Hey things might work out. You should be more optimistic! Don't borrow trouble!! You a great guy maybe she'll want to change to make you happy. If she don't she sucks and wasn't worth you anyway!!
I'm a realist, not a pessimist. I don't really need a good outlook in this case - other than acknowledging this whole event changed my world and not necessarily for the better. Don't get me wrong Mechelle, I had lots of fun - in fact too much fun and that's where the problem lies.
She showcased me and it was a complete ego stroke, no denying. I just wasn't into the 'every night' thing especially when drinking is involved. Somethings are deadlier than obesity. I'm more content that we bounce off of each other now, move on and just smile about it. It feels like the right path for me to take presently.
Great hike! What an excellent decison, staying home instead of drinking beer--that's hard to do, trust me I had a beer at home last night! LOL!
Wow I didn't know you had a GF!
hehe, thx Val. I actually have beer here in the fridge but I rarely drink here at home alone. The staying home part was hard. I jingled the keys a few times last night. Tonight has been much easier, I had another good walk, ate well, feeling thin and a bit tired.
Mechelle's right....but people never change for each other, I don't think. Or seldom, if ever.
Yeah, I was an opportunist, not so much a 'changer'. I was totally ga ga having a sexy woman at my side for 2 months. I put myself in a place I wanted to be. Now I'm pulling out - no change necessary
And perhaps they shouldn't. Habits can change and such. But if people rarely change.
Why have you not told us more about this "gf" before???
I agree totally, Sunny. I'm trading one new bad habit for one old good habit.
My 'gf' wasn't forum-worthy IMO. You all woulda whipped me senseless had I told certain parts my lack of eating for drinking. I was selfish. I wanted both worlds. Now I can only have one.
