting that little lamb out in the paddock, but we needed to give nature/nurture a chance. Phew!
Had a good day today with the women & have things a little clearer in my head about what I want to do. I have got to like most of the women & I don't want to start all over again. I think ( & I stress, this is just thinking at this stage) that I will continue with the Vets & the women & give the rest a miss. I am not going to put up with any BS. That will do for now. I had a lovely day, even with 2 meetings. I have taken on no serious positions. I agreed to be in charge of kitchen purchases.

As K said I have been doing most of this for years. I resisted lots of pressure. LaMa- I said NO!

PS. I am also going out to lunch with them on Friday, instead of participating in our weekly working bee. Win.