We can't do a LOT of things here !!!!!
Oh $hit! Don't you just hate that?! GGRRR...well at least you got the right amount LOLhaha,i called him and it wasnt him who was wrong it was me
i mis calculated the tiles he gave me 50 blocks of 12 ,4X4` tiles..grrr
apologies to tiles guy for ruining his reputation in the cyber space
(you made me laugh at least)
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so it was stupid idea to go to police for a fair trial
where i live it totally sucks...women are not allowed to go to police station and ask for justice
i filed the report against the contractor, police summoned him,and accepted some bribery from him..they didnt allow me to come inside and face him and give my explainations.
they made me sit outside and gave a decision in his favour without even listening to me,and they forced me to pay him 1/10th of what he was asking over a period of two months.
i contacted police which is against the culuture and values here since i was under false hope that i would be listened,all the ppl around me called me crazy to take a step like this,no one dares to go to police even if they are being humiliated or the other person have charged way too much and u need your money back or get the work done as promised.
intsread police threated me that if i pursue the guy he will file a case against me and bring a stay order to cease the construction work from teh court,and i wont be allowed to go in the court cause i am a female..and he will win the case..so police said "its wise for u to pay him what we have settled to get your ass saved from the court"..and i was like i will see him in the court then,and they said"u were not allowed to face him the police sation why would anyone allow you to follow up on your case gainst him in the court???
an di was like no matter what..i will see him in court instead of paying unlawful money,but i had to accept the deal cause my mum ,my so called husband and everyone said its wise to pay him money rather than pursuing your case..
now i have to sell everything i have to pay him the bucks ,which is totaly wrong,i am distgusted and i am humiliated
instaed of listening to me,the police man kept hitting on me,asking me a date out indirectly,and i felt so bad about myself that they treated me like a sex object..my brains mean nothing to them but my body,and if i had to win the case and get the guy(contractor) arrested or atleast held accountable for what he did i had to sleep with the police man..its all F***BS
so instaed of selling my body for teh sake of justic i gave in
and i kept wondering why its so diffeerent in here than any other place in the world atleast its not liek that in europe or america
now teh police man is coming tonight to have a tea with me:|(cause he thinks he did a favour to me)
infact he did nothing in my favour the least he could do was tell the guy that enough is enough and she wont pay not a single penny ,but he didnt,he didnt pursue my case but me
wish i could just close my eyes and when i opened i wasnt among all the crappy ppl who live here..and i wasnt in te same quage mire i am not able to get out of
ppl are mocking at me,that i thought i could win the case,and i was in a false hope that i will be treated as any american or british citizen is treated in their country..
my only weakeness is that i am FEMALE and i dont have any right to raise my voice against the unjust of society
so it was stupid idea to go to police for a fair trial
where i live it totally sucks...women are not allowed to go to police station and ask for justice
i filed the report against the contractor, police summoned him,and accepted some bribery from him..they didnt allow me to come inside and face him and give my explainations.
they made me sit outside and gave a decision in his favour without even listening to me,and they forced me to pay him 1/10th of what he was asking over a period of two months.
i contacted police which is against the culuture and values here since i was under false hope that i would be listened,all the ppl around me called me crazy to take a step like this,no one dares to go to police even if they are being humiliated or the other person have charged way too much and u need your money back or get the work done as promised.
intsread police threated me that if i pursue the guy he will file a case against me and bring a stay order to cease the construction work from teh court,and i wont be allowed to go in the court cause i am a female..and he will win the case..so police said "its wise for u to pay him what we have settled to get your ass saved from the court"..and i was like i will see him in the court then,and they said"u were not allowed to face him the police sation why would anyone allow you to follow up on your case gainst him in the court???
an di was like no matter what..i will see him in court instead of paying unlawful money,but i had to accept the deal cause my mum ,my so called husband and everyone said its wise to pay him money rather than pursuing your case..
now i have to sell everything i have to pay him the bucks ,which is totaly wrong,i am distgusted and i am humiliated
instaed of listening to me,the police man kept hitting on me,asking me a date out indirectly,and i felt so bad about myself that they treated me like a sex object..my brains mean nothing to them but my body,and if i had to win the case and get the guy(contractor) arrested or atleast held accountable for what he did i had to sleep with the police man..its all F***BS
so instaed of selling my body for teh sake of justic i gave in
and i kept wondering why its so diffeerent in here than any other place in the world atleast its not liek that in europe or america
now teh police man is coming tonight to have a tea with me:|(cause he thinks he did a favour to me)
infact he did nothing in my favour the least he could do was tell the guy that enough is enough and she wont pay not a single penny ,but he didnt,he didnt pursue my case but me
wish i could just close my eyes and when i opened i wasnt among all the crappy ppl who live here..and i wasnt in te same quage mire i am not able to get out of
ppl are mocking at me,that i thought i could win the case,and i was in a false hope that i will be treated as any american or british citizen is treated in their country..
my only weakeness is that i am FEMALE and i dont have any right to raise my voice against the unjust of society
That is a load of $h!t !!! Sadie, I used to live in a country with similar prejudism against women. And it is suffocating. You are a strong woman. I know you will weather through this. I also believe in you that someday you will take it upon you to break out of it.
"to beat your opponent in his game, you have to be better playing with the rules, not by the rules" - I read that somewhere.
Take heart and keep strong, sadie!
"to beat your opponent in his game, you have to be better playing with the rules, not by the rules" - I read that somewhere.
Take heart and keep strong, sadie!
I'm afraid that's NOT going to happen
Sadly it all sounds like it's out of a horrible movie...like a made up story...as a woman it's incomprehensible to hear there are still places like that!!! GRRR
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i wish it was all made up,but it is true ,100%
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Thanks Merciless what to sent in PM,not many ppl think the way u do
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i went to sell my jewllery and it was worth 6k USD,but they were cutting some 1000 USD for the service charges
so my landlord adviced me that instead of selling it rather pledge it in bank and get the money,so i went to a bank and i am glad that i have to pay only 500USD extra over the tenure of 12 months in 4 installments,and i can get my jewllery back after paying the amount..and i hope i will be able to pay 6000USD after one year but i will have to work my butt off to get the money and save it ,Dh was furious over my decison of not sellin the jewllery i told him that i have some emotional attachment to it,one of the necklace is his late mother`s who wished that my daugher in law wears it and never sells it,though i never met her but cant just sell it cheap ,and go against my late MILs wish..thene there are my bangles,when i bought them i know how happy i was to have them,and i wore them on several occasions,they have a place in my heart ,its not that i am fussing over material,its that i have so many good memories with them and i cant just get rid of them like that
as of police man
he called me yesterday and kept flirting over the phone and i tried to turn down his lines taking them as a joke
he is married so am i,and i found it so disturbing,he didnt come last night he will come today in the afternoon and am glad that my mom will be home with me.
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i went to sell my jewllery and it was worth 6k USD,but they were cutting some 1000 USD for the service charges
so my landlord adviced me that instead of selling it rather pledge it in bank and get the money,so i went to a bank and i am glad that i have to pay only 500USD extra over the tenure of 12 months in 4 installments,and i can get my jewllery back after paying the amount..and i hope i will be able to pay 6000USD after one year but i will have to work my butt off to get the money and save it ,Dh was furious over my decison of not sellin the jewllery i told him that i have some emotional attachment to it,one of the necklace is his late mother`s who wished that my daugher in law wears it and never sells it,though i never met her but cant just sell it cheap ,and go against my late MILs wish..thene there are my bangles,when i bought them i know how happy i was to have them,and i wore them on several occasions,they have a place in my heart ,its not that i am fussing over material,its that i have so many good memories with them and i cant just get rid of them like that
as of police man
he called me yesterday and kept flirting over the phone and i tried to turn down his lines taking them as a joke
he is married so am i,and i found it so disturbing,he didnt come last night he will come today in the afternoon and am glad that my mom will be home with me.
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Glad to hear you are at least keeping your jewelry, epecially since there is emotional attachment to it. I'm sorry Sadie, but I just keep thinking that it's unfathomable to me that your husband is ok with the whole situation. I mean isn't the money coming out of the household? Or is YOU who has to pay?
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the house is under my name since i am unemplyoed i wont have to pay property taxes(it was dhs plan)
he spent all his savings and now we are short of some 5000usd,so i have to sell the jewllery and maybe my treadmill too,since its all what we have got left
seems like my life is cursed,now i have got mums,i am in so much pain cant even open my jaws,cant eat ,went to see a dr and i am on meds now that are making me dizzy,but i have to do the household chores,take care of kid and take care of construction work too,plus i am moving my stuff in th house thats under construction,its too much of burden on me,while dh is sleeping like a baby:|,and played online games all night long
the house is under my name since i am unemplyoed i wont have to pay property taxes(it was dhs plan)
he spent all his savings and now we are short of some 5000usd,so i have to sell the jewllery and maybe my treadmill too,since its all what we have got left
seems like my life is cursed,now i have got mums,i am in so much pain cant even open my jaws,cant eat ,went to see a dr and i am on meds now that are making me dizzy,but i have to do the household chores,take care of kid and take care of construction work too,plus i am moving my stuff in th house thats under construction,its too much of burden on me,while dh is sleeping like a baby:|,and played online games all night long
whut thaa??
.. I just opened this thread for the first time and it's like pg 1. ooh look at me I'm changing my life and then skip to the last page and you're all '' ooh hell.. my life reAlly changed "...
and now you're at your mothers , have no job and 'need' 5 grand , aren't really eating and ..erm.. you're stiill confident that you're shedding inches???
how iis that going??
..funny things happen when you reeally do it..
how fast are you ordering that fire aanyway??.. if ii'm going to burn.. bring it on.. i want it as hot as fast as possible.. that way it kills me or I can get over it and on with sh*t.
sort it out girl! christ.
Blooming lotus.
.. I just opened this thread for the first time and it's like pg 1. ooh look at me I'm changing my life and then skip to the last page and you're all '' ooh hell.. my life reAlly changed "...
and now you're at your mothers , have no job and 'need' 5 grand , aren't really eating and ..erm.. you're stiill confident that you're shedding inches???
how iis that going??
..funny things happen when you reeally do it..
how fast are you ordering that fire aanyway??.. if ii'm going to burn.. bring it on.. i want it as hot as fast as possible.. that way it kills me or I can get over it and on with sh*t.
sort it out girl! christ
.Blooming lotus.
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woohoo i am postng today from my new home
its still pretty incomplete,but heck i am loving it
though almost 16 workmen are running around with their power tools
and its noisy,one of them is grinding and polishing marble floors,another is installing kitchen counters,water heater is being installed ,no washroom is in running condition,but it still feels great to be home atlast.
i am recovering from mumps,my neck and face is still swollen but pain has decresed ,its due to my mums prayers i guess,3 days a go i was in excrutiating pain and had 103 temp unable to move,and dh was demanding food when i hdnt eaten anything myself,he said enough of your dramas now get back to work and do the chores u are just trying to seek attention,and totally broke in tears he could see that was i in pretty bad shape but he doent care,he just wants himself to be treated as royalty,i called my mum and told what he said and started crying over the phone,mum wept too,and she prayed to God to gimme some peace,and believe it or not after 30 minutes i took a nap and when i woke up,i had litterally no pain or fever,it was like a miracle..i called my mum hysterically and told what just happened her prayers did what no pain killers could and my mum was so happy for me,i love my mom who is always there when i need her.
love u mom
its still pretty incomplete,but heck i am loving it
though almost 16 workmen are running around with their power tools
and its noisy,one of them is grinding and polishing marble floors,another is installing kitchen counters,water heater is being installed ,no washroom is in running condition,but it still feels great to be home atlast.
i am recovering from mumps,my neck and face is still swollen but pain has decresed ,its due to my mums prayers i guess,3 days a go i was in excrutiating pain and had 103 temp unable to move,and dh was demanding food when i hdnt eaten anything myself,he said enough of your dramas now get back to work and do the chores u are just trying to seek attention,and totally broke in tears he could see that was i in pretty bad shape but he doent care,he just wants himself to be treated as royalty,i called my mum and told what he said and started crying over the phone,mum wept too,and she prayed to God to gimme some peace,and believe it or not after 30 minutes i took a nap and when i woke up,i had litterally no pain or fever,it was like a miracle..i called my mum hysterically and told what just happened her prayers did what no pain killers could and my mum was so happy for me,i love my mom who is always there when i need her.
love u mom
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ok i am back finally
i moved in the new house its still pretty unfinished,but work is being done faster than i expected,doors are being polished,paint is grtting done,marble floors are almost polished,just cant wait for the workers to give the final touchs and get lost
dh is behaving like a big !@#$^&,he has caught minor colds and he thinks he is so sick that i should just baby sit him,but when i was so sick fightining mumps,and food posioning,he said i am naking it up to seek attention,yeserday i gathered some courage to rebel against him,he was coughing and wanted to spit,he just had the soup,i hurried outside to bring the basket and he just spat in the soup bowl and said i am lazy and cant run faster to bring him things ,i told him he could move his lazy ass to washroom,he wa furious offcourse,but i felt great that i can now speak before him,maybe its just a start to get myself out of this slavery:S
now on workouts,i am gonna do start it up today woohoo
sadie is back in groove
i moved in the new house its still pretty unfinished,but work is being done faster than i expected,doors are being polished,paint is grtting done,marble floors are almost polished,just cant wait for the workers to give the final touchs and get lost
dh is behaving like a big !@#$^&,he has caught minor colds and he thinks he is so sick that i should just baby sit him,but when i was so sick fightining mumps,and food posioning,he said i am naking it up to seek attention,yeserday i gathered some courage to rebel against him,he was coughing and wanted to spit,he just had the soup,i hurried outside to bring the basket and he just spat in the soup bowl and said i am lazy and cant run faster to bring him things ,i told him he could move his lazy ass to washroom,he wa furious offcourse,but i felt great that i can now speak before him,maybe its just a start to get myself out of this slavery:S
now on workouts,i am gonna do start it up today woohoo
sadie is back in groove