"Niapage's"Out with the old In with the New"

I will hop on later and update some! I have been struggling trying to get along with his so called family with the nasty comments and negative advice so I completely am withdrawing them during this pregantcy.They seem to be keeping very upset and stressed and my doc even said the baby doesnt need this kind of stress they are putting me thru!BLAH OMG I gained 6lbs last month and a total of like 35-38 ish boy and I blame alot on stress and NOT all on being pregnant.I need to find a way to deal with my problems in a different way other than EATING!
 
i'm sorry your under so much stress hun ((hugs)) eating isn't the answer....you know ....I just hope you can find something you like to do....maybe reading or painting, making bibs for the baby??

i'm here for you if you wanna chat!
 
That sucks Tam - Im sorry:hug2:my second pregnacy was nothing but stress, my ex was an ass, the stress is horrible for the baby:hug2:

maybe you should start out by just going on walks or something...I dunno hun, im just sorry...why is his fam beign so stupid anyway ?
 
tammy sorry your going through so much stress with his family. I know how much stress can make being preggo difficult. i have a lot of stress going on in my life right now too. It sucks. I just try to remember being preggo and the stress on the baby isn't good for me or him and my son can tell when i'm stressed too so it isn't good for him either. hope you can get rid of some of the stress and things get better for you. hugs

heather
 
I'm sorry about all the stress. I like to sit and watch movies when I get stressed. And sometimes go on walks. They calm me down. Movie nights I use to "de-stress" during an over-all stressing time. And walking helps me calm down after a big stressor happens all at once. I hope you are doing ok.
 
*Hang in there doll* :hug2:

You're doin' the best you can with everything you have going on in your life right now. :seeya:

Love the pics!

I miss you! :)
 
Yaya we have power back on today!!

:hurray: You dont realize how much you appreciate the little things such as refriderator,light,sound from a TV it dont even have to be cable or dish network just sound plus the sound of a FAN when you try to go to sleep.

We have never ever seen anything like this in the history of KY/OHIO with a category 1 hurricane winds that left a ton of us with no power since Sunday at 3pm during the crappy BENGALS game it went out,my pool blew in because a week earlier the liner got a hole in it so it was empty and the 80 per mile wind caved the whole thing in the wind blew out a window in my girls room a small thick tree landed on the front bumper part of van and trying to entertain 4 kids while being 6 1/2 months pregg and down with a bad cold/bronchitis for over a week has been a NIGHTMARE!!!

I dont see how people along the COAST deal with hurricanes and they have it more worse than we did but since things like this dont happend here we were not prepared for this type of distruction.I must have spent $100 alone just in candles and batteries and ediable foods .The sleeping part was very hard since I was a child I always fell a sleep to a fan sound lol and being sick and pregnant and no fan and all of us sleeping in living room listening to snoring sleep talkers,dogs having bad dreams lol I got no sleep plus the usual 4 trips to the bathroom with a flashlight wow I am still shocked BUT we all have each other and dealt with it and we have power yippee!!

OK ONTO BABY/WEIGHT GAIN/UH OH LOL
The baby is doing great just scared he's going to be a big boy and I dont do well with labor and delivery at all epidurals work until I get above 8 centemeters then I feel everything not preasure like they say I feel ripping tearing PAIN PAIN inside and out so I am freaked about all that!My belly is HUGE all ready and my last son Hayden whom is 2 weighed 8.11 OUCH lol!
They still saying Christmas eve/day as due date BLAH hectic!!
I weighed 198 yep almost at that 200 mark again dam it!! I have my soon to be brother N laws wedding in APRIL so that will give me something to work hard for plus I froze my gym membership and I am unfreezing my account after the baby and going back at it. Well I will update again soon ,Tammy

:cheers2: HOWDY ,CERELLA,KORRIE,HEATHER,BMOHEARN,HICK ,KIMBERLY,I HAVE ALOT OF CATCHING UP TO DO!!
 
It is about time we hear from you!Im sorry about all going on up there and so glad you are ok:)!Text me sometime, or respond to mine, LOL!!!
 
Wow what a crazy experience! It is amazing and I don't know how those people deal with the hurricanes either! It sounds like you have so much going on! I am glad the electricity is back on. My mom got in a fight with the electric company and stayed without electricity and gas for 2 years! She's a bit crazy though. It is hard when you are used to having a fridge (she used coolers) and warm water and lights. I am glad everyone is ok! Glad to hear from you too. I have sort of fallen off the grid but I do like to check up on people:)
Please try not to stress the weight gain. Easier said than done as I am stressing about it too but it is what it is and after baby you know what to do and you can do it. Just treat yourself good and hopefully you will get some time to relax! Take care of yourself and those kiddos!
 
Glad you all are ok. text me sometime. i don't get on here much as i am on bedrest and having a 4 year old is hard enough. anyways... Cameron is trying to come way to early. I keep telling him he needs to stay put till october but we will see.. hopefully i can make it to 35wks so another 3wks at least.. and dealing with alex having seizures and now on meds for those. We spent most of the morning in the Pedi Icu this am with him. But all is well now i hope. Anyways talk to you soon. Also don't stress the weight gain. I am stressing more or less cause i haven't hardly gained at all and am worried baby wont' be as big as we would like.
 
That totally sucks about the power being out for so long. I hear ya on the fan lulling you to sleep. I'm like that, too. :D That makes it hard for me to sleep when our power goes out, too.

I hope your stress level has gone down now. I would keep your distance as much as possible from the rude people and their nasty comments. Who needs that crap, eh?

Take care of yourself, honey. :hug2:
 
Thanks GALS means alot to come back here and still have some friends on here (familar faces)also I really need you all when I hop back on and get fit again,:hurray:
 
Hola Nia, good to hear from you. Eeek about the storm - we had some nasty weather as well that was supposed to be similar and i stocked up on essentials only to have it fizzle out and turn out to be nothing but a few nasty gusts (ok maybe a little worse, but we kept power).
I hear your struggling with the weight and eating. Maybe its just best to focus on eating healthy than quantity etc (ie shoveling vege drill) to maintain a little more. Its oh so easy to gain weight but soo much harder to loose eh?
I moved house and gained a bunch and now im doing the whole loosing weight thing again - its much harder!
Xmas babys are fine, my firstborn was born on xmas day and i dont think ive ever had a problem. We just look at each other sometime in the middle of the year and go 'hey how about a birthday party on xxx weekend' and choose any old day of the year at our leasure when we have enough money and time :)

Good luck with the pain - you can always opt for a c-section now! lol
 
Congratulations Tammy on #5. That is a very special number of kids to have and such a good investment in your future happiness! Take care of yourself!
wow was I surprised to come back and find you were preggers - I couldn't believe it!
 
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