Justme is finally ready to go for it!

It is hard being a single mom - it really is and I dont think alot of people really understand - how hard it is and how much it takes outta you...I didnt want to do it agian wiht a second because I knew how hard it was with the first - well actually it was easy wiht just Kaylea but two is super hard - never enough time money or energy...never enough me...

Your an amazing woman and how you dealt wiht everythign was great...I only wish Icould have take steal or borrow some of your great attitude towards hwo you dealt with everyhtign ie the x and still do...that is where I still fall apart...

Im so glad to have you hear and now we can be a daily part of eachothers lives...it is nice...

I am totally here for you Shelley anythign at all I can do...and I am rootin for ya babe and I knwo you cna do this if I can you can :D:D:D...and especially Dari - two young ones and a tight budget...she has done great !!!
 
You're awesome! I had a so so day... was outside playing with my darlings until a few minutes ago...

HOCKEY GAME TONIGHT!
(No snacking!)
LMAO

Single Parenting -- I actually kinda like it... This will be a rare weekend for me - the BF is not coming over (lives 2 hours away) as he has a ton of work to do to get his house ready for sale.... We'll see how it goes! LOL
 
Out? Please explain this out idea?

Right now my son Rich is out.. Sean is sleeping.

Me - out... never in the same sentence

*sigh*

Feeling a little down.

Just ate a huge ice cream cone.

:(

I suck.

But I will get better!

*Whine* I want a treadmill! :p
 
one ice cream cone won't kill your day - keep going..

you don't suck... at all -

as yourself why you had the ice cream cone and work towards better options in the future - though ice cream can be worked into any food plan if it's what you love.. no reason t give up treats
 
It is one day and one step at a time HSelley - you can and will do this and you hav me here and everyone else to help ya along the way !!!
 
Justme said:
Ok tired. I wish I had energy. I was up with nightmares half the night :(
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Yours or the boys - ha ha ha...:p :p :p

I was dreamin abt food last night but it was nutrious food - like brocolli and cauliflower - geeesh hey - i guess I am transformed
 
Hehe - and was that a nightmare! HAHA

I dreampt I was pregnant! (Nope not the nightmare part lol - although that would be pretty damn scary too!) The scary part involved Sean (3) and a train - and Sean jumping off a platform and down 15 feet. :s I hate it.
 
Justme said:
Hehe - and was that a nightmare! HAHA

I dreampt I was pregnant! (Nope not the nightmare part lol - although that would be pretty damn scary too!) The scary part involved Sean (3) and a train - and Sean jumping off a platform and down 15 feet. :s I hate it.
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Oh that is nt good - sorry to hear that i hate having night mares - are you dealing with more than usual ???
 
You have to be in this for the long haul :). One ice cream cone won't make you overweight more than one long walk will make you fit. You can do this :)
 
Good Morning you - I love having you here - it is liek having a sister I can check in wiht daily - ya knwo i love you as well and that is why I am here to offer you soem tough love ok- be open to it...

The best thign I even did for myslef was stop makin excuses - if you wanan loose this weight you need to figure out how to get more active ... and before oyu even think I have two young ones - you see that is an excuse...

figure out hwo you can be active with them or around them or I dunno...

or look to buy used exercise equipment - I bought my Elliptical off of craigs list for 40 bucks...
I am asingle mommy as well - granted one of my kids is older yes but most of everything i do is with the youngest...and I do alot of exercise at home...I alos belong to Curves which is just a 30 min work out - there are ways to obtain what you want you just gotta go out and find that way...

Seriously though - making no more excuses was what kicked my ass into gear - If will stressed for time I will do a dancing vid or soemthign as i cook - yes - Im a dork but it gets the exercise in and Taneesha 9my youngest) exercises with me - we do Yoga together and tae bo and richard simmons videos

anyway I just wanna see you succeed but attitude is key my friend...

we are like children that way - if we keep telling ourselves soemthign we will believe it - just like if you keep telling a child what they are they will become that - mind over matter Shelley
 
Oh I love your siggy Justme. :)

The first time I saw the pic in my avvie it had the caption "You can do this"!

You can too. :)
 
here's for mantras :D I can do this too, I can do this too, I can do this too :D:D
its helping hehe
sorry to hear about the nightmare.
keep going strong girl :D

Lena

P.S. its ok to have an icecream hehe just try to control when and why :) (at least i have to hehe)
 
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