On my way to 63kgs

Had a nice thing happen today. At the end of last summer my neighbours daughter arrived in a beautiful green dress which I told her that I loved and wished that I was slim enough to wear. This morning she brought the dress round to me and told me that she remembered how much I like it and wanted me to have it now that I was slim enough to wear it. It fit beautifully and I haven't taken the smile off my face all day because of the lovely gesture. :)
 
Hey Val, you are really walking the "path" in style, and it is obvious to me that
your spiritual growth is a big part of your life now.

This internal reality is producing amazing results in your external life, and I am
really happy for you and the people that you come in contact with, because
everyone benefits from your consciousness, obviously including you.

My wife returns tomorrow from vacation, and because of that I will not be in
here that often, but I will be lurking in the background and definitely checking
your progress, and saying hi, once in a while.

This forum stuff is a bit addictive, and I do have an addictive personality..lol,
this is why I must always focus on doing everything in moderation.

When my wife is not on vacation, I work on a daily basis, even Saturday and
Sunday, because I love what I do. In the future, I will start my own blog,
and will share everything that I learned in the last 26 years about
self-awareness and in the last 16 years about fat loss with the world for free,
because as I see, many folks are having a difficult time losing weight.

Obviously, you are not one of them, and seem to have taken your awareness
to another level...lol...and I feel so much joy reading the goods things that
are happening in your life, it makes tears come out of my eyes and makes
me feel real joy inside.

These small things you describe in the last two posts are special and most
precious, and even though some people might not notice this, I do, and am
really, really proud of you.

I am glad that I met you in here, and will talk to you later!
 
Thank you so much for your lovely words Alex. I too have an addictive or obsessive personality and get very addicted to forums. Really glad to have met you here also and hope that you will pop in from time to time. I am finding it quite therapuetic to write things down so will continue even if nobody reads it :)
Let me know if you start a blog as I will be really interested in reading it.
Good luck and happiness to you whatever you do.
Val x
 
I developed a really bad throat last night. Was quite relieved as I have been feeling pretty lethargic the last couple of days and now I realize that it was because I was coming down with an illness.
Hope I'm ok for the 'Walk for Life' tomorrow although I'm determined to go however I feel. I'll go out for a long walk later today as it makes you feel much better than laying around feeling sorry for yourself
 
I developed a really bad throat last night. Was quite relieved as I have been feeling pretty lethargic the last couple of days and now I realize that it was because I was coming down with an illness.
Hope I'm ok for the 'Walk for Life' tomorrow although I'm determined to go however I feel. I'll go out for a long walk later today as it makes you feel much better than laying around feeling sorry for yourself

I hope that you are feeling better and were able to do the walk today.

It's too much of a shame if you're at home with a bad sore throat. If you are, I do hope you are taking good care of yourself.
 
Well I did the charity walk but it was a bit frustrating as I have got used to walking quite fast without stopping and losing my rythm but we had a police escort with us and everytime we got to a road they made us stop and wait for the others to catch up before we crossed, which was sometimes 10 minutes. It was a lot of fun though as we sang and danced while we waited.
I walked with my weight watchers group and we were at the front the whole time and before we got to the end everybody except for our group cheated and took a short cut. To everybody that waited at the other end it looked like we arrived last but I was proud of us all. Our group made 700 euros of the 2000 total for Cancer Research so we get to get our photo in the newspaper. I'm glad I've already lost weight as there is no way before that I would have let them take my photo.
We ate out and I had roast beef with Yorkshire pudding veg and mashed potatoes. When we eat at this place we usually have garlic bread to start and a nice puddingy dessert but even eating only one course both my daughter or myself were stuffed and unable to finish our meal so we are obviously getting used to much smaller portions.
In the evening I felt a bit bad about eating yorkshire pudding and mashed potato so went out for a long walk and managed to clock up 8000 more steps. I went on my own as my husband that usually walks with me on a Sunday was busy painting and nobody else was available. So as to not get bored on my own I went to the next town in the car as it is a tourist resort and has lots of activity going on to make the time go quicker.
Two days until my weigh in. I always panic and step the activity up from Sunday onwards.
I've been thinking that when I reach goal if I ever decide to put up photos I will have to ask around as I have deleted photos of myself off the computer for years.
 
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Congratulations on your walking achievement and raising money for cancer! Way to go!

I envy you about having the yorkshire puddings. I had my first about 32 yrs ago...the first girl I ever dated had a mom who made the best YP's I have ever tasted. I tried making them at least a dozen times only to end up with a flat glob of batter that was unedible.

So had I had your dinner, I'm sure I would have had at least a couple!

Have a great day!
 
This was a large one. The meal is actually served inside the pudding using the pudding as a bowl. I used to make wonderful yorkshire pudding until I moved to Spain 28 years ago. Don't know if it's the ovens or ingredients being slightly different but they have never turned out well here. It's one of my absolute favourite foods :)
Congratulations on your walking achievement and raising money for cancer! Way to go!

I envy you about having the yorkshire puddings. I had my first about 32 yrs ago...the first girl I ever dated had a mom who made the best YP's I have ever tasted. I tried making them at least a dozen times only to end up with a flat glob of batter that was unedible.

So had I had your dinner, I'm sure I would have had at least a couple!

Have a great day!
 
Just worked out how to do the tickers. I love looking at it as it makes me realize how far I have come already. Can't wait for it to reach the end :)
 
I love your ticker! It's such a cute way to keep track and I agree that it's very motivating. I can hardly wait to get to the end of mine and then start a whole new one!

Great job on the cancer fund-raing walk.
The way you dealt with the meal afterwards sounds great, too. You didn't deprive yourself, but just had a few things you really wanted. And then you did extra exercise to make up for it.
I hope I'll get to that point. I only changed my eating habits five weeks ago and don't feel that secure. I never stray from my "healthy" foods. But of course, every food can be healthy as long as you watch portions and keep exercising, right?
Thanks for the inspiration!
 
Hi Val, very inspiring to read your diary and to see how the motivation you
have to create the result that you are after is "sort off" pushing you along
the right path on a regular basis.

And the idea to burn off the extra calories from the meal after the charity walk
is just an example that you really understand what it takes to lose weight, and
obvioulsy you are also aware that this is exactly what will help you to maintain
it after your reach your ideal body weight.

In my opinion, the way you are going now, you should hit your target weight in
about 6 to 8 weeks. From my experience losing excess weight slowly is
much more effective, and this is why I always recommend for people to consume
their TDEE (total daily energy expenditure) and to burn off the weight they
want to lose with exercise i.e. mostly fast walking.

This is the most effective and easy way to lose weight because you don't
have to ever face the "culprit" behind all weight loss failure -- "hunger."

Plus, the weight that you lose while walking fast, mostly comes from the fat
cells in our body, since this is how our body fuels this activity once we reach
a certain intensity level. The truth is that the total calories burned is what
counts, because in reality if our body burns mostly glycogen (carbs) it has
to make up for this deficit by converting body fat to glycogen anyway, and
because of this there will always be fat loss from exercise, no matter how
high the intensity or how high the intensity.

But, from my experience, the majority of people can create permament fat
loss from walking because it is so easy, and everyone can walk, it is simply
so natural for use to walk, and obviosly thousands of years ago, humans
walked everywhere, and because of this I think the only people that had
excess weight were the Kings...lol

The interesting this is that the scientist have done tests and observed that
our DNA has changed only 0.02% over the last million years, don't ask me
how they do these tests, I really don't know, but these are official numbers
published in many official scientific journals.

What this means is that our bodies were designed for us to eat like the folks
that lived a million years ago, and taking this into account, it becomes
obvious that eating whole-foods (not processed or refined in any way)
is the secret to having a lean, healthy body for every one of us.

Talk to you later, and it is always a pleasure for me to read your diary, and
I hope that you write more information about what you eat, how you walk,
and your current philosophy about nutrition and exercise.

I truly believe that everyone in this forum, including me, will benefit from
your writing, because the positive charge from your writing can be felt
just by reading what you write, at least I can feel it for sure.

Bye for now, Alex Platups
 
The way you dealt with the meal afterwards sounds great, too.
You didn't deprive yourself, but just had a few things you really wanted. And
then you did extra exercise to make up for it.

I hope I'll get to that point. I only changed my eating habits five weeks ago
and don't feel that secure. I never stray from my "healthy" foods. But of
course, every food can be healthy as long as you watch portions and keep
exercising, right? Thanks for the inspiration!

Rox, not every food can be healthy as long as you watch portions and keep
exercising. It is important to make this distinction for yourself. While it's okay
to have cheatmeals once in a while (I have 3 per week), it is still important
to know that healthy food is "whole-food" (veggies, fruit, lean meat, fish,
shellfish, nuts, seeds) that has not been processed and/or refined in the
factories and lost all its nutrition like these unhealthy foods (i.e. sugar, white
flour, margarine, etc.).

While the healty foods provide you with calories that have all the
macronutrients (protein, healthy carbs, good fats) and also micro-nutrients
(vitamins, minerals) the second provides your body with empty calories that
are mostly driven into your fat cells, because there is nothing in that food
that the body needs or can use to function properly, and to use as building
blocks for all the bodily processes that are happening 24/7/365 !!!

And this is why folks that eat too many processed and refined foods are
always eating way more than their bodies can burn off. The human body
will demand food as long as it's not getting what it needs, and this only
comes from the "healthy" whole foods, and can't be provided by eating
"unhealthy" processed foods.

By the way, this is without a doubt the biggest mistake that I see being made
not only in this forum by the majority of people, but generally by almost all
people that are trying to lose weight in the world.

And, the statistics confirm that 99.9% of the people trying to lose weight,
eventually gain it back within 3-5 years. These are the people with very
strong wills, the majority gain the weight back much faster.

And the root of this is simple, viewing weight loss simply as calories in and
calories out, without taking into account the reality of the human body and
how it operates and what it needs to function properly.

...which is whole foods, mostly plant based, with some lean protein, and
good dietary fats (walnuts, pecans, olive oil, fish fat), plenty of water, and
plenty of physical activity on a daily basis.

...if this is not provided to the body, and a person is born with a slow
metabolism (i.e. endomorph body type) and mostly consumes refined and
processed foods, then the consequences will always be excess body weight,
there is simply nothing else that can happen, because the human body is
a structure that has been designed to SURVIVE, and in order to accomplish
this is needs the right amount of macro-nutrients and micro-nutrients, water,
and exercise on a regular basis, and if it doesn't receive this it starts to
break down, and all kinds of health problems show up.
 
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Hi there Alex,
you are making a lot of sense yet again :)
After reading your post something clicked with me. When I eat weight watchers desserts I always need to eat another one and then I am still hungry and never quite knew why but from what you are saying food with 'empty calories' leave your body still craving proper nutrients. I think deep down I knew that I should be avoiding these foods as althought they are low calories they lead me to actually eat more. I was slowly coming to that conclusion myself but hadn't quite got there until I saw it written down. It seems that the days I eat the most calories are the days I eat things like low calorie desserts. It's almost like they produce a craving in me for more food. I think I need to avoid this sort of food.

I have a question that you might know the answer to Alex.
Every now and again I get an obsessive craving for Salmon. I eat it a couple of times a days for a week or so. Tinned, fresh, smoked I constantly think about eating it, then rarely eat it until I get cravings again. So my question is: Is it possible that my body is lacking something that is in Salmon and making me eat it? I've heard of this happening when you are pregnant but not otherwise.
 
Yesterday went well. I was fairly busy around the house most of the day and then in the evening I went for a walk with my husband. We did 11000 steps and it was hard as he is pretty fit and has longer legs so walks much faster than I normally would. It's starting to get hot now the temperature was in the 30s yesterday so we went out after 8 oclock when it had cooled down a bit.
I'm a bit worried that I am going to slack off a bit on the exercise once the really hot weather gets here. I have decided to get one of those dip pools that you put together yourself. It will be about 3 and a half metres across so not big enough to swim but plenty big enough to cool off and to exercise in. The problem is we have to concrete off an area to put it and that means moving a lot of rubble from some other work that we did so that we can build foundations. I hope that we will get it done before the really hot weather gets here.
This is what I ate yesterday

3 mugs of tea with low fat milk
2 pints of water
I probably need to drink more as the weather is getting hotter. The problem is that I am rarely thirsty so don't remember to drink.

Breakfast
cereals (rice crispies) with low fat milk

lunch
200g boiled salmon
2 small boiled potatoes
sweetcorn
brown bread with low fat spread

dinner
200g boiled prawns
brown bread with low fat spread
salad

snacks
grapes
an orange
apricots (off my tree, delicious)
packet of skips
water melon
cherry tomatoes

I've realized that to a large extent I have replaced meat with fish. It wasn't a conscious decision but probably that I feel that I get more worth out of my calories with fish.
Tomorrow is weigh in day so I'll post the results when I have them.
 
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Hi there Alex,
you are making a lot of sense yet again :)
After reading your post something clicked with me. When I eat weight watchers desserts I always need to eat another one and then I am still hungry and never quite knew why but from what you are saying food with 'empty calories' leave your body still craving proper nutrients. I think deep down I knew that I should be avoiding these foods as althought they are low calories they lead me to actually eat more. I was slowly coming to that conclusion myself but hadn't quite got there until I saw it written down. It seems that the days I eat the most calories are the days I eat things like low calorie desserts. It's almost like they produce a craving in me for more food. I think I need to avoid this sort of food.

I have a question that you might know the answer to Alex.
Every now and again I get an obsessive craving for Salmon. I eat it a couple of times a days for a week or so. Tinned, fresh, smoked I constantly think about eating it, then rarely eat it until I get cravings again. So my question is: Is it possible that my body is lacking something that is in Salmon and making me eat it? I've heard of this happening when you are pregnant but not otherwise.

yes...good dietary fat, Omega-3!

...which is one of the essential fatty acids !!!

A good ratio of Omega-6 to Omega-3 is 2:1.

This means that for every 2 portions of Omega-6, you should be eating
1 portion of Omega-3.

The ultimate ratio is 1:1, this is when the body gets the perfect amount
of dietary fat that it needs to properly function, and it is when it is most
happy. Omega-3, and especially the right ratio of 2:1 or 1:1 is the
key to permanent fat loss and having a body filled with health and vitality.

Salmon is a very, very, very good source of Omega-3, but it must be caught
in the wild, and not raised on a farm where they are fed grains that contain
mostly Omega-6 essential fatty acids (EFAs).

Walnuts also contain good amounts of Omega-3, and obvioulsy Omega-3
supplements are also a good source of this macro-nutrient.

But, as you rightly pointed out on your own experience, empty calories are
what lead to hunger, because the insuling drives the processed carbs and
the unhealthy fats that are in unhealthy foods into the fat cells and since
there is no macro-nutrients and micro-nutrients in these foods it increases
a person's appetite in the hope that he or she will eat some healthy foods.

The best sources of omega-3 fatty acids are flax seeds, walnuts, and
salmon. Some other good sources of the omega-3 fatty acid are trout, tuna,
cod, snapper, halibut, shrimp, scallops, soybeans, tofu, miso, cauliflower,
mustard seeds, cabbage, broccoli, Romaine lettuce, Brussel sprouts, cloves,
oregano, winter squash, summer squash, collard greens, spinach, kale, turnip
greens, green beans, raspberries and strawberries.

This is from my own experience and obvioulsy from the deep research that
I have been doing for the last 15-16 years into the subject of proper nutrition.

Hope this helps, talk to you later Val.
 
Thanks for such a quick answer. Walnuts are one of my favourite foods but I have real problems not to eat the whole bag and as they are high calorie I tend to avoid them. I eat a lot of brocolli, shrimp, raspberry and strawberry also.
I just watched the video about the 3 body types. When I first started to lose weight I was aiming for the body I had when I was 20 but quickly realized that I was being totally unrealistic and should just aim for the best body I can for my age. At 49 kilos I would be saggy and wrinkly so it's a matter of deciding when I get to a healthy weight at what point I should stop losing weight so as to not look like a prune. I won't really know until I get there.
 
Thanks for such a quick answer. Walnuts are one of my favourite foods but I have real problems not to eat the whole bag and as they are high calorie I tend to avoid them. I eat a lot of brocolli, shrimp, raspberry and strawberry also.
I just watched the video about the 3 body types. When I first started to lose weight I was aiming for the body I had when I was 20 but quickly realized that I was being totally unrealistic and should just aim for the best body I can for my age. At 49 kilos I would be saggy and wrinkly so it's a matter of deciding when I get to a healthy weight at what point I should stop losing weight so as to not look like a prune. I won't really know until I get there.

yes, walnuts have a lot of calories, and this is why it is a good idea just to
eat a small handful of them either during one of your meals, or just add them
to a salad with fresh veggies.

When you reach the weight that you are happy with, all you have to do is to
adjust your calorie intake a little, and to keep using exercise on a regular
basis, which means that you will be eating more food than your body can burn off
by itself, but since you will be exercising these excess calories will be getting
burned off.

This is accomplished by increasing the size of your daily meals by a very small
amount and then observing the results. Eating 4 or 5 meals per day, every
3 to 4 hours, and each meal having all the 3 macro-nutrients in moderate
amounts is the most effective way to maintain your ideal weight. This is
about 20-30% lean protein, fish, and other seafood, 20-30% fresh vegetables,
20-30% fresh fruit, 20-30% starchy carbs (potato, brown rice, oatmeal, beans, etc).

...finding the perfect macro-nutrient ratio for your body does take some
practice, but once you have found it, you're home free. Is there a saying
like that, you're home free?...lol

...eating more food and using exercise to burn off the excess calories,
is an effective long-term strategy, and is a fool-proof way to keep the
excess weight from ever coming back, as strange as it is, everything else
always back-fires in the end, especially for people that don't have a really
fast metabolism...but these folks never gain weight in the first place!

This is the best way to maintain because it allows you to eat more food, the
healthy kinds obviously, and hunger becomes a thing that never visits you
again. Plus you provide your body with everything it needs to function
properly on a daily basis, and because of this you will feel healthy and will be
filled with energy on a daily basis!!!

...what more can you ask for?
 
I have to admit that was a bit worried about putting the weight back on when I get to goal weight as I have lost weight before but never been able to keep it off.
I feel more positive now though as I don't plan on changing the way I eat or exercise but just up the quantities a bit when I reach target weight.
I'm enjoying my food just as much now as when I pigged out. One square of chocolate eaten slowly gives at least as much enjoyment as stuffing a whole bar in quickly. I'm learning to appreciate the natural taste of food, strawberries without sugar and cream, corn on the cob without lashings of butter etc.
I think it is important to never get hungry as that is when the problems start.
 
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