Juliette1
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Howdy!
I'm definitely getting better. Fever's down, mind's clearer. Now I only have to fight the urge to start doing things right away. But (after missing a full week of work for this) I have a really good motivation for being healthy next week, so I'm being reasonable. No housework, no work-work, absolutely no exercise, no nothing. I concentrate on getting better still.
I've been catching up on my reading, though, that's not too strenuous, right?
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/harsh-truth/9442-top-5-ways-gain-fat.html Read this, you MUST!
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/topic/9468-you-dont-have-starve.html Ditto..
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/club-challenges/9057-lenten-challenge-suggestion.html#post186703 Habit-forming 101..
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/weight-loss-diary/8425-journey-not-destination.html More inspirational reading from Steve..
Having read those I decided it's time for an evaluation of the present situation.
Waist: highest 36 inches, now 31 inches (good to be under 31.5 according to health recommendations), lower than that last probably about 16 years ago..
Weight: highest 73 kg, now 67.5 kg (BMI 24.8, so in "healthy" range), lowest (in last 12 years) last spring 64 kg, lost a lot of weight quickly due to minimal eating, came back quickly as well...
General feeling and mood: highest at 71->73 kgs last Oct-Dec, going to the gym 4-5 times a week, at the same time waist >33 -> <31, eating healthy and quite much;
now quite low, due to some extent to being ill, eating non-existantly, but mostly to not being able to "fuss myself happy" that is, doing so much all the time that there's no time to think, seems as soon as I stop to think I find I'm not treating myself very well;
lowest last spring after the quick weight-loss, had additional reasons, though; it's a real bummer when your mood and outward appearance (commented by other people) don't match, no matter which way it goes
Resumé of all that:
Q: Is this working for you? A:
Q: How did this happen? A:
Q: Do you know better now? A: I sincerely hope so!!
I'm looking for a lifelong solution to taking good care of myself here. I want to be in good mood in my head, be in good shape in my body and look good outside to suit how I feel inside. Preferably all of those at the same time in the same universe&dimension&personality too...
I don't want the rest of my life being about the number on the scale. I want to improve my body to enjoy it, not to obsess about some aspects about it. I don't want to learn a lifestyle I can't maintain for the rest of my life. And I definitely don't want to look great according to my friends and feel absolutely rotten inside.
Since it takes 28 days to form a new habit (bless you, Mal!), but no-one never said those 28 days would be easy, I'd rather (this time) try to plan first and do then rather than think "I should've" in three months/years or something.
SO: back to the drawing board...
I'll get back to you, and in the meantime, go read Steve or some Harsh Truths, do a sit-up for me or jump rope, I'm sure it won't take me more than three weeks to come up with a plan to show you..
Juliette (trying to get better in more ways than one)
I'm definitely getting better. Fever's down, mind's clearer. Now I only have to fight the urge to start doing things right away. But (after missing a full week of work for this) I have a really good motivation for being healthy next week, so I'm being reasonable. No housework, no work-work, absolutely no exercise, no nothing. I concentrate on getting better still.
I've been catching up on my reading, though, that's not too strenuous, right?
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/harsh-truth/9442-top-5-ways-gain-fat.html Read this, you MUST!
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/topic/9468-you-dont-have-starve.html Ditto..
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/club-challenges/9057-lenten-challenge-suggestion.html#post186703 Habit-forming 101..
http://weight-loss.fitness.com/weight-loss-diary/8425-journey-not-destination.html More inspirational reading from Steve..
Having read those I decided it's time for an evaluation of the present situation.
Waist: highest 36 inches, now 31 inches (good to be under 31.5 according to health recommendations), lower than that last probably about 16 years ago..
Weight: highest 73 kg, now 67.5 kg (BMI 24.8, so in "healthy" range), lowest (in last 12 years) last spring 64 kg, lost a lot of weight quickly due to minimal eating, came back quickly as well...
General feeling and mood: highest at 71->73 kgs last Oct-Dec, going to the gym 4-5 times a week, at the same time waist >33 -> <31, eating healthy and quite much;
now quite low, due to some extent to being ill, eating non-existantly, but mostly to not being able to "fuss myself happy" that is, doing so much all the time that there's no time to think, seems as soon as I stop to think I find I'm not treating myself very well;
lowest last spring after the quick weight-loss, had additional reasons, though; it's a real bummer when your mood and outward appearance (commented by other people) don't match, no matter which way it goes
Resumé of all that:
Q: Is this working for you? A:
Q: How did this happen? A:
Q: Do you know better now? A: I sincerely hope so!!
I'm looking for a lifelong solution to taking good care of myself here. I want to be in good mood in my head, be in good shape in my body and look good outside to suit how I feel inside. Preferably all of those at the same time in the same universe&dimension&personality too...
I don't want the rest of my life being about the number on the scale. I want to improve my body to enjoy it, not to obsess about some aspects about it. I don't want to learn a lifestyle I can't maintain for the rest of my life. And I definitely don't want to look great according to my friends and feel absolutely rotten inside.
Since it takes 28 days to form a new habit (bless you, Mal!), but no-one never said those 28 days would be easy, I'd rather (this time) try to plan first and do then rather than think "I should've" in three months/years or something.
SO: back to the drawing board...
I'll get back to you, and in the meantime, go read Steve or some Harsh Truths, do a sit-up for me or jump rope, I'm sure it won't take me more than three weeks to come up with a plan to show you..
Juliette (trying to get better in more ways than one)