Skyler's new diary

You may have posted this info before but I'm curious about a couple of things..... How tall are you? What's size is your frame (small, medium, large)? Do you know what your bodyfat % is AND what are your measurements (chest, waist, hips)? Knowing your stats will give me a mental picture and maybe I'll know better what to suggest to you. :)
 
hey paula,
okay, i'll try as i don't know for sure but the easy ones first..i'm 29 yrs old, 5'5'', and weigh 141 currently. i'd say my frame is pretty medium. my chest is large and i have skinny chicken legs/butt. all the weight i gained was in my belly mostly and chest/arms. i THINK my measurements are about: chest-36, waist-30 (jeans are 29), hips- 33 maybe?. clothes size - i wear a large top due to my chest and pants used to always be a size 4 and then i creeped into 6 land and now i am bordering 4-6 (depending on the store)...you wouldn't look at me and say 'heavy' persay, as i work out often and i'm thinking (i havent had it tested in a while) that my bodyfat % is about 20ish? I am muscular for the most part...pretty strong... and just have this layer of fat :( over my arms, chest, belly....i guess i'm saying that if you were to look at me, you'd say that i looked fine, HOWEVER, i was always around 128 and then i had a HARD year, creeped up to 158 & have now been trying to get myself back down to that state. mostly b/c my arms/chest have gotten chubby, my face got chubby, but i think alot of that left with the first 15 lbs gone and i would like to rid that extra spare tire around my lower belly..i exercise frequently as i always have...i'd say at minimum 4 times a week cardio, but i try for 5, probably should do 6, and weight training with free weights or band/ball one day a week and pilates, intermediate to advanced (with machines) twice per week. i ve always eaten healthy as well, very balanced, non junk food, not fried,etc. lots of salads, chicken, fish (broiled), baked potato,etc. my family is very healthy so i grew up that way. i did live in new orleans for 10 years and the amount of liquor consumed was NOT healthy which i believe started this weight gain....
YOUR HELP WOULD BE AWESOME as i know dana told me you know what's up! ;)

so, those are my stats, sorry if they aren't very accurate...help is GREATLY appreciated. my wedding is june and i'd love to feel back to below 130 before that day!
 
so, this weekend has not been good for me so far...or i'd say just yesterday. thank goodness i had pilates set for the morning or i would have felt really yucky. it was my grandmother's 83rd bday. normally, you'd say that was great but my FH and I picked her up from the nursing home (she has cancer everywhere and has defied all odds for about 2 yrs now) and went to my aunt/uncles house. they got chinese food. i dont think you can ever do great while watching your food on chinese food. however, luckily, it wasnt very good for some reason and that helped. i did have a few of those chicken wings (oops!) and then tried to stick to the chicken & broccoli and not the fried pieces or the cake/desserts, which i had none. so, i guess after writing it all down, it wasnt as bad as i thought...however, i did have a few beers with the family. back to the drawing board today. there is a HUGE snowstorm coming down so i am lucky enough to be staying at my parents' house as they are out of town and we are dog sitting/house sitting and she has a treadmill in the basement so i am going to hit that for some time in a little bit.

i know you are supposed to change your exercise routine with intervals/duration, etc. and also mode....is elliptical and treadmill too similar to act as 'changing the exercises'? anybody know?

thanks..hope everyone is having a great weekend.
s
 
hey skyler

every successful weight loss attempt(i say attempt because I feel it could have been maintained and wasnt) anyway..each one, I had times to splurge. And every time, I steadily lost weight. In fact My body tends to like to lose about 10 pounds a month. But if I couldnt have my cheat times...Id never be as successful at this.

moral of the story? One high cal day doesnt mean much. in the scheme of things, if we remember that its ninety percent hard work and ten percent splurges, parties, get togethers and all..because thats how life is..then the weight is going to come off. the weight stops coming off when we quit giving a damn. i really am coming to believe that. That the parties and funtimes will always happen to us. That these OUGHT to be enjoyed! Most of the time we are good, we do what we know is right, so without occasional enjoyment, life would be drudgery. So at least for me, I try to incorporate the fun with the routine!
 
thanks kate. you are right. it totally needs to be part of the 'lifestyle' changes and parties & celebrations just don't go away. thanks for pointing that all out...

today has been fine. i am stuck at home due to LOTS of snow, but i just got off the treadmill for 45 minutes and that felt great.

off to get some more aqua into my system and something to eat :).

S
 
Good morning Sklyer,
Just wanted to check in and let you know I got your post. I apologize for not getting back to you this weekend but I had a rental that I had to paint and get ready for carpet coming this morning and I'm running a little tight on time this morning but I'll definitely be back this afternoon to see what I can suggest to you. Keep your chin up girl, we'll get ya through this and you'll be an amazingly slim and beautiful June bride! :D
 
thanks guys...eager for suggestions :). so excited that yall are so willing to help!!

not much to report yet today, so i'll write back later. yesterday was a good day as i got some good quality run in on the treadmill as i watched teh snow fall outside. otherwise..pretty quiet and getting back into 'work mode' for this week..

S
 
skyler said:
thanks guys...eager for suggestions :). so excited that yall are so willing to help!!

not much to report yet today, so i'll write back later. yesterday was a good day as i got some good quality run in on the treadmill as i watched teh snow fall outside. otherwise..pretty quiet and getting back into 'work mode' for this week..

S

Morning Skyler! :) Of course we are all eager to give you suggestions! :) We all are in the same boat! :D And we're going to get you where you want to be, by golly, we are!! :) Plus I think.. the fact that Paula and I are also getting married in June, doesn't hurt our motivation any!! ;) So.. maybe this new working out on the treadmill for now will give your body a little shake up! Something diff. than the ellipitical!
 
Okay Skyler,
I'm attaching a paper for you. I want you to help me determine your body type. As you assess yourself in the mirror, note how your body weight is distributed. Then check the descriptions given. Choose the frame that best approximates your present shape, then let me know which one you think it is. :)
 
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Okay I have a book (credited at the end of this post) that I used with all my PT clients and saw great results with. So I'm going to give you the information I would give you if you were on of my PT Clients. :) If you are interested in my dieting suggestions, please let me know.
You said that you feel you are a T-frame:
The T-frame has slender legs and hips, coupled with an amply endowed upper body and has great shape training potential. All you have to do is tighten upper body trouble spots and recontour your lower body so that it's a little curvier. Achieving both goals will shift your proportions so that you're less top loaded. You can do it with the right exercise methods and fat-burning aerobics.
Besides appearance, there are significant reasons to pare down if you're a T with too much on top. Upper body fat is a risk factor for hormone related cancers such as breast cancer, as well as for heart disease. In contrast, having a stron, well developed upper body enables you to accomplish day to day tasks. If you participate in a sport, you have the stamina and power to throw farther, swing harder, hit more powerfully. Upper body strength even helps if you're a runner; the faster you can move your arms, the faster you can run. A strong upper body protects you against potential athletic injuries, particularly in your shoulders and back. Getting stronger can even alleviate everyday aches and pains, such as lower back problems, caused by muscular weakness.
To reshape your upper body, you'll use a technique known as supersets. Basically, these are combinations of two different exercises for the same muscle, performed on right after the other with no rest in between.
This kind of trainin, particularly when performed with high reps and moderate weights, increases muscle tone. Supersets also enhance the fat burning process, since the exercises are to be performed in rapid succession.
Another advantage of supersets is that they're time efficient. With supersets, you do more work but in less time. That's always a plus for today's on the go exercisers.
You'll definitely feel a burn in your muscles when you use supersets. This method of exercising produces a significant amount of waste products, namely lactic acid, in the muscle. The buildup of lactic acid causes the burning feeling and results from a lack of oxygen in the working muscles. The burn subsides during your rest breaks, when oxygen is resupplied to your muscles. The more fit you become, the longer you can exercise before experiencing the burn.
At the end of this post, I will attach a list of sure shapers for your upper body as well as some exercises for your lower body. If you do not know what some of these exercises are or you do not have the equipment to do them, let me know and I'll explain the exercise or suggest a substitution.
Now to the cardio! Fat loss is an issue for many T-frames. If you need to she body fat, I suggest you try to fit in four to five aerobic sessions a week for some extra calorie burning. You can do these following your upper body and lower body workouts. There's a fat burning advantage in this as well: By the time you've finished your shape training workout, you've used up plenty of stored carbohydrate in your muscles. This forces your body to start burning fat for fuel once you start performing aerobics. By doing cardio after shape training, you make the switch to fat metabolism much faster and get leaner as a result.
Good aerobic (cardio) choices for T-frames are ones that use the large muscles of the body, particularly if you want to burn body fat. Here are some examples:
Stair Climbing, Stationary Cycling, Cross-country machine, Weighted walking, rowing machine.
Okay, your routine is a four day split. You concentrate on upper body toning on Monday and Thursday, lower body building on Tuesday and Friday. Try to do your cardio on those four days as well and include a fifth cardio workout on Saturday.
Remember when training your upper body you are going to do the two exercises listed together one right after the other with no rest in between.

*All information taken from "Shape Training, The 8-week Total Body Makeover" by Robert Kennedy and Maggie Greenwood-Robinson
 
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So I'm going to give you the information I would give you if you were on of my PT Clients.

paula!!! you are awesome!! I'm psyched to try this. I am going to start tonight. Question though - cardio for T frame - use large muscle groups - would running and elliptical fall into those categories??

also, How much weight do you recommend as I see it says to increase on 2nd superset? enough to feel it burning by the end of each superset?

i am familiar with all exercises except "rear lateral raise" - help, here, please? (like you haven't done enough!!)

thank you so much.
this is beyond awesome and so much appreciated. i can't wait to show you results!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
skyler said:
paula!!! you are awesome!! I'm psyched to try this. I am going to start tonight. Question though - cardio for T frame - use large muscle groups - would running and elliptical fall into those categories??

also, How much weight do you recommend as I see it says to increase on 2nd superset? enough to feel it burning by the end of each superset?

i am familiar with all exercises except "rear lateral raise" - help, here, please? (like you haven't done enough!!)

thank you so much.
this is beyond awesome and so much appreciated. i can't wait to show you results!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
It's my pleasure and I can't wait to see your results either!

Elliptical would be a great exercise but I wouldn't recommend running just cuz this is something I would suggest to someone trying to lean out their bottom half. Elliptical will actually help you build your legs a little to match your upper body. So elliptical, yes; running, no.

As for the weight on the supersets, if you use five pounds for the first set, use eight for the next. If you use eight, up it to ten; ten, up it to twelve; twelve, up it to fifteen... You want to be able to complete the recommended reps but if you can do more (17 instead of 15 for example) I would increase the weight. Definitely want a good burn during both exercises in each superset cuz this will lean you out and give you great definition!

Okay, picture attached of the rear lateral raise (bottom pic)!

Give me an example of a typical day on your current diet.
 
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interesting b/c i've always been a runner. BUT, positively, i recently bot an elliptical (with arms) so hopefully that will help do the trick. i am totally top heavy, like you said.

typical diet:
breakfast: yogurt or eggs
lunch: salad with tuna or tofu OR soup OR sushi
snack: apple or kashi bar or nuts
dinner: lean cuisine & broccoli OR shrimp stir fry OR salad, sweet potato and chicken

something like that...i'd say is about average (trading in and out similar foods but that would be a general idea of a day).

thanks!!!!
 
today was not a bad day. yogurt for breakfast, sushi rolls (2) for lunch, shrimp (steamed) and broccoli for dinner...and a handful of almonds :). i am WAY behind on the water, so I better get drinkin' some...i am still house sitting and the options for exercise are a treadmill and weights. i am going to do some weight training (per paula's recommendations) and a little work on the treadmill to get some cardio in. i am exhausted, but hopefully it will just spark some energy once i get going. i hope so!
 
okay, just completed upper body supersets and 25 minutes walking 4.2 speed, 3.5 uphill grade with ankle weights. hoping that will 'change it up'. also got 24 oz water in so i'm getting there with the refreshments :). hope everyone is having a great night.
 
Hey girl, I haven't forgotten about the diet suggestions. Just trying to fit everything in. Good to see you did your workout last night! So, am I right in thinking that you weren't doing any weight training before I suggested it?
 
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