Starting back up again...before pics and a motivational pic

[maleficent]

ramble on...

we don't know you here - yet -and I do hope you stick around - but - unless you've got a slew of dead kitties in the basement that you've yortured, you deserve to be treated so much better than he's treating you... you deserve to be treated with respect....

Doesn't matter what you're used to - heck we can get used to a lot of things doesn't make it right or healthy for us - I'm used to a mother who constantly told me I wasn't as good as my sister - doesnt mean I want that in a mate...

You deserve someone who will love you for who you are, and because you make them want to be a better person - if he wants the laundry done, he can hire a maid or go live with his mother... :meow:

 

[onmyway]

wow, if he's not happy with that, he won't be happy with anything. Get a new man, you could take your pick!

 

[Ironman2]

Thank you very much.
I'm not sure what to do with him and I've had a few people say that "you need to train him" but I guess I'm not good at that~

Thats pretty bad relationship advice. Only a idiot thinks you can train/change anyone. You can't. People need to accept one another for who they are. If they can't they need to move on and find someone else.

I honestly think you look pretty good right now as you sit. It seems your body type collects more down low. Thats fine everyones body shape is different. Im not crazy enough for instance to think im ever gonna look like a shirtless men's fitness model either. So I dont think you should strive to be something you aren't. Look for the best body type you can get. Be happy with how you look in your own skin. If you don't you will be a very unhappy person.

Also there needs to be a level of civility and compassion in a relationship. As a fit guy I want a fit girlfriend there is nothing wrong with that but, if you are with a guy who makes you feel bad about being you i'd suggest a new mate who encourages you to be better than you are. Not try and make you into something you aren't. Sounds like because he is so tiny he wants his women to be. No guy likes being small its called "little man syndrome". Sounds like he's got it bad. Maybe he should date a girl thats 4"8 and 95lbs.

You need to find you a big real man who loves a women with curves.

Btw im 6"1 194lbs and 7%BF my # is 972-$%$#@% hahaha.

I hope you take my advice to heart sweety. Your cute. Ditch the dork.

 

[bail8gent]

Love the bikini!!!

Thats pretty bad relationship advice. Only a idiot thinks you can train/change anyone. You can't. People need to accept one another for who they are. If they can't they need to move on and find someone else.

I honestly think you look pretty good right now as you sit. It seems your body type collects more down low. Thats fine everyones body shape is different. Im not crazy enough for instance to think im ever gonna look like a shirtless men's fitness model either. So I dont think you should strive to be something you aren't. Look for the best body type you can get. Be happy with how you look in your own skin. If you don't you will be a very unhappy person.

Also there needs to be a level of civility and compassion in a relationship. As a fit guy I want a fit girlfriend there is nothing wrong with that but, if you are with a guy who makes you feel bad about being you i'd suggest a new mate who encourages you to be better than you are. Not try and make you into something you aren't. Sounds like because he is so tiny he wants his women to be. No guy likes being small its called "little man syndrome". Sounds like he's got it bad. Maybe he should date a girl thats 4"8 and 95lbs.

You need to find you a big real man who loves a women with curves.

Btw im 6"1 194lbs and 7%BF my # is 972-$%$#@% hahaha.

I hope you take my advice to heart sweety. Your cute. Ditch the dork.

Like Ironman stated above, I totally agree with... he gave you GREAT ADVICE!!! Ditch the dork. LoL but call me instead 443-***-%#!/ just kidding! You look FANTASTIC but you need to feel good in your own skin and comfortable with your own body image and not what you see on TV or the movies most of the celeberties have trainers, and nutrionists and personal chefs this is not normalcy for most of us. sorry for rambling..... Great job so far!