Yes I have dumbbells and I'm ready to try what will work.
Exercises that I recommend you implement into some sort of routine. We can talk about program design a bit later, but I just wanted to give you a reference of the basic movements you should be using with free weights.
Some of these videos have some "hardcore" guys showig you the lift. Please don't let that fool you into believing that these lifts are for the serious athletes only. They should be the basis of any solid training program.
These links will take you directly to the videos, however, I also recommend going to the main site and reading the descriptions of the exercises so you understand the execution. Form is everything. Bad form can = a dangerous movement. Good form = good results and no injury. That said, if you have any questions regarding the form of these exercises, please feel free to ask. The main web adress is
Most of these exercises can be done with either a barbell or a set of dumbbells.
For legs, I am a fan of all deadlift variations as well as all squat variations. The deadlift will focus more on your posterior chain (lumbar, glutes, and hamstrings), while the squat will bring your quads more into the picture.
Two examples of the deadlift that I would recommend are:
The Romanian Deadlift:
And the Conventional Deadlift:
Two examples of the squat that I recommend are:
The Back Squat:
And the Front Squat:
Some additional exercises for legs that I like are:
The Lunge:
And Step-Ups:
OK, now let's look at some of the horizontal pressing movements that are core to any fundamental routine:
First, there is the all mighty barbell bench press:
Which can also be done using dumbbells:
With this exercise, you can vary the degree of angle that you work with on the bench. All angles will bring your entire chest into play, however, the more you incline the bench, the more your upper chest and anterior deltoids will come into play. The more you decline the bench, the more lower chest will come into play.
Also, if you are not ready for weighted horizontal pressing exercises. I suggest starting with some variation of your basic push-up. If you are strong enough, which most females probably are not in here, you can do your basic push-up. If you can't, start by doing push-ups with your knees on the floor until you can build up enough strength for the basic push-up.
Now, let's look at horizontal pulling movements.
First, there is the Barbell Row:
Core and lumbar stability is very important with any exercise where you will be leaning forward with a load. I highly suggest doing more research on the website I linked above as well as other sites to better understand the mechanics of this, and all other movements I have posted. Or, you can always ask me about proper execution.
Next there is the basic cable row, which I would recommend as a good starting exercise for horizonal pulling:
Mind you, this is simply an introduction, there are literally hundreds of exercises for each plane of motion. Even if you browse the website I have included, you will find hundreds, and this site doesn't include every exercise. So as you can imagine, you can get into some pretty detailed exercise selections.
Next let's look at your basic vertical pressing exercises.
First, there is the standing vertical (military) press. You can do these seated as well, and if you have lower back issues, I would recommend it. If you don't though, I recommend doing these standing, simply due to the fact that you bring more muscles into play by doing so:
Here is a vid of doing the same exercise as above, except you are using DB and you are seated, just to show the variation:
Last plane of motion we will look at is veritical pulling.
Here you have things such as the pull-up. These are very difficult for most individuals, especially those with a lot of weight to lose. That said, you can do assisted pull-ups with the help of a spotter or you can use a machine that assists you with weight, in so that you don't have to pull up you entire body weight:
I actually suggest focusing on cable pull downs before moving to pull-ups of any sort. This will allow you to pick your weight and build up strength in vertical pulling movements. With these, you can use many variations of grip and handles, but here is a vid of a basic cable pull down:
Again, this is only the tip of the iceberg. We did not get into accessory, isolation movements. But for the beginner, especially those looking to lose weight, I don't think they belong in a program. The basic, big, compound lifts are what you should be focusing on.
We can get into more detail of program design on a personal basis, as each person is not going to have access to all this equipment and each person is going to have unique goals.