okay so keeping in mind i am of the female gender i need some guidance in strength training. i am going thru school to be a paramedic and need to be able to lift some substantial weight. i'm 115lbs and 5' 3". i can bench(on machine) 100lbs 10 reps, 2 sets but would like this to be easier. i can lift my 190lbs patient with 35lbs stretcher and equipment with a good partner. again would like to make it an easy thing. so i am in decent shape but need to be in top shape in Feburary. thats when we have our fit tests. i workout mostly at home(have 2 boys under 5yrs) and i live with no other adults, so have a bench and free weights etc. but not sure what to do to improve the muscle strentgh i do have. the womens site not so helpful so i'm hoping the men in this site will help and not assume i'm weak. any advice is greatly appreciated.. 