My boyfriend is super innocent. He would never, ever try to hurt me. He is just clueless. I'm his first girlfriend. lol I have to remember that he's still learning. The problem is that he has been SO fantastic 99.9% of the time. When he does seem to mess up, I'm blindsided by it, and just automatically think that he should have known better.
His dad is kind of crude. No tact whatsoever. I'm really surprised that my bf came out as well as he did. Not saying his dad is a bad guy. He would do anything for the people he loves. He just lacks etiquette. And tact. And politeness. lol
For good measure, I had my boyfriend sleep on the couch last night. While I understand that it was an innocent comment, he needs to learn to think before he speaks...and that I'm serious about it. Training men is a life long job!
The whole reason we even had the discussion last night, was because we decided to get take out food. I was going to cook, but just didn't feel like it. We started with the idea of pizza. A lot of places have online calorie counters now. We went through Domino's, and decided that the healthy options didn't sound appealing. I went to Rally's(Checker's) site. omg. The biggest burger they had was 800 calories! The smallest was around 500! Their fries, at the smallest, were around 400. SO...I said no.

Taco Bell was the final decision. I went through a few combinations, at which that was the point he made his comment. When he was done, I told him that he may be losing a little weight now, but when he's 30 and having his first heart attack, I'll try not to say, "told you so." I told him that he was losing, and gaining, water weight. I told him that people who eat junk build up fat around their organs, first. When you first start losing fat, that's the fat that goes first. He's not losing that fat. I am, because my eating habits are healthy. He fluctuates, in a week, between 280 and 270. He never goes below, and never maintains. I told him that when he loses, and doesn't keep losing, or at least maintain, he should be giddy about it. He's not doing his body any favors. I told him that if he just gave up his 24oz Mountain Dew that he has every day, he would see a world of difference. It would be hard at first, but it WOULD get better.
Losing weight isn't easy. Putting it on only seemed easy, because I didn't realize what was happening. Losing is hard, though, because you have to change all of the bad habits, and keep it that way. Yesterday was especially hard on me, because it was my long day. I was up for 24 hours, and kept it to 1500 calories. I exercised, just so I could eat a little more. All I know, is that my calorie fluctuation and my decision to do cardio is working. I weighed in today at 266. 2lbs less than yesterday!

Thank you ladies for your support!!!
