Hi there
Excuse me for not picking up on this, but what is your gender? your name has thrown me off. It has been my experience that guys LOVE curves on a girl! There is nothing a girl can do to "unwiden" her hips - it's just the way we are made. The amount of fat on those hips, however, is somewhat more up to us! That said, I can certainly see where a fella might not feel overly comfortable having hips that appear wider than his mates!
ABBA