After losing one child, my biggest fear in the world is to ever have to go through that again. I don't know if there is anything in the world that can destroy you in that way. I've been through alot in my life, but you can add up every bad thing that's ever happened to me and it will not come close to that one minute of time on January 25, 2000. That one minute changed my entire life and almost ended it. I hope your friend's strong religious background will help her to make it through this. I'm praying for you all!