That is some impressive weight loss you've had, Sam!
Judging by your avi, I would think you wouldn't have any trouble meeting nice, hot men like yourself.

Of course, Salt Lake City is probably not the best place in the country to be gay. Ever thought about moving?
I'm sorry you had to hear some ignorant ass give you shit. It really pisses me off that in this day and age, so many people have heads full of moronic ideas regarding gays.

I live in a fairly conservative area, so I hear it a lot. I can rarely remain silent in the face of anti-gay talk. I've had too many gay friends to put up with it. In fact, my SIL is a lesbian. It is hard to let negativity like that roll off you like water on a duck's back, but I hope you don't let it get to you too much.
Oooh, kareoke! I had to sing far too much of that when I lived in Korea to ever want to do that again! I, too, would have to be pretty liquored up! In Korea everyone else was drunk so it didn't matter how bad I sounded.

You are lucky you had good singers. I always tend to hear lousy ones that make you feel sorry for them--and sorry for yourself for being subjected to their bad singing.

My last kareoke experience consisted mainly of drunk rednecks singing country.

It was very amusing.
Have a great Tuesday!