"Niapage's"Out with the old In with the New"

Hey Tammy!

Congrats on the new baby. You are going to be just fine! What's one more baby? By now you can probably do it with your eyes closed.

I know the cravings are hard to handle when you are pregnant, but you've worked so hard, and I know how hard you've worked because I've been checking on you for the last year, perhaps even longer. I think your strength will carry you through this pregnancy without losing control. You're going to be the cute mommy to be with the little bump. You can do this!!!

We'll be here for ya every step of the way. And lucky you get to breast feed and burn some mean calories afterwards.
 
im a bit disturbed that everyone here is offering congratulations. Not everyone is over the moon about being pregnant, especially when you already have 4 children and a marrige is on the rocks. Did it ever occur to you guys she might be going through a very hard time here trying to decide what to do? if she can even cope?
Having been in the same situation its not always a given that shes gonna have the baby and live happily ever after.

Sorry Tammy if im completly off the mark, but i just dont want you to end up feeling pressured into making the wrong choice for yourself. You need to do whats best for you.

And btw this post is sooo not pro-abortion or even anything about it for anyone thinking that. Its coming from somebody who has had 5 children and been on the verse of seperation when getting pregnant and knowing exactly what shes going through.
 
Ty and Yeah wishes it's been rough but in a way I must say it
is some sort of sighn!Me and hub have been talking more (despite)the hormonal thing now,but yeah things are working out in the "RELATIONSHIP" part but still shocked and not the happiest about going through this again after I was finally getting a semi break if you consider my 2 year old son a brerak terrible 2's x's 10 hahaha ANYWAY I am talking to people and getting a tad bit more excited plus I noticed each day I eat right and work out I feel that much better!

TODAY I went to the gym did 45 mins treadmill just fast walking then 20 mins on stationary bike and 50 crunches using 5 lb balls not 9lb.HERES what I ate
BREAKFAST
Apple cinn multi grain bar and a bananah 240 cals
LUNCH
1 and a 1/2 chicken tacos w/ reduced cheese,sour cream and HOTT salsa 450 cals
SNACK
1 100 cal ice cream sand
Dinner
1 lean cuisine lasagna w chicken patties-280 cals
Snack
2 cheese sticks and 10 fries baked in oven - 340 cals
quaker oats mini peanutbutter rice cakes dipped in teaspoon peanutbutter 180 cals
1 80 cal sunny delight with my prenatal vitaman

SO MY CALS LOOK TO BE AROUND 1,800ISH WHICH IS GOOD I THINK
TY ALL FOR THE SUPPORT AND IF I CAN TAKE CARE OF 4 AND BE SOMEWHAT SANE I CAN TAKE CARE OF 5 I LOVE ALL MY KIDS TO DEATH AND WOULDN'T CHANGE ANYTHING..............................
NOW IF THERE ARE TWINS BREWING...WHERES THE NEAREST BRIDGE LOL!
 
indeed there comes a time when you need more tha a van eh.
I do recall for some time taking 2 cars everywhere until we got a van. And then there are the snide 'sheesh cant ya keep ya legs together?' and 'did you figure out whats causing them yet?' remarks :)

Just because you did it x times before, doesnt make it any easier! lol though at least if you plan and train em right the older ones help out. Im so glad now my youngest is 9 - they all take care of themselves to a good degree. They can all make their own bed, do washing, change clothes, do dishes, clean the house, get their own breakfast/lunch/dinner (yes even the youngest can cook a fair lasagna!), pack their bag etc.

I love my kids, but boy bring on 10 years when i can leave home! (no im not waiting for them to leave home, im leaving home!)
 
WELL ACTUALLY!!!That was a major fighting thing between me and hubby he wanted to all the time and I am so pooped from taking care of my kids and others kids plus sex has always been a painful thing for me so "IT'S NOT THE CANT SHE KEEP HER LEGS TOGETHER COMMENTS HERE"!Because everyone that knows me knows I am not a BIG TIME SEX ADDICT LOL!
 
lol yeah thats normal :)
I just happened to get pregnant at the drop of a hat - including when on birth control. I was almost tempted to name the kids after each birth control they were concieved on :O
I wasnt even sexually active until 16 almost 17, and by 25 id been pregnant about 7-8 times and given birth 5. With the last one i asked the doctor to tie my tubes and because he knew my history he didnt even blink, just scheduled it in at the same time as the c-section. Because i was paranoid i made the hubby do the snip as well. It got to the point where i was to scared to have sex in case i got pregnant, and in fact that took a couple of years to actually work through. so when people said stuff about how many kids i had at such a young age it really hurt too :)

btw, i love that pic in your sig - wow i never realized you were that big to start off with - damn you lookin good now!
 
yeah my mom had a tubal happen to her and the baby had to be aborded so I did not want to that I have also been on DEPO for 2 and 1/2 years until the big bone disease scare then Pills made my blood preasure very high and bad migranes so CONDOMS it was so now I am definatley doing the tube tieing and also looking into something called ASSURE??The lady I babysit for said its a permentate thing and a non surgical presedure!!!So awesome I hope!!

WEIRD WISHES I got preggers with my 1st at age 25 then had 4 total now this is my 5th and last!
 
Wow wishes, another mommy of 5! And by 25! I started very young with my hubby and we had 5 by 22! He could breath on me and I got pregnant. I got my tubes tied 3 years after our youngest. And I was so scared to have sex! I was even affraid that the tubal lygation wouldn't work, but it has, thank God!lol! I just checked out your links, Good God woman, you are truley an insperation as well! Yes, there is hope for me!!!:)

niapage,

Yeah I got pregnant, with all sorts of birth control too. The only one that worked great was the Norplant that I had in my arm for four years. The only problem with that, is I gained 70LB's on it, and I was sooo dam scared that it would keep on going up for the next two years it was suposed to stay in my arm that I got it out. Oh and when I got it out, there was the neirve damage in my left arm, oh for about 4 years!

Wouldn't you know it,got that bugger taken out, and got pregnant right away with our third, right before College! Like I told you on my diary I was really depressed, and thought my whole life was going to be spent barefoot and pregnant... But you know how it goes, when you start feeling the baby move, ahh man, then I would allways get really pumped up! My 5th is now 7 and the family dinamics are so different, like Wishes said. It's really great, it's not the easiest road, especialy with marrital difficalties, I'm there, but totaly rewarding! Well you know!

Your doing great!

Hope you are haveing a great day besides the bloat!:waving:
 
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hmm i was lookin at norplant for my daughters, one way i know they are not gonna end up pregnant young and tied down until they are good and ready.
 
Well wishes, personaly I would not recomend it. For obviouse reasons. And there was another personal thing that happend as a result of it, that I rather not say on this post.

I know what you mean, I want the same for my daughters. My oldest is 15 now, she is the age I was when I married her father and had both her and my oldest son allready. Although I do not regreat my life for one minute. I want my chidren to shape there lives, not have what seems like just sercomstances shape them. If you know what I mean.I belive in rising to the ocashion, no matter what life throws at you, but I want better for my children. Who doesn't?

Maybe the IUD would be a good choice for your girls. It lasts 5 years, and will not effect your hormons (I belive). I have a bit of an issue with it, but it seems like a good option for some people. My daughter is way different then I was, well because she has me as a mother no doubt, so I don't have to really worry this second about birth control. But, I know, even maybe next year I will need to address this with her. After all dispite how your teen daughter is, comprimising situations can happen, regardless if wanted sometimes, that's the unforchunate truth. So I know this is coming up.:ack2:

Sorry to diary jack niapage, lol.. I hope you are doing well today:), you too wishes with your tummy:)
 
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Life sure isn't fair...lol :nopity: Here I am sitting here at age 36 with no kids, scared to death that I won't be able to get pregnant. And you three with your 5 kids, getting knocked up while on BC :D (I was on bc since I've been sexually active and not once pregnant--no longer using bc).

I totally can understand if Tammy would feel overwhelmed and uncertain about baby #5. When I first read that, I thought another baby is all she needs. But it's sounds like you're rolling with the punches pretty well. And I wish you the best--and hope this makes your H grow up a bit.

As to him wanting sex all the time, well, tell him that's why God gave him hands....:smilielol5:
 
bikinibound said:
Life sure isn't fair...lol :nopity: Here I am sitting here at age 36 with no kids, scared to death that I won't be able to get pregnant. And you three with your 5 kids, getting knocked up while on BC :D (I was on bc since I've been sexually active and not once pregnant--no longer using bc).
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Kimberly has complaints :nopity::nopity::nopity: - we gave up on BC when I was 28 and notified the quack of that fact when I was 29. Here I am at 48 and no kids!!!
Life sure isn't fair!
 
niapage said:
Ok gals I have a "BOMB" to drop...."I AM PREGNANT"!!! I am not happy right now but in time I will be.I have 4 kids and a 5th wowzer plus all the weight I have lost..:+(..My brother however made me feel a little better by saying there are 2 chicks at his gym that still workout and beside their baby bump they look great and they do it all just not HEAVY lifting so I am going to google search what I can do.I know I can still treadmill it and swim and maybe regular situps NOT using the 9 lb balls.I dont want to let this effect my hard work and I need to find happiness as you know me and hubby has had our problems now I feel we have to work things out.Anyway I will be back later just wanted to share the info so you know whats been on my mind..OH IT GETS BETTER LMAO!!!My due date would be CHRISTMAS EVE!!
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Wow OooO Wow Tammy! :grouphug:

I agree that research is the best thing you can do so you and the baby will be safe while you're still trying to have control over exercise and not gaining too much.

At least you have dropped so much weight already and have found your exercise groove! :party:

You're going to do fine and be the most awesome/sexy/fit preggy woman ever!! :D

Luv Ya!
 
Hello everyone...WOW what a week I ate badly a couple days BUT I have been doing some MAJOR walking and liking it and the gym 3 days so I am hoping it will balance itself..I am starting to come around on the whole preggo thing all tho I still dont feel preggo lol (knocks on wood)excpet these EVIL ASS cravings at times lol.
I soooooooooooooooooooo want a HEALTHY GIRL I havent raised a baby girl in 9 years and I love my boys but yeah want to end it with a girly lol.I so fell inlove wit 2 names if you combine my 2 girls names together which are "NIA and SAVANNAH you get "NIANNAH" pronounsed like "NEANNAH RYMES WITH RHIANNA LOL also I love :"PEYTON" my boy name will be "GAGE" BUTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT its going to be PINK hahahaha ok going to gym tonight and drop by diaries later *H*U*G*G*S:patriot:
 
the name Niannah is awesome! I'm glad you have been exercising a lot. You are setting an amazing example for your children!
 
ooo nice girls name. Yeah girls are cool! except when they come home knocked up lol!
if mine ever do that before they are 20 ill throttle them! :D
 
Glad to hear you are remaining active. So you are hoping for a girl, but when the time comes, will you find out or want to be surprised? How do the other kids feel about another silbing?
 
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