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There is nothing wrong with the friendship you have made with this gentlemen, NOTHING! Obviously he has something that you need right now, and hey that's hard to find. You know when crossing the line is crossing the line, so just be aware of that. At this time, I see nothing wrong, with enjoying a friendship with someone that is fulfilling something for you. I just suggest keeping him aware of your intentions, so there is no heart break for either of you. Slow is good, I agree with you on that, but no lines have been crossed, so you can pull back a little still and nobody will get hurt. Enjoy your new friend, we can never have to many of those!! :D
Kim
 
WOW, he must have some powerful Ora about him. I say give it a little more time, see if he's up for an emotional cry from a women, you know some men freak out over that, but if you think it's time, it might be. Women have good instincts, go with yours. It seems that this man may be good therapy. But trust in yourself and go with you gut on this. If it were me, I might wait a little longer, but that's only me. ;)
 
Hi Kelly, I certainly don't think of you as a "loose woman". It sounds to me like you are hungry for friendship, which is something we all are (or at least most of us are).
 
Kelly, I'm going to be dead honest here. I think your mind, based on previous experience, is sending you clear warning signals that you may want to sit down and evaluate. You've set yourself bounderies for a good reason...because you've learned the hard way the dangers of crossing them. It has nothing to do with bad intentions or being a loose woman or any of that nonsense...because you are not....it simply has to do with figuring out exactly what emotional needs you are seeking to fill and then finding a way of meeting them that won't cause you pain in the long run. Sometimes we have to be a little selfish to be healthy - if you give everything you've got - what's left for you? In this case, just IMO, the "healthy selfish" thing to do is assume that a man who has lived for 85 years is quite adept at taking care of his own emotional needs...and the more important thing here is your own self-reflection and self-protection.

I don't know at all if that came out the way I intended...but I'm going to hit the "submit" key anyway...
 
Miss Ladybug, Cym and TomO said it all so perfectly Kelly. Its good to be aware of your intentions (like Ladybug said) but I think two people finding companionship and friendship, no matter what the ages, is a beautiful thing. I think you are both lucky to have met.
Michelle :)
 
Cym you are right he is capable of looking after himself. I was brainwashed at a young age to believe that I and all women are evil temptresses.
 
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Cym you are right he is capable of looking after himself. I was brainwashed at a young age to believe that I and all women are evil temptresses.
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Work on getting that out of your psyche. We are goddesses for whom a man is only priveledged that we even bless him with our look or touch :D We are strong, beautiful, worthy, and bring happiness and love where ever we go. Say it with me now!

You're an Aries woman--you will always refresh and charm us with your brazen, open, exciting attitude :)
 
AMEN!! To what CURVES just posted!!! We are godesses, and don't let anyone else tell you otherwise. :D Now smile damit!! Your wonderful, and he knows it!!!! and so do we!
 
I learned to like extreme behaviour, being bipolar, and I have been extremely friendly in this case. It has cost me. I hope it will not affect him. Moderation is better. Extremes are exhausting. My extreme friendliness has depleted me.

Hey Kelly, I work for a wonderful bipolar boss, my best friend is bipolar, and one of my better friends at work is too. I know it can be a battle. Its amazing the garbage that we learn at a young age. As far as you being an evil temptress, I don't see it. You're a wonderful, warm, and supportive person. You are really learning yourself and I find people who know themselves are both the sexiest people and the best friends. You deserve to be happy. Don't ever forget that.
 
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Hi Kelly; people who share too much of themselves with others, can get hurt. Keep some of your cards close to your chest and wait for others to share their stories with you. Now why does that sound like something you'd read in a horoscope? LOL Have a great weekend Gorgeous, and go have a cry in the arms of an old friend (even if it's a friend of the canine variety).
 
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Let me backtrack. The first day I met him I thought "here is a WLF buddy in person", except he's older than Tomo (!). This guy works out, and talks about his food, he's strong, and he's 85. Could you blame me for wanting to rub shoulders?

I need to create some space or at least not create any more closeness.
 
Its true I was very attracted to Michael. His character and athleticism and advanced age and virility. But I have come to my senses.
 
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Miss Ladybug, Cym and TomO said it all so perfectly Kelly. Its good to be aware of your intentions (like Ladybug said) but I think two people finding companionship and friendship, no matter what the ages, is a beautiful thing. I think you are both lucky to have met.
Michelle :)
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Well said Michelle...Kelly dont think of yourself as you ahve descriped - nothign wrong with wanting a friendship or even an intimate one and by that I mean close and personal with out anythign else ya know - sometimes I wonder myself if I just crave that closeness to a man - I have no men directly invovled in my life - mostly for a reason but sometimes we desire what we do not have - I have no words of advice or anythign...jutst know I am here and you are not loose or anything else you are thinking...chase those bad thougths away...
 
Hey I've missed you Kelly!! I hope you had a really good weekend!! And I know your on the right path. Keep it up my friend!! :)
~~HUGS~~
Kim
 
183 this morning! I am looking forward to changing my ticker on May 1.

Yes, I fell in love a week ago.

Last month I kept a vigorous watch on my weight, this month hardly at all, but still tracking calories on fitday, and I am have lost four pounds so far this month. This is wonderful. I am locked in to not overeating.
 
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