my body can't cope with the lactose (sorry I am to lazy to google for the englisch word for laktoseintoleranz...I am quite sure it is somehow the same...however, hope you got my point?

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Can't you involve the children in the belly dance thing?
well even though I fell sick NO matter what I eat I have noticed I fell really really sick after eating cereal! So who knows maybe I am lactose intolerant. I never drink milk just to drink it either but just I guess is only because. .well I don't really know why.
You are too funny I understand what you are saying completely. I love how your accent comes out in your posts too!
Yes, I can involve the kids in the belly dance but ya see my problem would be that I have 3 sons they are 10, 9, and 7 years old and a baby girl who is 16 months old.. .well, we don't live in a very big place (I have tried this once before and was thinking of it last night) When I have gotten them to work out with me they turn it in to this huge brawling match I mean it is fun but crazy when you just want to get a good workout in. with the baby it's not such a big deal I just put her down for a nap and do it. No big deal though the kids had a friend spend the night last night so they are all over the place so I am going to do it later on tonight.
My trick is to eat about one hour/45 mins after I get up; First thing, I have a cup of tea, my stomach is OK with that. Then 1 hr/45 mins later, I'll eat - always adding protein because that really helps with hunger pangs later on.
That is a good idea. . I don't know I have always heard that eating with in an hour of waking up is actually the best thing for your body. I have also hear that eating after a workout is better because you burn more calories for up to an hour or something after your workout.
I was just thinking about it this morning but when I first started here I was into the juicing and drinking that every morning and I did fine with that BUT I started to feel that that was not the rite way to go. .maybe it is for me I don't know maybe at least until I can feel good after eating. With the juice I sipped on it for a while so it wasn't like I ate in 15-20 minutes and was done. .I sipped on it for a good hour sometimes hour in a half.
I may try to eat hard boiled eggs too and see how that works (or would that be worse)??
I wonder too if because I haven't eaten breakfast in. . .? I think about 7 years that my body just needs to get used to it. I guess I could try to just do a little tiny bit at a time and go form there.
I am still not doing so well with the whole lunch thing also. .I have been eating fruit for lunch but I don't eat anything else in like carbs or protein but I am working my way there. . hm. . .wonder if after I get there with lunch I can work on the breakfast thing. .kinda going backwards I guess. .lol..
Thank you guys for your suggestions.
I really do need to figure this out and value your input!!