Pequin Weight Journal

Hey! Pequin, Glad you are feeling better!:) Don't want to put my nose where it don't belong,but here goes anyway. Don't open the door.:eek: He might think that the open door is a invite.:eek: That you are still thinking about him.:p Just ignore any e-mail. As long as you talk to him, he will think that the door is still open! I'm happy that you found Mr.Giggles.;)
 
Hey Amy,

The email from your X sounds a little creepy. I don't think there is anything wrong with being blunt. Maybe he will take the hint.

Hope your cold is gone soon. Mine is holding on. Still a lot of rattling in the chest. Nice Christmas present from my son.

Get out for a nice walk, but don't push yourself to hard or you'll just feel like crap. Too hard when sick, always sets me back.

Jenn
 
Im with Red_dog, i avoid my X's with a passion. I know that by talking to them or anything at all its just gonna open up another can of worms i dont really wanna look at.

I guess its 10x worse because i have kids to him and the custody crap, but yeah its honestly easier to ignore him.

Maybe with any luck he will come around in 6months when you've lost all your weight and you can laugh at his face dropping lol.
 
Thanks for the advice everyone, I appriciate it.
His 2nd email, complaining about my bluntness & wanting his crap back, was met with a different version of the first email: "Indeed, I realise that I was a bit blunt. But that's how I feel. I am moving on with my life."

Two lines and a signature, that's it. I just didn't like myself when I was with him. I've got Giggles (sweet, smart, funny, HOT), I'm getting my health together, I'm trying to get my career started, my spirtuallity is developing... what else is there?? No. I'm in a good place right now and he WILL NOT trash it. :cool:
 
There ya go! It is definitely time to move on then if you're so much better without him. Gawd, I know it can be hard though, its sometimes so much easier to want negativity in your life, rather than the positive, at least that's how I feel. But that's in the past, and positive stuff is sooo much better. :) You're doing so good girlie, keep it going!!
 
I wish I had more to offer than just an atta girl... well done to you for taking care of you.. and doing what works... :D pat yourself on the back
 
pequin said:
So I got an email from the X yesterday, apparently he searched my name on myspace, went through 32 pages of results to find me, then sent an email to me letting me know he had done all of this and then let me know that he knows I'm in a relationship...

Giggles seems to think it was a pretty benign email but I know if I give the X an entry - he'll take it. For years he was emotionally abusive & very controlling. It's an interesting feeling to have the upper hand. I feel like a complete bitch for blowing him off like that but is there really a nice way to say 'go to hell'??
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Unfortunately there isnt , LOL...Ive tried everyway with the X and it just dont happen...your right some people just dont get it or give up...and then cuz we say it...go to hell we are the bitches...LOL...good for you and your strength, I hope when my X comes around agian that I can have that strength I want...
 
Way to go pequin!! I am SUPER proud of you! I swear it must be the placement of the moon or something. My X has the nerve to come with this same BS!!! No way am I having it. No way am I giving up my Mr. Tender Eyes for him to treat me like crap again! They must think we're crazy! You go girl! *Hi Five* (It does feel so good to know that they no longer have the power over you anymore, doesn't it?!)
 
you go girl - im sure you're smart enough to figure out whats right for you.

And good on you for nabbing a hot guy :D
 
WOW! Great! Letting go of the past and facing the future! (haha watchnight service sermon). Gona be a fantastic new year for ya!
 
Holy Moly – where did this week go?? Weigh in tomorrow. I don’t know why but Friday always sneaks up on me. I didn't drink nearly enough water this week and I know my exercise has been limited by this cold. Lets hope I haven't done too much damage. :eek:

Rainy day today - normally I would walk anyway but with this cold I just wasn't going to chance bronchitis. Giggles is scared enough to kiss me with a cold let alone hacking up a lung... lol. Hopefully tomorrow will be clear and sunny so that I can get a good 2 miles in before the weekend.



Thanks again for all your support regarding the thing with the X, I guess I just needed to vent a bit. It makes me feel better knowing that others understand my decision. I'm slowly realizing how nice it is to be happy with myself. Sure I've got Giggles and I'm am jumping up and down happy to have such a great guy in my life... but it doesn't define me. I couldn't say that with the X.

And CFL - I can totally relate to that:
Gawd, I know it can be hard though, its sometimes so much easier to want negativity in your life, rather than the positive, at least that's how I feel.
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It's soo much easier to let the negative in because it just sticks with you. (I think it has to do with basic animal instinct, snakes bite = avoid snakes!)

It's silly, but my biggest fear is to become one of those train wreck people who make the same decisions over and over expecting a different outcome. Who are genuinely surprised when they get the same results as before. And then I get stuck in a worry cycle. The downfall of being an introspective person. :rolleyes:

Sometimes that negativity has sooo much power, but only if you let it.


Food & Activity
Breakfast: soup, cole slaw
Lunch: 1 apple, wheat thins, 1.5 oz cheese
Snack: hot chocolate
Supper: spaghetti with meat sauce & cheese

Totals:
Calories (Goal 1640 - 1990): 1,593
Carbs (Goal 184 - 323): 169
Fat (Goal 36 - 77): 75
Protein (Goal 41 - 174): 57

Water (Goal 80 - 104oz): 40oz
Exercise:
10 minutes cardio DVD
50 crunches
50 bicep curls
40 tricep curls
40 chin curls
 
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Hy there hot pepper!!!
yeah ex are called ex's for a reason their ex's....no longer...gone...done...ect!!!
and a guy should add to your life....not own it or define it or make it nonexistent.....just make you happier......you sound like ya know where you wanna go and so i won't lecture you!!!!
keep up the great work and hope the crud is outta your lungs soon girl!!!
later gator.....STAR
 
Hey girlie, have a great day! TGIF! Friday didn't sneak up on me, I had a 4 day week and Friday was STILL too long getting here! :rolleyes:
 
Hi Amy! Just wanted to say thanks for posting the running map link...I never tried it because I didn't think my dinky little town would be on there, but it is!!! So cool! :) :)
 
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Just because I haven't done this in awhile.
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Oh I do love that dancing pepper!!! *dances with pepper* :D:D:D

dariqueen said:
Hi Amy! Just wanted to say thanks for posting the running map link...I never tried it because I didn't think my dinky little town would be on there, but it is!!! So cool! :) :)
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Runningmap.com is the shit isn't it!


Thanks everyone for stopping by!! :D:D
Weigh in day...

Last week: 288.5
This Week: 285

-3.5lb.. woohoo!!! View attachment 2242

Going job hunting later today - wish me luck!
 
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