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im afraid my efforts to talk to him have all been wasted. in one ear and out the other. he just doesnt seem to care. oh well enough of him.

got the monthly today and now i feel fat. feels like i gained a couple pounds.
cant eat, have to fast for the doctors.

the kids just scared the crap out of me. mommy, mommy, there's a big black man out front! where? i looked all around and didnt see anybody. so i was like oh cmon theres nobody out here, why'd you bring me out here for nothing? right there mommy! they all pointed across the street and there was this black halloween decoration hanging from my neighbors house! ROFLMAO!!!
 
LMAO kids are soooo cute! Big black men are nothing to be scared of, some could be quite sexy... I've met some big white men that I was affraid of though! LOL

sorry about your H. They ALL change. Eveyone does really. I've noticed in myself. after a while I was not so cute and giddy and giggly... so I kicked it up a notch and started acting like we were back in the begining. Then He started treating me like he did back in the begining... with men it is ALL ABOUT REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY!
try it... They HATE conversations, so we cant win there.
They HATE confrontations, so we cant win there..
They HATE rules, order, chores, responsibility, ect....
but with Reverse Psy... its a win/win situation.
Instead of doing things like taking out the trash cause you tell them to, they may start taking out the trash to help you..
IT TAKES A LONG TIME to master this trick of the trade (took me 3 yrs). but I got it!
I think I may have him wrapped around my finger.
DONT GET ME WRONG... you will have to put alot of effort into it... more than you would even want to...
after all, who wants to act all nice to someone who NEVER gives you respect.
But after a while he will feel GUILTY! and thats when your powers kick in!
 
You are just so dang smart Christina =-) And yes ... you are so right too !!! It is very true.. I've noticed a big difference in Jayson and I've only beein using that for like a month! ahah ...
WW - hahaha kids are too cute sometimes!! oh my gosh =) That is adorable!!!! How's ATkins going fo ryou? I'm loving it ... but it's gonna be that TOM for me too soon :( grrr * I hate it ... I feel so fat during it!!! arghhh. But we'll pull through :)
 
It took me 3 times to get it right. Of course before I found him I ended up raising 3 kids by myself. It's not easy but I decided I'd rather have to work my ass off than to have my babies live their lives in complete unhapiness. First one was a drunken drug addict who thought I was a great punching bag, second one was a drunken drug dealer(not very good at it) who thought I was too stupid to catch on. When I left him he told me I'd come back because I was fat, old and had 3 kids so nobody else would want me. Now I have a husband who loves me more than anything and would give his all just for me to be happy. The big thing is, if I hadn't taken the risk of making it on my own, I never would have met John. Now, I can't imagine my life without him.
 
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the kids just scared the crap out of me. mommy, mommy, there's a big black man out front! where? i looked all around and didnt see anybody. so i was like oh cmon theres nobody out here, why'd you bring me out here for nothing? right there mommy! they all pointed across the street and there was this black halloween decoration hanging from my neighbors house! ROFLMAO!!![/QUOTE]
I'm married to a big black man (6'5"/430lb) and he is nowhere near as scary as the skinny white man I married the first time!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Lol, you guys are funny!

I have been living with my hubby for 7 yrs now....married for almost 4. He's nice and all, just we fight about money and things get so out of control so fast. He's never come close to hitting me or anything, just is nasty. He's always saying "you don't work, you dont' bring in money, dont' tell me I can't buy (whatever) When you get a job, you can buy stuff" Jerk, lol

Christina, your so right!
 
Most married couples number one fight is about financial issues ... and yeah, alot of guys cannot control there tempers and what comes out of their mouths ... well they CAN, they just DON"T! haha
 
Christina said:
LMAO kids are soooo cute! Big black men are nothing to be scared of, some could be quite sexy... I've met some big white men that I was affraid of though! LOL

sorry about your H. They ALL change. Eveyone does really. I've noticed in myself. after a while I was not so cute and giddy and giggly... so I kicked it up a notch and started acting like we were back in the begining. Then He started treating me like he did back in the begining... with men it is ALL ABOUT REVERSE PSYCHOLOGY!
try it... They HATE conversations, so we cant win there.
They HATE confrontations, so we cant win there..
They HATE rules, order, chores, responsibility, ect....
but with Reverse Psy... its a win/win situation.
Instead of doing things like taking out the trash cause you tell them to, they may start taking out the trash to help you..
IT TAKES A LONG TIME to master this trick of the trade (took me 3 yrs). but I got it!
I think I may have him wrapped around my finger.
DONT GET ME WRONG... you will have to put alot of effort into it... more than you would even want to...
after all, who wants to act all nice to someone who NEVER gives you respect.
But after a while he will feel GUILTY! and thats when your powers kick in!
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hey those are pretty good tips! i used to cry a lot in the beginning (like i was really hurt). maybe i could start doing that again LOL!! i need to brush up on my reverse psychology..hmmm. this morning, he said goodbye to the DOG but did i even get a kiss goodbye? no of course not. thats pretty dam sad. :confused:
 
B - mozzarella string cheese

S - tsp. cottage cheese

L - 2 hardboiled eggs plus tuna pouch

S - tsp. cottage cheese.

dinner - small pita with 2 slices of turkey breast and 2 slices of american cheese.

plus 2 cups of coffee, 70 oz of water and 2 cups of diet green tea.

whoops forgot my veggies today! :eek: i guess that will be my snack later. a dinner salad and some cut up cucumber in it.


dont get too used to seeing food in here. i'm just going to add sample menus (a day here, a day there) so you all get an idea of what my atkins menu is like. still on induction phase day 9.
 
goodbye to the dog and nothing for you!
Then what you say is "goodbye hun.." "oh, I'm sorry, I thought you were talking to me..." and giggle....
He will do a double take and SHOULD say goodbye to you then....

see, instead of saying, "what the hell......___________" (fill in the blanks)

you do something like I explained, and they will reflect!
this is just an example.... you can mess with it and play it up any way you imagine...
 
OOohh yeah ... you can basically mold them into anything you want lol* Just takes a little time but it happens! To the dog ... COME ON!!!! Have you been losing on ATkins?
 
havent lost any weight, but like i said before i can tell i lost a couple inches! sad to say tho, i think i will have to go off atkins. my blood results came in today and they were terrible. cholesterol over 200 :eek: HDL too low! LDL (bad cholesterol) too high! and my cholesterol was just 165 last year! how the heck did it jump all those points in 1 years time? :confused: the doc doesnt think this is a good diet for me at all, expecially in light of my heart showing signs of atherosclerosis at such a young age. ugh i just cant win.
 
had half a whole wheat english muffin with peanut butter on it for a bit of protein. grr, hate eating breakfast tho cuz it makes me even MORE hungry the rest of the day. thats ok, i can fight it!! i got wonderwoman power!!! :p
 
Did the doctor tell you why it may have jumped that high in a year?....I hate that you have to go through all of that!!!!...How frustrating!!!!!..But I know you will pull through!....You always do!!!!
 
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Did the doctor tell you why it may have jumped that high in a year?....I hate that you have to go through all of that!!!!...How frustrating!!!!!..But I know you will pull through!....You always do!!!!
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my friend who is a nurse says its probably cuz i stopped walking every day like i was :eek:

i know, its my own damn fault! hard to believe my cholesterol was LOWER when i weighed MORE? :confused: now i got two things to worry about....
 
On eating breakfast… I used to have the same problem but I started eating wholegrain toast and I don’t feel the hunger like I used to. I was told to eat low gi for breakie, hope this helps hon.
 
i think your prolly right about that rose! cuz i bought some wholegrain english muffins and i been eatin those with a smidge of peanut butter and then i'm good for hours! but what does low gi mean?
 
Cholesterol is a bugger..its hard to fight it as sometimes its caused by family & sometimes by what you eat... Sounds like a Heart patient type diet is for you which is low fat, high fiber..that kind of fun stuff. The good cholesterol can be raised by exercising...even just getting back walking. I know that ive seen a diff in my wt loss due to me not walking..thats why i joined a gym...If you cant do that maybe find a couple tapes you like & do those at home... Dont lose hope!
 
yes kat i think your right. i definately need to watch the fat and up the fiber. also need to get out of lazy mode and get back to walking. i think after this competition is over i'm gonna have to stop spending so much time at the computer, its just not healthy!
 
Lots of fiber in this
The last site will give you a 12 week food plan. I hope this helps hun, have a good week.
 
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