go home and toss your wife down on the kitchen table and have your way with her....
put that randiness to good use
put that randiness to good use
Always will be a fat man.........but
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go home and toss your wife down on the kitchen table and have your way with her....
put that randiness to good use
I know I am being stupid.
I have a beautiful wife at home who loves me more than anything.
I just wish other people would just notice me sometimes- that's all. I am usually not this vain, it just occured to me that is a long ass time to not be flirted with.
All human beings have a want of validation.
Being flirted with has virtually nothing to do with what you look like but by what you put out to people... I know I got flirted with more when I was almost 400lbs than now...
Look around you - people notice you... and not because you're nice to look at but because you're a nice guy (and i mean that in a good way -not a nice guys finish last condescending sort of way)
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You know damn well what i am talking about Mal. There are times when noone wants just to be acknowleged as a 'nice guy' or what have you.
I want to have to disappoint someone because I am happily married.
Actually I may need to rethink this entire conversation- I had to tell one of the guys that I play volleyball with that not only was I married I was straight.
Actually made him visably upset.
I want to have to disappoint someone because I am happily married.
Actually I may need to rethink this entire conversation- I had to tell one of the guys that I play volleyball with that not only was I married I was straight.
Actually made him visably upset.
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I totally agree with Mal here...and for what it is worth, you get flirted with here quite a bit
Bigguy
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I totally agree with Mal here...and for what it is worth, you get flirted with here quite a bit
By who????????
I am just a piece of meat here- no substance.
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By who????????
I am just a piece of meat here- no substance.
All substance, less meat --> see your pics
happily married men give off this 'vibe' - that well -makes it not worth the effort to flirt - no ROI...You know damn well what i am talking about Mal. There are times when noone wants just to be acknowleged as a 'nice guy' or what have you.
I want to have to disappoint someone because I am happily married.
Actually I may need to rethink this entire conversation- I had to tell one of the guys that I play volleyball with that not only was I married I was straight.
Actually made him visably upset.
So you're setting off someone's gaydar - fascinating
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So you're setting off someone's gaydar - fascinating
I actually was the first time to my knowledge that a gay guy showed interest in me.
If I was gay I would have been all over him. Nicest guy I know and one hell of a cook.
I had to do adouble take -i mistook the oo for oc -and thought WOW - what kind of volleyball do you play?
YEE_ HAW!!!
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Damn you Mal.
Now i woke up my wife.....
We play naked, swinging volleyball of course.
- doesn't everyone?'oo' for 'oc'- awesome- thanks, you gave me a great laugh to end my day.
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* disclaimer- all views expressed in this rant are contradictory to all advise given by Bigguy on this board.*
So I know I was trying to get away from weighing myself as often as I was but I just have not been able to totally get away from it.
I really think my scale is broken in some way. I weighed myself this morning and I was 225.5. I like the weight but why the hell has it not gone down? There is no way that I am breaking even with calories- no way. I know it is just a number, I know I look decent, I know clothes are fitting better,I know my stamina and strength are at all time highs- but I want the freaking number!!!
I do not want to go back to counting all the frickin calories again and writing down every single little frickin thing. I eat well and in reasonable portions- what the hell is going on?
I change my damn cardio routine all the time- I never really allow my body to settle into a 'routine'. I run 20+ miles a week, I play volleyball once a week, I WT 3-4 times a week. I am doing yard work now and all this and still I cannot get the damn number to move!!
I am one more 225 from giving up all this and just trying to live healthy but not giving a crap about anything else!
I do not know why I am hung up on 210. I want to reach 210. I wanted to be 34 and be 210. 34 is in 4 weeks- not going to happen.
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Resume normal programming.
So I know I was trying to get away from weighing myself as often as I was but I just have not been able to totally get away from it.
I really think my scale is broken in some way. I weighed myself this morning and I was 225.5. I like the weight but why the hell has it not gone down? There is no way that I am breaking even with calories- no way. I know it is just a number, I know I look decent, I know clothes are fitting better,I know my stamina and strength are at all time highs- but I want the freaking number!!!
I do not want to go back to counting all the frickin calories again and writing down every single little frickin thing. I eat well and in reasonable portions- what the hell is going on?
I change my damn cardio routine all the time- I never really allow my body to settle into a 'routine'. I run 20+ miles a week, I play volleyball once a week, I WT 3-4 times a week. I am doing yard work now and all this and still I cannot get the damn number to move!!
I am one more 225 from giving up all this and just trying to live healthy but not giving a crap about anything else!
I do not know why I am hung up on 210. I want to reach 210. I wanted to be 34 and be 210. 34 is in 4 weeks- not going to happen.
- sorry about that-
Resume normal programming.
well yo don't have to thank me - hope you had some fun with herDamn you Mal.
Now i woke up my wife.....
I need to get out more clearly...We play naked, swinging volleyball of course.
you're gonna be 34 for a full year... you've got plenty of time to get to 210...
When is the last time you took a "break" from your routine? maybe that's what you need - eat at maintenace for a while -then cut back..
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Brian...have you been measuring dear? I am telling you FROM MY OWN PERSONAL EXPERIENCE that in the time it took my body to register a two pound weight loss I lost almost 4 inches off my waist.
With that sort of change, I almost could give two shits what the scale says.
Reread the Scale Mentality immediately.
We have been there so I know where you are coming from. Try using another approach to measure your progress. You look great - the pics don't lie.
I hate throwing questions his way.... but steve's answered this countless times-- that when a person is plateaued - a potential solution is to take a break from the routine - eat at maintenance for a bit -then cut back again - you might gain a little poundage wise - but the long term effect -will be the weight starts to come off again at a reasonable pace.
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No I have not been measuring. I am a big do as I say not as I do kind of guy...
I really need to do that tomorrow morning- I do know my waist on Monday was 39.5, lowest ever.
I know the scale mentality- really I do. I know that in principle the number means nothing- yet if most people who say that were asked honestly I really think they would say that it matters to them.
I am just frustrated with weight this morning. I am all jiggly in the middle- I know this is a good sign but it really is frustrating- and I really thought there would be a change with the scale.
*sigh*
*double sigh*
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