You have to choose your battles
One thing I have learned is that you have to choose your battles. I chose one today. I had to take a personal day to go work the area science fair. There was a team there from a school for children with special needs that had to fight to be there. There weren't supposed to be group projects, but these four students had worked together. There was a student in a wheelchair, a student who had been in a car accident and had a brain injury, another student who had some serious disabilities, and a girl who wasn't at the fair because she had a traceotomy tube and couldn't move. The project was amazing. We had 3 experts judge their project and when the dust settled they were ranked number 8 out of 70 projects. The top 10 would be going on to the all-city fair. I was videotaping the fair and they were amazing. The kid in the wheelchair named Nathan knew the project and the science behind it and he was such a smooth talker.
The problem was that because that the area science coordinator didn't want these kids to represent the area at the city and told their teacher, they couldn't go to the city fair. We gave the coordinator the score sheet and didn't identify them in anyway. When the coordinator called off the names (which I videotaped) you could tell she wasn't happy. The crowd let out a loud roar as the one boy wheeled up to accept his award. He asked for the microphone which totally took my friend by surprise, but she gave it to him. He said "Thank you all so very much. I couldn't have done it without my team". Their teacher began to ball their eyes out as did their parents. The coordinator grudgingly shook their hands.
This wasn't a pity vote. You might give those kids a good score, but you don't give them one of the top scores out of pity. They deserved to go. I think it'd be way too embarrassing and illegal to knock them out now. We'll be blamed for this, but you've got to pick your battles don't you? These kids deserved their advancement and we managed to get it for them.
I had a good day with food. I avoided the doughnuts. I had a potbelly roast beef sandwich which isn't too bad and a Chicken Caesar's Salad for dinner. I also had a light beer (after work) and an individual sized bag of doritos.