You should know that no style is good for defense. Every style has a weakness.
shame on you....just kidding

Have you ever heard of DT?
The key to self defense is not to inflict harm on your opponent. The trick is to get away. Harming requires you to remain in one place until the harm comes into effect. If you're looking to harm people who attack you, then you're learning nothing. Self-defense requires sudden attacks that debilitates your opponent long enough for you to run away.
Yes, and no. I agree they teach that you want to be able to inflict enough harm to get away, but it also depends on what sort of danger you are incurring. There may be times when an all out "it's them or me" mentality is in order and that requires that you can basically kick the sh*t out of someone so they can no longer do you harm
"I'm in fear of my life" times.
the legal definition is:
Self defense is the action by which a person protects himself from any bodily harm arising out of an encounters or attacks from other person either by protecting him or by blocking the opponents advancement by a counter attack.
I may seem a bit extreme, but I have had my share of bad scares. I use to live in a big city and I fought off a rapist, I have been stalked (by someone I didn't even know and was thought to be an armed robber by the police for 7 months), mugged at knife point, came face to face with an armed robber as he exited the bank, and been shot at to name a few. In a couple of those situations, I would have used lethal force if it had been an option and I would have been justified.
A well placed kick in the groin has been known to cause women and men to scream in pain on the ground for several minutes. A well place poke in the eye has been know to blind and stagger someone long for several minutes.
Definitely some good tactics.....
In all, remember, never go on the ground, never try to harm your opponent, and keep as much distance as you can from yourself and your opponent, and try to determine what your opponent is about to do.
Two very good points, but again I disagree, I will do harm if the situation calls for it. I'm not going to try and figure out what they want, if they advance all bets are off.
I'm sure my view is a bit warped. I hear about the criminal element of our society everyday, and have to deal with the chance my husband may not come home from work one night. I have no tolerance for criminals.
It's like I tell my husband, if someone breaks into my house, first I'll send the Rottweilers after them, then they'll be looking down the barrel of my shotgun and hear "take one step towards me and you're dead" and if they do, it will be the last thing they hear, I'm a great shot
